The Secret Is Finally Out: This Is What Women Want From Men

What does a woman want in a man? What do they really look for in a partner? Women are mysterious, to say the least. And this is why men have been asking what women want since time immemorial. Although it may seem like a tough question, the answer may be right in front of our eyes.

Gentlemen, you may think that what women really want from men may be the biggest secret in the universe. But when it comes to dating and relationships, most men and women expect and want the same things from their romantic partners. But there are some gender-specific differences between men and women that can make things seem more complicated than they actually are. They do not want to ask for what they need from you nor they want to tell you what is important to them. Women expect you to figure it out. And this is what makes it so complicated.

Well, don’t worry. You don’t need to be a prince charming to win a woman’s heart (although it doesn’t hurt to be one). 


1. Women want you to be confident 

This one seems like a no brainer, but you’ll be surprised at how many men lose their cool and confident demeanor while interacting with women. Women want their men to be confident, someone who can hold a conversation and keep them interested. When you believe in yourself, know what you want from life and understand yourself, they will be attracted to you. However, you need to understand that there is a difference between being confident and being an ego-maniac. Women want you to feel comfortable with who you are as a person and not become overbearing.

 

2. Women want chemistry

Has a woman ever turned you down because you lacked chemistry? This is something you need to consider with utmost importance. Women like a man because of attraction and it is not based on your finances or your looks. Initially, how much a woman will be drawn to you depends on the emotional and sexual attraction she feels for you. This makes them desire and invested in you. It depends on how much you can keep her interested, how deep you can converse and how energized you make her feel while interacting. Women want their men to create a deeper connection and a meaningful relationship.

 

3. Women want you to be positive

Are you a sad sap? Do you feel depressed and negative all the time? Are you an energy vampire? Then you can forget about attracting women unless you can develop a positive mindset. Women desire a man who can make them smile and feel good about themselves. When you feel positive about life and smile a lot yourself, making her smile will come naturally to you. Share positive thoughts and moments you experience throughout the day and she will get hooked to your positivity in no time.

 

4. Women want you to be charming

No, you don’t need to be a smooth talker or a prince to be charming. Although it does help. Women expect a man to be pleasing and likable. And for that, you don’t need swag. What you do need are originality and uniqueness. Being charming is about being yourself. Speak about your dreams and passions and what you actually care about. This is the secret to charm her.

 

5. Women want you to open up

Have you tried to be in a relationship with a woman who is closed off? It sucks. This is exactly what women feel when they date a man who loves to be in a power position and hides his vulnerable side from them. When you are willing to open up and show your emotional and vulnerable side to her, she will see you as a person who is comfortable with himself. This, in turn, will make her feel comfortable around you. Moreover, as you open your heart, she will feel more connected to you and will be able to open up herself.

Theo Harrison
Hey there! I am just someone trying to find my way through life. I am a reader, writer, traveler, fighter, philosopher, artist and all around nice guy. I am outdoor person but heavily into technology, science, psychology, spiritualism, Buddhism, martial arts and horror films. I believe in positive action more than positive thinking.

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