The Good and Bad of Loving A Gemini (13 Brutal Truths)

The Good and Bad of Loving A Gemini (13 Brutal Truths)

Loving a Gemini is nothing unlike an adventure, where you will get to see, and experience different things every day. And that’s the beauty of Geminis.

The good, the bad, the GEMINI.

Have you ever felt like the person you’re dating is two people at the same time?

Trust me, it’s not because you’re crazy — it may be because you’re dating a Gemini.

While we’re difficult to love, we’re the best kind of people. Known as ‘the twins’ for having two distinctly different personalities in one, we’re both curious and social, witty and creative, yet emotionally unreachable and difficult to get your hands on.

Here are 13 brutal reasons why dating a Gemini is both sucky and also the best decision you can ever possibly make.

Welcome to the world of a walking contradiction!

1. Spontaneity is our middle name.

So you’re sick of eating at the same restaurants or want a new date spot? Perfect, we are too. Want to try making love someplace new and exciting? We’re game. (Although truth be told, having some norms and consistency in a relationship is important to us, too.)

But with Geminis, you’ll never get bored — but at what expense to your sanity?

2. We’re social butterflies.

Geminis are anything but homebodies, but then again we love being home. Wait, is that confusing? Exactly. One weekend, we’ll want to paint the town red with balls, galas, bars, and clubs … but the next, we’re all about Netflix and the couch.

Related: 10 Personality Traits Of The Misunderstood Gemini

3. We love to flirt.

Geminis are faithful, loyal people, but boohoo do we like to look at the opposite sex! Because we enjoy praise and being the center of attention, we love to receive compliments and feel sexy and wanted — only to come home and be with just you.

4. We’re talkative.

We ask a lot of questions and first dates with us may seem like interviews. Because we’re an air element, we have strong intellects and are skilled debaters and conversationalists.

Our partners must also be strong and understand that a good debate is just that: a debate. We don’t want an argument; we just enjoy conversing and sharpening one another.

5. We’ll keep you on your toes.

Love a sarcastic jokester? We’re your girl! With the quick wit and smart mouth, we’re fun to hang out with but also very frustrating to argue with. Don’t get on our bad side.

6. We’re creative.

Leave a Gemini to decorate your home or come up with a perfect birthday celebration idea. They love to give gifts and create fun experiences, most of which are brainstormed in their fun-filled head.

The typical Gemini will love planning the perfect surprises because it helps make their own dreams come true, too!

Related: 5 Reasons A Gemini Is The Most Interesting Person You’ll Meet

7. We’re flaky.

Count on a Gemini to flake at the last minute on plans or want to change the location. If they don’t flake or change plans, they’ll be 10 minutes late to wherever you were supposed to meet anyway.

8. We’re analytical.

Geminis are extremely analytical people, which also makes them self-aware. While this seems like the perfect recipe for self-assurance, it actually causes a lot of doubt since they’re apt to also consider where they “should” be in life or what they “should” be doing.

9. We’re high achievers.

Geminis are much more motivated than the average person. They like to achieve and are pretty hard on themselves if they don’t get what they strive for.

Likewise, they’ll want to date someone who’s equally ambitious otherwise they’ll bore and feel like they’re running the show — even though they don’t always want to.

51 thoughts on “The Good and Bad of Loving A Gemini (13 Brutal Truths)”

  1. Avatar of William Brender

    The things I’ve read in this article are pretty much true of me as well, but since I was born on the cusp {21st of June} what does that really mean for me am I a true Gemini or am I ambiguous

  2. Avatar of Edward brooks

    Yes they are very flakey and they will use you until you have nothing else to give I have a female friend who is a gemini one day she ask me for a bunch of money and she said she would make love with me later that evening so I was with it so she got what she wanted from me then flaked out on me knowing damn well she cant pay it back so we are definitely not friends anymore so in the immortal words of pres Bush FOOL ME ONCE SHAME ON ME WHO WHAT! FOOL ME CANT GET FOOLED AGAIN LOL!

  3. Avatar of DOLO

    Brilliant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I had the closest relationship with my husband for 30 years
    (I am a widow otherwise wud still be with him)
    Only to come home and be with you!!! that is a Gem!!

  4. Avatar of Tammy

    WOAH- I feel like I wrote this article myself! I’d love to post this on my blog, it describes me to the T, I don’t see a single off point.

  5. Avatar of M.

    Not everyone likes to be sharpened. Some people like to have their own mind and own thoughts and don’t need anyone to sharpen it for them. They self sharpen. They don’t mind talking and being intellectual but we don’t need others to sharpen it for us.

  6. Avatar of Treeful of Monkeys
    Treeful of Monkeys

    This a transparent attempt to perpetuate stereotypes by basing the pseudo information on sun sign alone. Every sign is intricately layered and nuanced. This article is rubbish.

  7. Avatar of Jyoti Agarwal Poddar

    Hmmmmm /!!! OMG !!!! I read all .very nice!!! But I m proud to be Gemini.Gemini s r very simple,sincere,honest,brilliant,straightforward ,n hard working !!! They like beauty of nature always !!!!

  8. Avatar of Sulekha Pande

    Quite true when it comes to quick wit, intellect and duality, but not true when it comes to being a flirt, that’s the biggest misconception about Geminis, not all of them flirt, and typically they are very choosy. Restless, yes, caustic, yes, but highly intelligent and smart.
    Proud to be a pure Gemini.??

  9. Avatar of Jannifer Stoddard

    Very sad – Emotionally unreachable. Sounds like a split personality at conflict within itself. Cannot form or keep close relationships? Strikes me as very sad. Yes I do know and love one.

  10. Avatar of Lilith Ash

    The duality is very conflicted, being on the fence between a career change or which meal to order can cause a panic inside lol…. Imagine buying a first home. Dating a Gemini takes no more than the right balance … Someone to calm the urges of the million rapid thoughts they have, someone to guide not direct, to allow freedom but suggest other routes to not pose control. Dating a Gemini requires patience and space. Dating a Gemini can be the best or worst decision of your life ??

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