51 Things To Do On Christmas – Alone

Christmas time. It’s noisy, frequently materialistic and irrevocably social. We plan for it, spend for it, live for it and dread it all at the same time, each year. Our societies Christmas ideal is to sit around a heavily bedazzled tree, or heftily set dinner table with every member of our family and friendship circles. But the truth is, many of us don’t meet or fulfill that ideal. Many of us wind up feeling lonely, isolated and disillusioned because of our lack of lack of close friendships or family members. We spend Christmas alone.

For many of us Christmas becomes not a time of celebration, but of dread and depression. Society tells us that to be alone, or to spend time Christmas alone is pitiful, a tragedy and a sad failure. The truth is, spending time alone is feared because no one knows how to be alone anymore. This is because when we are alone we have to face ourselves, our thoughts, and the irrepressible truth that we are alone, deep down. So we have learned to run from ourselves, and in the process, forget the delights of solitude.

In our society it is heretical not only to be alone, but heretical to find contentment and fulfillment by ourselves, in ourselves as well. As one middle aged hermit says in Lionel Fisher’s book Celebrating Time Alone, “we’ve been conditioned to press on mindlessly be part of the norm.” And that norm is to stuff our voids as full of stimulation and noise as possible. The fact is that we need to relearn how to be alone. If we ever desire true peace, self-knowledge and happiness – the kind that can only be discovered in solitude – we need to relearn how to be alone. We need to live all the days of our life by making peace with our aloneness. Fortunately, Christmas is the prefect time to celebrate time alone with yourself. It may be odd and out of the ordinary, but to live up to the standards of a sick, deeply flawed society, is a profound mistake. Below you will find a list of just over 50 quirky, challenging and enjoyable ideas to savor Christmas alone.

While some of these ideas cater to the playful, childlike and silly sides within us, others cater to our more serious, adult and practical inner dimensions. As a person who has spent a good many Christmas’ alone, I’m sure you’ll find at least one idea that appeals to you below.


1. Spend the morning in self-deprivation, and spend the evening in self-indulgence.

2. Recreate outer space. Decorate your room with Christmas lights, and turn out all the lights.

3. Take a road trip to a place you’ve never been before.

4. Have a conversation with yourself all day.

5. Compose your own Christmas carol.

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Written by Aletheia Luna

She is the co-founder, editor and author of popular spiritual website As a transformational mentor and holistic writer, she has helped to guide thousands of people throughout the world on their paths of self-acceptance and wholeness.


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  1. 43 & 46 seem fine for me if i was alone. also love listening to Christmas carols…no matter what our personal situations, if we are one of the faithful, we ought to reflect on a lovely period that comes about on ONCE IN A WHOLE YEAR… i really love this time of year, so, so much, alone or not…it takes me down so many lanes where sweet memories run rampant through my life…Love for my maker dominates my senses most…and at dusk, i enjoy a few swigs of whisky that send my brains on overdrive…& i feel good & seek to love the world & the times i live in…because its CHRISTMAS…A loving merry Christmas to all my friends on this thread…God loves you all, believe me!!!

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