The Good and Bad of Loving A Scorpio (12 Brutal Truths)

Good and Bad of Loving A Scorpio

Loving a Scorpio is anything but boring, and when you are in a relationship with them, it is nothing short of a rollercoaster. In a good way, of course.

They are passionate, intense and full of great mystery; a Scorpio knows how to keep things exciting and their sexuality is nothing to be taken lightly.

Scorpios are naturally empathic and highly intuitive which makes them more sensitive to emotions than most. Scorpios are dominating and headstrong, but in the end, they will always follow their hearts. Because of this quality in themselves, they most often listen to the hearts of others over rational thinking processes and can be left confused and hurt when someone doesn’t follow their truest desire.

So if you are dating, are married to, or are simply related to a Scorpio, here are the crucial things you need to know.

1. They are intense.

No other sign in the zodiac can match the intensity of a Scorpio. Whatever they do, they do it with reverence or they won’t do it all.

2. They can be self-destructive.

The sign of the alchemist, Scorpio rules over death and rebirth and therefore is natural at breaking down aspects of themselves in order to start over from scratch.

From an outsider’s perspective, it may appear to be self-inflicted abuse, however, a Scorpio knows that it may take a meltdown in order to build themselves back up again and this time, stronger than ever before.

Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Scorpio, The Ambitious Water Sign

3. They can be overly sensitive.

As Scorpio’s are highly intuitive and naturally empathic, they tend to absorb the energies of others and reverberate them into their being, let alone trying to cope with their own emotional dealings.

Therefore Scorpios can be highly sensitive and it is important to support a Scorpio, the way they need to be. Reassuring a Scorpio “that everything will be ok” and that there is no need to worry can do wonders for emotional stability.

4. They are introverted.

The extroverted introvert, a Scorpio loves to be the center of attention when at a vibrational high, yet will become recluse once the energy is either attained or dispelled. They are naturally gifted at “small talk”, and know how to be charming without letting outsiders see the real authentic part of them.

5. They believe in fairy tales.

Scorpios are magicians by nature and they are keen at reading between the lines. Love stories like The Notebook or fairy tales like Cinderella, conjure their inner knowing that miracles are real.

A Scorpio loves to search for these hidden meanings lying just below the surface and will scratch until they break the veil.

Related: 10 Reasons to Love a SCORPIO

6. They are stubborn.

The intensity and tenaciousness of a Scorpio can drive them into tunnel vision. Once they are set on something, its hard to make them see anything but what they are focused on. When offended a Scorpio will plant their feet hard and dig in deep.

It takes the soothing and calm demeanor of their partner to melt their ice and bring them back to a level head.

7. They are independent.

A Scorpio is clear to let you know that they really don’t need you, without speaking a word. They are strong, determined, and self-sufficient. The hard shell of a Scorpio allows them to manage alright when it comes to every day, but what they really need is someone who can match their level.

80 thoughts on “The Good and Bad of Loving A Scorpio (12 Brutal Truths)”

  1. Avatar of Doug Fliehman

    WOW ……. I just (4 months) got out of a relationship with a Narcopath/Scorpio, several personality traits mentioned above are Narcissistic as well. Good god man , what a nightmare ! Thank god it was only for about a year +!!!!

    1. Avatar of Nur Syaza Syazwina

      “Take things seriously”
      “Over think”
      “Can see thru people”

      Yah now you make me overthink and want to find these meaning below the surface

  2. Avatar of Cher Staite

    Only thing you need to know is where you hid your mad money and where the spare car keys and cheap hotels rooms are to be found and when it’s safe to come back.

  3. Avatar of Edward Zavala

    I miss my Scorpio. I know she’s my soul mate and what we’re going through is temporary. I know we both needed this to grow and to really respect and appreciate each other. I’m working really hard on myself and have changed for the better. I love her and hope that see will see that soon. Pa pa pa pa… Pa pa.. Pa pa pa pa pa pa pa pa pa pa pa # Team1800.

  4. Avatar of Roger

    I’m a triple Scorp! The Sun, Mercury and Mars in Scorpio on my B- day.
    I don’t care too much for small talk but prefer deep thoughts, thinking and philosophical discussions

    1. Avatar of Kate Gibson

      “They have complete control over their reproductive organs…” … now I have images of the opposite lol!! Pretty on the $, that lil article. Owlies! X

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