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16 Men Share The Red Flags In A Guy That You Should Watch Out For

Men Share Red Flags In Guy Should Watch Out

Have you had bad experiences when it comes to toxic masculinity, but you still fail to see the red flags in a guy? Here’s what you should look out for!

Who can be better than the men themselves to tell us when it is time for a woman to stay away from a man?

The men on r/AskMen have shared red flags guys have, to warn us, women, as warning signals to stay away from them.
Ladies, the men on Reddit have revealed red flags some guys display that they feel we should not only know about but stay away from. 

If you ever come across a guy like this, don’t ever be fooled for the disaster to happen. Remember, these signals by heart.

Red Flags In A Guy
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AskMen, What are some relationship red flags in a guy? This is what they’ll tell you…

1. Prince charming isn’t actually charming.

He is not the Prince charming he appears to be.

“If he always says the right thing at the right time, is so charming and plays all his cards right, but you never saw his friends or where he lives, it’s not his first Tango and not his last.”

2. The way he behaves with unknown people, for example, the ones who serve him.

“How does he treat his waiter/bartender. That’s a total stranger. You can get a baseline for his kindness, patience, intolerance, generosity. So many things.”

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3. He has never-ending sob stories that make you pity him and be caring towards him.

“If the world seems out to get the poor guy, and you think he needs you, you need to get the fuck out of there. His own choices are causing the chaos and he’ll drag you down with him.

Don’t date out of pity, boyfriends are not lost puppies that just need a bath and some love to be made whole again.”

4. He artfully conceals he is already in a relationship.

“If he seems to be hiding you or keeping you away from his friends/relatives or keeps making excuses, he’s probably just using you.”

5. He doesn’t want to use condoms.

“If he insists that condoms feel bad and really wants to go bareback even if you’re only dating for a few days/weeks or even just meeting for a hookup: Run as fast as you can.”

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6. Several bad relationships in their life with other women.

“Feeling anything is owed to them.

They have extremely bad relationships with other women at present or in their past. This includes everyone his mother, sister, ex-girlfriends or any other woman related to him in any way.

Be warned you could be just another woman to add to his ever-increasing list of abused women.

Not respecting a woman’s wish may not always be related to something sexual or violent. Forcing her into eating something she doesn’t want is an indicator he is a control freak. This can transform into something worse later.

This is a warning signal that men can also take when they come across such a woman.”

7. When with other men, his behavior towards women changes.

“If a guy brags about how big his penis is. If a guy interacts with/speaks of women differently in front of other men in the presence of women. Two big flags for a dick head. No pun intended.”

8. Lacks self-confidence.

Low self-esteem. Want someone that really tries hard? Is doing fine at life, has stayed out of trouble and drama? Has depth, and isn’t easy prey for others? Have I got a deal for you.

It’s great until it isn’t. You can’t fix it, that’s all them. It doesn’t matter if they’re great, they think they are shit. It shifts and changes under their skin. It never leaves them alone, and you’ll always be outside, wondering what the fuck is going on.

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