When The Narcissist Is Left Alone

I have a strong belief that people who treat others poorly and have no empathy or compassion for others, will be shown no compassion in later life when their looks are gone and all that is left is an empty shell.

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We are always told to look on the inside, look at how someone treats others, look at their heart and look at their soul. What’s on the outside doesn’t really matter. It’s the inside that counts. What’s on the inside of a narcissist? Nothing, zero, zilch.

They have spent their entire lives abusing others, knowing what they do and without a second thought for the pain that they inflict on others time and time again.

The narcissist is an immature, angry, volatile and controlling individual. They spend their lives attempting to form relationships. Sadly, it’s not a partnership they are seeking but a dictatorship where they have all the power and control. Eventually people get sick and tired of their behaviour and abandon them. A string of failed relationships adds to their already fragile self ego. By bringing about their own abandonment as a result of their abusive and despicable behaviour, they inflict upon themselves, a deep narcissistic injury. Somehow the narcissist will delude themselves into believing that their own self destruction is someone else’s fault.

Much like a drug addict without their supply, the narcissist can’t cope when supplies become scarce and run out.

They become chronically depressed and angry and find no pleasure in anything. Things that they used to enjoy, no longer hold their interest. Their world has become hostile, their social life, non-existent. No one wants to be in their company for any length of time. They often become a hermit, closed off from the outside world blaming everyone else for the situation that they find themselves in. The longer the lack of supply continues, the worse their insecurities and paranoia become.

The narcissist clings desperately to nothing. They may create fake profiles on social media in order to stalk people, people that they may never meet or talk to.

Surfing the Internet may give them the opportunity to get a little attention from someone, from anyone. They’ve lost faith in themselves. They don’t like themselves and nobody else likes them either so they think, ‘What’s the point in being nice?’
Life gives back to them exactly what they deserve, loneliness and isolation. Those who once cared are long gone.

The one thing that they never could control is time. As they move forward to eternity they have the knowledge that there is a final Judge and this time, it’s not them.


Written by Anne McCrea
Originally appeared on Narcissist and Emotional Abuse         
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When The Narcissist Is Left Alone

 

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Anne McCrea
Anne McCrea is the founder of Narcissist and Emotional Abuse.com. Raising awareness and provide information on the subject of narcissistic and emotional abuse.
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12 COMMENTS

  1. Well, first of all I ask for forgiveness for taking our time to make a pessimist critic. But as a psychologist, I have some things to point out.
    First of all, I found a lacking of empathy for those who suffers in their narcisistic behvior. There is not a single person in the world that is perfect (as the patterns would create perfection, or your own belief of that). Everyone is under transformation, you take it as neuroplasticity, as other people commented, or you just as the singularity of a individual as it is. By that, I mean that we always have something to work on ourselves, and for that we should care for each other instead making it harder.
    The society we live on, internationally connected by all social network, is made up to be a attention claimer, and it’s nothing but a natural behavior. Some of us got many problems envoving this and the personality made by it, we should only be aware of that and understand when someone “wrong us”. Not saying that we must be punchbags, but it’s worth the thought.
    This post seems to be written in a raging way, blaming and attacking someone that crossed your way differently that you expected. But exposing the behavior as if it was an anomaly just sounds like an unloading pain that doesn’t look for anything but revenge.
    Again, sorry for the inconvenience of my writing and thank you for the attention. I wrote it in a feelingful way.

  2. Id like to point out a few things, the line at the end of the blog about final judge seemed a bit narcissistic. Also, some people prefer solitude to the company of other people. Also, sometimes what other people do isnt your fault, which is why some people dont blame themselves because sometimes they are not to blame.

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