A Narcissist’s Damage: They Poison Your Mind, Heart, Soul and LIFE

A Narcissist’s Damage: They Poison Your Mind, Heart, Soul and LIFE

A Narcissist’s Damage: With narcissists, it is a hideous, demeaning, debasing, ANGRY, and abusive coexistence that we get conned and TRAPPED into.

A Narcissist clearly crosses the boundaries of defying another person’s human rights and dignity, so much so it is clearly classified as psychological/emotional abuse and domestic violence.

Related: What Is Emotional Abuse? How To Know if You are Being Abused

They tear down a person’s psychological well-being in such an insidious/sadistic manner that the target becomes completely vulnerable, unprotected and fearful. A Narcissist is completely pathological in every single aspect of how they relate to the people and the world around them. Unfortunately, their world is completely delusional, one in which they do not allow individuality because they are absolute rulers (dictators) in that world.

The unfortunate fact is that a Narcissist needs people in their lives to SURVIVE but they just don’t ‘like’ or ‘relate’ to people so it is hideous, demeaning, debasing, ANGRY, and abusive coexistence that we get conned and TRAPPED into.

A Narcissist’s Damage: They Poison Your Mind, Heart, Soul and LIFE

What happens to victims of narcissist’s damage?

Victims of narcissist’s damage often appear uncertain of themselves, constantly seeking clarification that they haven’t made a mistake or misheard something. Their confidence becomes so low that they have trouble making simple decisions, questioning and re-questioning things.

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This is a direct result of the emotional and psychological abuse used by the Narcissist to erode their self-esteem as well as instill confusion and anxiety into the victim to the point where they no longer trust their own memory, perception or judgment. This is skillfully guided by the Narcissist and it clouds reality with leading statements like “I never said that”, “You are crazy”, or “you are imagining things.”

The Narcissist will even step up the game by reinforcing what they say by backing it up with statements from friends, co-workers, or relatives that supposedly agree and ARE very concerned about the target/victim (and probably just more lies).

Gradually, the target/victim will NOT trust their own perceptions and doubt themselves completely. This more than often also induces depression and anxiety – two separate issues that will have to be dealt with as well as the ‘other’ consequences of this hideous abuse.

The target/victim is totally broken and unable to trust their own perceptions in life (the ones we take for granted as just knowing what to do in life, etc.,) so they isolate themselves because life is just too confusing and they fear it. The victim now doubts everything about themselves, their thoughts and opinions, their ideas and ideals.

Ask yourself here and now if you are experiencing this, maybe it is a feeling of hopelessness, fear, confusion, or just an abnormal sense of life, one where you feel very alone and without a real objective to change or fix this or moving forward.

Targets/victims will become co-dependent on the abuser for their reality and the Narcissist loves this because that is their goal – TOTAL CONTROL of your thoughts and actions and they are at the steering wheel driving this abuse full forward. Who does this but a highly disordered human being with a dark agenda?

Who could take, steal away or destroy any portion of another person’s life for any reason yet alone the agenda of a highly disordered Narcissist that is basically driven by their own hate AND an extortionist as well that wants everything they can take from another human being.

Do you know there are things that narcissists are afraid of? To understand watch this interesting video:



No relationship ever ends in such a shroud of hate and destruction as one that ends with a Narcissist. They annihilate every aspect of the relationship, the person, their life, their family, their friends AND basically everything in a manner to completely disable you/us.

19 thoughts on “A Narcissist’s Damage: They Poison Your Mind, Heart, Soul and LIFE”

  1. Avatar of MsRhuby Star-Diamond
    MsRhuby Star-Diamond

    Yeah but …. Speaking as a survivor myself there is a silver lining. God only gives us what we can handle, He must have known we are badasses! I’m an overcomer, how ’bout you? Have you seen any good come from this experience? Could you have learned any other way?

  2. Avatar of Poornima R

    Thanks alot for this article. I just wish I had found it sooner. Its been 3 years since I broke up with such a poisonous relationship and still I am not completely over it. I still hear his voice in my head , breaking my confidence. Ive been completely lost and now I’m regaining myself through rigorous therapy.
    I empathize with those who had to live with or come across such people in their lives. I wish you’d be able recover and regain yourself after everything you’ve gone through.

  3. Avatar of Juan Collado

    It took me a long time to figure out this in my parents, and how people are used as narcissistic food by these predators. The damage they do is horrible and the vicious circle that engulfs us must be broken even if it is your family members, you gotta let them go and start to repair yourself..

    1. Avatar of Brenda Ann

      Family scapegoat here, and I see and feel you Juan. I’ve been wrestling with the idea of going no contact for a few months. Everything in me is telling me it’s the only way forward for me. Just reaching for the courage now, and your words are helpful, thank you. Sending strength and support your way.

    2. Avatar of Juan Collado

      Thank you, and I wish you well in your effort and hope that you find the peace and healing that you seek and need. It is indeed a very difficult thing to have to accept especially when one is raised by a person with this problem. Once I started to research the bewildering behaviors they exhibited and the drama and pain they caused it opened my eyes and explained a lot and I understood that it was NOT me who had the problems..I have had to go full no contact for a few years now and once you remove yourself from their “orbit” you can see things much clearer and even though I have gone almost totally family-less, the trade off has been a more peaceful life..Good luck..

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