Just Because I Don’t Address The Shit
Some shit just isn’t worth the energy.
What I’ve found, from reflecting on my own experience, as well as the experiences of others, there is an antidote to this self-defeating style of thinking and it essentially comes down to these three elements:
It’s my fault because I’ve tried so hard to be kind to others that I forgot to be kind to myself, also.
If they hurt you, you are not missing THEM, you are missing what you thought of them.