ESTPs want everyone to be like them and fuck their own happiness. They want their group of friends to have the same level of sense of humor and hyperness in their body. They want their surroundings to be like them and that’s what sets people apart from them. They want a happy and cheery environment which they will not get all the time.
ESTJ Personality Type – The Supervisor
People with the ESTJ personality type are organized, honest, dedicated, dignified, traditional, and are great believers in doing what they believe is right and socially acceptable. Though the paths towards “good” and “right” are difficult, they are glad to take their place as the leaders of the pack. They are the epitome of good citizenry.
ESTJs always want everything to go as planned. They also think about what other people will consider as the right thing to do and lose the opportunity to actually have fun with the person they are with. They are always concerned whether what they are doing is acceptable or law abiding. They have no sense of craziness in their body and imagine being with that kind of person in a weekend getaway. This is how they spoil their own happiness.
ENTJ Personality Type – The Commander
ENTJs are natural born leaders and like being in charge. They live in a world of possibilities and they often see challenges and obstacles as great opportunities to push themselves. The ENTJ personality seems to have a natural gift for leadership, making decisions, and considering options and ideas quickly yet carefully. They are “take charge” people who do not like to sit still.
ENTJs are used to having the upper hand. They are used to being the head of the pyramid, the brain of the group and the one who holds the remote control. They always have the last say on everything and sometimes that is what fucks them up the most, they’d rather lose the people they love and their own happiness than lose control. They’d rather have the situation under control than be extremely happy and out of hand.
INTP Personality Type – The Thinker
INTPs are well known in the community and in day to day life for their brilliant theories and unrelenting logic, which makes sense since they are arguably the most logical minded of all the personality types. They love patterns, have a keen eye for picking up on discrepancies, and a good ability to read people, making it a bad idea to lie to or to try to deceive an INTP.
INTPs fuck themselves up by overthinking. They always think and then think again until they make themselves feel bad and screw own happiness. One more thing is that they are very good at spotting a liar which can be helpful at times but this may end up ruining situations and relationships especially when INTP questions almost everything.
ISFJ Personality Type – The Nurturer
ISFJs are warm and kind-hearted. They value harmony and cooperation and are likely to be very sensitive to other people’s feelings. People value the ISFJ personality type for their consideration and awareness, and their ability to bring out the best in others.
ISFJs do not know how to express how they truly feel; they are very much aware of their own and other people’s’ feelings but they do not know how to express them unless they find the outlets to expose their emotions. This is how they slowly let their own happiness slip away, they are very dependent on how the situations flow and not have the courage to make things happen for themselves.
ENTP Personality Type – The Visionary
The ENTP personality is a visionary who is capable of generating ideas so large and eccentric that they may be solutions that the entire world needs. ENTPs are humorous and quick-witted, but they can also sound arrogant and condescending.
ENTPs can easily detach from other people and have no problem dismissing them from their lives. They just have the habit of detaching and ignoring them once ENTPs feel like they are being distant and cold. They can be insensitive sometimes which can push people away and they can easily detect bullshit from non-bullshit which can affect their own happiness in a good and bad way.
ISFP Personality Type – The Composer
ISFPs tend to be quiet and reserved, and difficult to get to know well. They hold back their ideas and opinions except from those who they are closest to. They’re original and independent and need to have personal space.
ISFPs have a habit of keeping everything inside them and would not tell anyone else unless they are their closest friend or family. They hold themselves back even the talent that they enjoy doing for the fear of being disliked by everyone else. In doing so they are undeniably fucking up their own happiness.
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Written By: Krizzia Paolyn Originally appeared on: Thought Catalog Republished with permission