Signs whether he regrets losing you and wants you back
Relationships are seldom as easy as you want them to be. While some relationships tread towards a road to eternity others merely slither back into their holes. There could be a dozen reasons why your relationship met with a devastating end, but what’s worse is the regret that keeps clinging to your heart for long.
Have you been thinking lately if your man regrets losing you? Does he contact you often and sends mixed signals? Well, when put together this can brew a sense of confusion in your mind which you might not be able to cope with.
Read the signs that will help you beat the blues right now!
1. Something’s keeping him waiting
When you love someone with all your heart and you want them back in your life, it seems almost impossible to move on with the blink of an eye. No matter how many women approach him to get laid or date them for their special features, if he regrets losing you, he is going to find it hard for anything to tempt him.
If you’ve constantly been hearing about his negative adamance when people ask him out, you know you are keeping him waiting. By maintaining a decent distance from anybody who wishes to be with him, he is displaying his availability for you and how he wishes direly that he can have his space back in your life. If this is him, my dear, it’s a major sign!
2. Contact remains intact
Most partners find it difficult to fall out of the habit of contacting each other even after a breakup. While some partners do feel this way most of the others merely do it as an excuse to keep in touch. In your case, it might be the second.
If your man is constantly contacting you by some means or trying to remind you of the golden days of your relationship, he is surely cooking a plan in his head to have you back. Most of the time, this sign is hard to pick as they might not come in their usually expected ways. But the different reasons why he wishes to stay in touch might be inevitable to understand when you communicate.
3. Sorry isn’t just a word
Your man might not have been apologetic about his behavior while you were together but now when you are apart, it pinches him. It’s not only evident by his words but actions altogether. The slightest things that made you bloat with anger earlier, now make you feel a sense of astonishment within your mind.
Whether it’s his way of speaking or it’s his change of patience, everything seems to have taken a 360-degree turn for him. If your man is rendering an apology by both strong words and effective actions, then it’s quite fair to say that he is regretful about losing one of his most priceless possessions.
4. The separation is unacceptable
Many-a-times in life, we fail to accept certain situations, because we hardly want to accept them in the first place. The same might be happening in your case without your realization. While you think that your man is only being adamant about talking to you or being with you the case might be quite the contrary.
He must be fighting a battle with himself about accepting and not accepting the reality of your broken relationship. If he often raises an argument about you not contacting him, or feels uncomfortable about seeing you move on with another guy, it’s a clear sign that he is unable to process the breakup through his system.
5. His gestures do the talking
For most men breakup seems to do the job that you alone could never dare do. Suddenly, all the romance of the world and love of the universe seems to be showered on you when you break up. Do you feel what I am saying? This is a sign that he wants you back and regrets losing you at all.