Are you sure you have got genuine friendships in life?
We have progressed into the world where the entire definition of relationship has been altered- love or genuine friendships. The relationship of friendship is a true gift to mankind. But our generation has forgotten to embrace the true essence of this relationship. We make relations both offline and online.
While the list of online friends might be longer, all are not true friends. Offline we have friends we might not be very comfortable with. While we pour our hearts freely with our Online friends – they usually ain’t the ones who stand with us in our real fights. Whatever the case may be, there are a few things, which definitely draw a line between fake and genuine friendships.
Listed below are 11 Things That Are True Only for Genuine Friendships
1. They Accept Both the Good and the Bad in You
They never strive to change you. They accept you as you are, including your flaws and oddities. Of course, they may like many things about you, like what you say or the way you do things, but, they neither scorn you for those things nor try to change your personality. Around them, you feel free and relieved, because in this hard and cruel world, you have found that one person who can notice positive things about you which even you didn’t know existed.
2. They are Your ‘All Weather’ Friends
Genuine friendships never wither away with time, rather become stronger. Your true friend will never leave you in your bad times and be with you all the way. You will find them both in your good and bad times. Your real friend will never leave you in the darkness but usher you back to optimism and light. On the other hand, fake friends are opportunists and will feign friendship as long as things are good in your life. Such people are around someone as long as they can get what they want. Helping others, seeing a friend through bad times is never a part of their plans.
3. They Celebrate Your Achievements From Their Heart
Fake friends cannot accept your success even if they try to show they do. They feel jealous and are disapproving of your success. A genuine friend will not only be happy with your achievement but will also celebrate your success with you. To understand if your friends are real or not, try to sense who is happy for you and is able to take your achievements from heart. The fact is who is your true friend? Time will reveal who is an authentic friend and who is a fake one.
4. They Know You Better Than Anyone Else
If anyone in the world knows your deepest secrets, your fantasies, your peculiarities, it is your friend with whom you are most comfortable with. They know you inside out because with them you have shared your most memorable moments of your childhood, the embarrassing incidents you won’t dare tell anyone else. They know you to your core but are never judgmental about anything. You can easily spot these differences and you can tell who is a fake friend and who is a real one.
5. They Make Plans to Meet and Spend Time With You, Just as You Do
You love to talk to your friends and want to hang around with them whenever you can make time. But this effort shouldn’t be only from your side. If you have friends who make it a point to call you now and then to ask how you are and make plans to meet up, they are putting equal effort to maintain the friendship. They don’t talk to you whenever it is convenient for them but make sure to be in touch because they care for you and want you to be a part of their life.