Every zodiac sign ruins their own life in some way without even trying to because they do not even realize in the first place that they are doing it. Each and every zodiac has certain negative and annoying characteristics that do not do them any favors, rather it ends up complicating situations more for them. And unless they understand what these negative qualities are, they won’t be able to work on them for real.
Let’s take a dive into astrology by studying the traits and characteristics of zodiac signs. Find out how they ruin their own lives without even putting much effort to prevent it from ruining. They are oblivious to this.
Here Is How Each Zodiac Sign Ruins Their Own Life Without Even Trying To
1. Aries (March 21st to April 19th)
You ruin your life with negativity and allowing yourself to get lost in it.
Aries get into a lot of trouble for their short temper and stubborn nature. You live in a negative world sometimes that people don’t want to be a part of. Positivity and optimism is something you struggle with a lot, and add to that your temper tantrums, and you have got a recipe for a disaster.
Focus on calming yourself down, and try to stop yourself from having an emotional or aggressive reaction to everything. Constant tantrums, and stubbornness is not going to do any good to your life.
- Aries Personality: 15 Things You Need To Know About The Ram Sign
- Aries Personality Traits: A Zodiac Guide to the Enterprising Yet Ruthless Sign
2. Taurus (April 20th to May 21st)
You ruin your life not living it to it’s fullest.
Taurus seems to control everyone and everything in life. And when things don’t go the way you planned you take it out on the people you care about. The hardest thing you’ll come to understand is you can’t control people and situations aren’t always going to run smoothly. Learn to embrace it. Unplanned situations in life are what keeps it exciting.
- 10 Secrets About Taurus You Probably Know Nothing About
- 10 Reasons Why Taurus Women Make The Best Love Partners
3. Gemini (May 22nd to June 21st)
You ruin your life by settling.
You settle in love because you are unsure of what you want. You settle in life because you fear change. You settle in your career because you are sticking with something that isn’t making you happy. Gemini people are usually the one that hurts people the worst. Because you are indecisive about your own life you tend to drag others through the confusion and hurt really good people along the way.
But one day someone is going to enter your life and the only thing you’ll be clear of is that you want them in your life. When you find this person don’t give them a reason to leave because karma will come back around and they’ll be the one that hurts you more than you ever could have imagined if you let them go.
- 10 Personality Traits Of The Misunderstood Gemini
- The Good and Bad of Loving A Gemini (13 Brutal Truths)
4. Cancer (June 22nd to July 22nd)
You ruin your life by putting others before yourself.
Cancer people are always taking an emotional rollercoaster ride and seems to get easily lost in how they feel about people. Sometimes when you think you’ve met the right person you put them before yourself and love them a little more than you need to. It’s easy to get lost in love. But be careful you don’t lose yourself to it.
- 12 Personality Traits Of Cancer, The Cardinal Water Sign
- The Good and Bad of Loving a Cancer (10 Brutal Truths)
5. Leo (July 23rd to August 22nd)
You ruin your life closing yourself off and hiding your emotions.
You ruin your life thinking vulnerability is a sign of weakness. Leo appears to be heartless and pretends that they don’t care much. As someone who puts their emotional needs second in life is wary of not closing yourself off too much because there will come a time where you’ll be overcome with a state of being lonely.
Remember emotions don’t make you seem weak, denying that you have any does.
6. Virgo (August 23rd to September 22nd)
You ruin your life being too hard on yourself.
Virgo people tend to put others before themselves and never make themselves a priority. While it’s selfless and people admire you for your kind heart, your ability to love others and love them deeply doesn’t reflect the relationship you have with yourself. You are the first to criticize who you are or point out your flaws without building yourself up to the way you. You are your worst enemy as well as the solution to that.
- 10 Personality Traits Of Virgo, The Mercurial Earth Sign
- The Good and Bad of Loving a Virgo (12 Brutal Truths)
7. Libra (September 23rd to October 22nd)
You ruin your life trying too hard to appease others and not asking for what you want and need.
As kind as you are and as much as everyone loves you, people take advantage of you and walk all over you. You hold your emotions in trying to be selfless but then it all builds up and it comes out in nasty and unkind ways. Sometimes you hurt the people you love most by repressing your emotions and not wanting to face your problems.
8. Scorpio (October 23rd to November 22nd)
You ruin your life thinking you don’t deserve love and are better off alone.
Scorpios are the toughest sign to get along with. You are painfully stubborn and don’t forgive people easily. Your heart isn’t something that’s easy to win over but once someone does, they have your love and loyalty for life. But the zodiac sign of Scorpio ruins their own life with their selfishness and you hurt people who care about you in attempts to simply look out for being number 1.
- 10 Personality Traits Of Scorpio, The Ambitious Water Sign
- The Good and Bad of Loving A Scorpio (12 Brutal Truths)
9. Sagittarius (November 23rd to December 21st)
You ruin your life by being afraid.
You’re so afraid of failing that you don’t do anything at all and you stay frozen in the same spot. Sagittarius people have a lot of great ideas and sometimes you get lost in all of it. You don’t seem to focus or get much done at all. Your indecisiveness, procrastination, and confusion make you an extremely unfocused person. Focus on one task at hand and go from there.
- 10 Personality Traits Of Sagittarius, The Fiery Archer Sign
- The Good and Bad of Loving A Sagittarius: 7 Brutal Truths
10. Capricorn (December 22nd to January 20th)
You ruin your life thinking you are competing with others to get somewhere.
You ruin your life by putting pressure on yourself instead of enjoying the journey. Capricorns are people who are unbelievably hard on themselves and a little too focused sometimes. You are the person who is always on the go and doing something or the other, but don’t forget to slow down and live life a little bit or you’ll miss out on the things that are more important than goals.
- 10 Personality Traits Of Capricorn, The Disciplined Soul
- The Good and Bad of Loving A Capricorn (7 Brutal Truths)
11. Aquarius (January 21st to February 18th)
You ruin your life by letting your past influence your future.
Aquarius tend to keep everything to disclosed and you’re your own worst enemy. You don’t forgive yourself for your past and you allow it to dictate your future carrying unnecessary baggage along the way. You tend to push really good people away because you think you’re better off alone than be with someone who could be good for you.
- 10 Personality Traits Of Aquarius, The Progressive Air Sign
- The Good and Bad of Loving An Aquarius (7 Brutal Truths)
12. Pisces (February 19th to March 20th)
You ruin your life by choosing the wrong people.
Pisces choose toxic people and habits. As someone who genuinely means well and has probably the best heart out of all the zodiac signs, you tend to gravitate towards the wrong people who dim your light a little bit and drain you.
When it comes to habits, you deal with pain in your life choosing all the wrong things to cope. You hurt yourself more each time because you think you deserve pain.
- 10 Personality Traits Of Pisces, The Gentle Water Sign
- The Good and Bad of Loving A Pisces (7 Brutal Truths)
Which zodiac sign do you have? Let us know in the comments down below!
Written by Kirsten Corley. For more of Kirsten's work, follow her Facebook fan page.