9 Signs You’re Lying to Yourself Without Knowing It

9 Signs You’re Lying to Yourself Without Knowing It

2. Honestly examine your fears.

Ask yourself, “What am I running away from?” Take some time to introspect, preferably in solitude. Solitude is easy to create: simply set aside half an hour a day to spend with your thoughts. If you have a busy schedule, prioritize, and see what other tasks you can shorten. Read more about solitude.

3. Focus on gaining self-esteem from within yourself.

Often, what triggers self-deception is the desire to please others and gain validation. Notice your tendency to look outside of yourself for your self-worth. Are you relying on others to make you feel special, worthy, or loveable? Realize how unstable and dangerous gaining your self-worth from others is: at any moment a person could turn against you, and thereby crush your self-esteem. Begin to gain approval from within yourself. Work on loving yourself and embracing who you are.

4. Open up to other people’s points of view.

Different perspectives are always very valuable, even if they aren’t necessarily right. However, often those closest to us have an uncanny way of seeing the truth that we too often can’t perceive. So don’t close yourself off. Listen.

5. Figure out your needs vs. desires.

Needs are always honest, desires can be misleading. What do you truly need? What do your heart and soul crave for? Answer these questions, and you will free yourself from self-deception.

So, after reading this article, what are your thoughts?

Please understand that there’s no need to punish or blame yourself if you do discover that you’re lying to yourself. Most of us lie to ourselves unintentionally as a self-protection mechanism. So treat yourself with kindness. You are not a “bad person”; you are simply a human being with flaws. But now that you’re at least partly conscious of any smokescreens that are enveloping you, you can work to bring more truth into your everyday life.


Written by ALETHEIA LUNA
Originally appeared in LONERWOLF

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9 Signs You’re Lying to Yourself Without Knowing It
9 Signs You’re Lying to Yourself Without Knowing It
9 Signs You’re Lying to Yourself Without Knowing It
9 Signs You’re Lying to Yourself Without Knowing It

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