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The 6 Types of Narcissists: How To Spot And Cope With Each Of Them

Types of Narcissists

Are you aware that the 6 different types of narcissists can potentially turn your world upside down?

Many of us view narcissists as self-obsessed people who are difficult to be around. But that’s not the whole picture. There are more layers to someone with a narcissistic personality disorder, that eventually turn out to be harmful to people related to them.

At times, some people we date or even end up in a relationship with, turn out to be narcissistic. If you ever wonder how such people stand up in the world today, you should understand their inner workings.

Typically speaking, most narcissists are toxic people that come into our worlds and turn them upside down. They bask in self-glory and often create havoc in our lives.

Read: How To Stop Feeling Sorry For Toxic People

We need to have the best coping mechanisms against the different types of narcissism and identify these 6 types of Narcissists before it’s too late.

6 Types of Narcissists And The Havoc They Create

Here are some of the worst types of narcissists we have identified in research along with our inputs on coping with a narcissist.

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The 6 Types of Narcissists: How To Spot And Cope With Each Of Them

1. The Cheating Narcissist

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The 6 Types of Narcissists: How To Spot And Cope With Each Of Them

Among the 6 types of narcissists, the cheating kind comes top of our list. Most of these people are liars and rationalists. They are master deceivers and often cheat on their partners.

They often rationalize their behavior by saying that they have a lot of love to give and have a lot of solace and affection with goodwill for the other partner. However, this is just a smokescreen that gives out a wrong impression. The truth lies in the fact that a cheater often lacks empathy and is self cantered.

Read: Conversational Narcissist

 How Do You Spot Them?

These types of narcissists have a lot of admirers who are independent friends and fawning acquaintances who are in the relationship only to stroke and soothe the narcissist’s ego. A cheating narcissist often has multiple partners and swears allegiance to one when the time comes. These people often cite inadequacies and mistakes as an excuse for their cheating behavior.

How To Cope With Them?

The best way to cope with people who suffer from these types of narcissistic personality disorders is to stay alert. You should be vigilant and always try to find out how to get past the vicious web of lies. Turn a new corner and stay abreast of the whereabouts of a cheater.

If you want to know if you’re dating a narcissist, then watch out the video to know the signs


2. The Loquacious Narcissist

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The 6 Types of Narcissists: How To Spot And Cope With Each Of Them

If words could inflict damage, then trust the smooth talker to capture your heart and mind! These types of narcissists often are akin to selling their priceless dreams and somehow have the best things to stay. This trait becomes an insidious feature of narcissists. They often control their partners by sweet-talking them and when the relationship is no longer convenient for them they turn their backs on their partners in no time

Read: What Are Traits Of A Psychopath?

How Do You Spot Them?

Smooth talkers can spot it head-on when the partner is thinking about something even before a conversation starts. These people start to manipulate the environment and blame you every time you feel neglected or suspicious and even worried. The relationship seems perfect for the outsider but the problem seems to lie in you!

How Do You Cope?

Coping with smooth talkers is the toughest thing to do for most partners. They seem to have a halo of invincibility around them. The main intent is to beat them at their own game. You should break into the smooth-talking and stay aware. You need to handle relationships with some amount of agility and nuance.

Read: Relationship Stages With A Narcissist Or Borderline And Triangulation

3. The Grandiose Narcissist

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The 6 Types of Narcissists: How To Spot And Cope With Each Of Them

The third on the list of the 6 types of narcissists is the Grandiose one. In this kind of narcissism, the person considers himself as all-important and very influential. He uses verbosity and pomp in describing himself.

How Do You Spot Them?

These grandiose narcissists often project a bag of lies as the truth. They are often found in social dos and parties and always are on their best behavior.

How Do You Cope With Them?

When the grandiose narcissist speaks of superiority, he should be ignored and you should stand up and compete against the claims. Do not take everything at face value and be tactful.

Read: Invalidation and Narcissism: Why They Slowly Erase You

4. The Raging Romeo

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The 6 Types of Narcissists: How To Spot And Cope With Each Of Them

These types of narcissists are a common feature among the young elite. These narcissists are a tad close to the smooth talker. This kind of narcissist is often a good-looking individual who is extremely self-aware. Romeo has power in his looks and is extremely self-aware. Such a narcissist often has a confused upbringing and will often seduce his mate. They can be well-dressed and have the best power of attraction.

How To Spot Them?

These narcissists often attract others with their ways and behavior. He will draw you in and will ignore you in the first instance to show his superiority.

How To Cope With Them?

Coping mechanisms for such narcissists range from ignoring the person to staying put in your position when the narcissist makes an onslaught.

5. The Bullying Narcissist

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The 6 Types of Narcissists: How To Spot And Cope With Each Of Them

This kind of narcissist is someone that has built themself up on humiliating others. Their character traits are often close to that of a grandiose narcissist. The bully in them often makes him a winner, socially. They can make you wallow in self-pity and doubt.

How To Spot Them?

These types of narcissists are regularly found in social cliques and neighborhood ghettos. They may prey upon the most unsuspecting stranger and cast a spell of self-doubt.

How To Cope With Them?

The best thing to do is to avoid them altogether. Such narcissists often will find ways to demean you. The fact remains they should be steadfastly avoided.

6. The Selfish Narcissist

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The 6 Types of Narcissists: How To Spot And Cope With Each Of Them

These people are typically very self-centered and conceited and have gigantic egos. These selfish narcissists often have a certain amount of rigidity in their own beliefs while dealing with their own opinions. They refuse to listen to others and are stuck in a relentless rigmarole of excessive self-involvement.

How To Spot Them?

These types of narcissists are found ample in social circles. They keep the company only to soothe their egos. These people make a living by participating in social cliques and circles.

How Do You Cope?

Typically speaking, selfish narcissists need a deaf ear! Turn on to other things when he or she gets started. Most selfish narcissists are just about concerned about their selves, their career enhancements, and life. The idea is to move away from them.

Read: Narcissists, NPD and their Partners

That’s all for our discussion on the 6 types of narcissists, how to spot different types of narcissists, and how to cope with a narcissist. Share your thoughts by commenting below.


Frequently Asked questions

What happens when two different types of narcissists meet each other?

When two different types of narcissists meet, oftentimes it has been seen that they form a connection and might also continue a relationship, that is plagued with conflict and power struggle.

Why does my narcissist boyfriend get angry when I am kind to anyone else?

Narcissists are selfish and conceited individuals who want their partners to be exclusively devoted to them. They can’t bear the thought of their partner giving any kind of positive attention to anybody else but them.

What does it mean if a person shows signs of all types of narcissism?

Narcissistic traits might sometimes overlap. It’s also not unnatural for a narcissist to transform into a different form of narcissistic behavior. For instance, a grandiose narcissist can show signs of vulnerable narcissism during a narcissistic collapse.

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