5 Reasons Why Women Feel More Attracted To The Bad Boys


5 Reasons Why Women Feel More Attracted To The Bad Boys

As a woman, do you tend to feel more attracted to bad boys, compared to guys who are nicer?

When it comes to dating, women can be quite paradoxical. We yearn for that nice and sensitive guy, at the same time we cannot stop our hearts from falling for the popular kind. It’s always the handsome, playboy of the class that gets the most attention. Someone who is usually tagged as narcissistic and self-absorbed.

The ‘Man” who surpasses our intellect and challenges us in every way. The one who would never commit, winning whose attention would be like winning a Jackpot. The one, who ignites the wild and passionate side of ours. There is something about those naughty eyes and a smirk on the face that drives us insane.

Yes, he is, what we call the “Bad Guy”.

Below we discuss some of the possible reasons why we feel more attracted to the Bad Guys. Let us know if you find these true.

1) They take us to adventure land.

A guy with serious commitment issues, surely makes a woman want him more and more. All the cool and popular guys suffer from commitment phobia. He never seems to commit and continues playing with the woman’s heart.

He definitely comes across as a bad guy. But somehow we poor healers fall for them more. The sudden splurge of attention and nothing at times gets our hormones on a roller coaster ride and we keep craving for more. The chase and the challenge we pose on ourselves for this ‘Most Wanted’ Bad Guy comes along as a much-wanted adventure.

2) Nice guys = boring guys.

While we NEED a nice guy, we end up WANTING a bad guy. When we know porridge is good for us, we still go drooling for a slice of PIZZA. Don’t we? No one can deny that we tend to associate the nice guys with boredom and dullness.

Women inherently keep looking for someone to take care of them, they at times need that caring and sweet attitude of a guy, yet somehow ends up preferring a guy who has no connection with the term ‘intimacy’ and is usually ‘unromantic’ by nature.

Want to know more about how nice guys are better when it comes to relationships? Read 10 Things A Good Guy Won’t Ever Do To The Woman He Loves

3) It’s more of a physical attraction.

A strong personality, hot body and a condescending attitude- pretty much everything to sweep a woman off her feet. Women somehow try to associate physical attractiveness with good skills in bed.

It is obvious that women want a long-lasting relationship with a nice and kind guy, but when it comes to explore the physical side, they prefer a passionate and dominating partner. Someone who would make them explore themselves

It is observed that the women whose love language is touch emphasize more on alpha men. While women with little to other love language go for the nice guys.

4) Women take them as a challenge.

How many times we have come across a movie where the sweet girl next door succeeds in humbling down an aggressive, wild guy? Women in general are natural healers, they like fixing people.

This entire idea of taming down a wild and conceited guy, while winning his affection is a picture-perfect story for them.

Want to know more about why women tend to be more attracted to bad guys? Read 6 Reasons Why We Are Addicted To The Bad Boys And Men Who Hurt Us

5) Women remain unchanged.

In spite of having an unpleasant experience in dating the “cool guy”, women manage to manipulate their own hearts in liking the same type of guys, yet again. Somehow, the conceited attitude of the guy never fails to catch their fancy.

No matter how many times they have their heart-broken, a woman never really learns her lesson. It is indeed a tragedy that some women actually end up marrying such jerks, in spite of having a bad experience in the past.

Well, all we can say is that a glass of mojito is always satisfying than a plain glass of lemon water. Isn’t it?

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5 Reasons Why Women Feel More Attracted To The Bad Boys
5 Reasons Why Women Feel More Attracted To The Bad Boys

22 responses to “5 Reasons Why Women Feel More Attracted To The Bad Boys”

  1. Heike McKay Avatar

    #4 for sure, guilty as charged ⚡️⚡️⚡️

  2. Rhonda Evans Avatar

    No matter how many times they have their heart broken, a woman never really learns her lesson – what kind of Archaic shit is this? How dare you tell anyone female or male that they are trapped and doomed to fail. fuck you. This page is actually really negative, watch out people what you expose yourself to.

  3. Linda Angeles Avatar

    Heart break over and over again! I used to be attracted to bad boys until I worked on my self esteem. Now they’re unattractive

  4. LeeAnn Johnson Easter Avatar

    only until you realize it’s not worth it.

  5. James E. Klamut Avatar

    They don’t tend to fall for “the bad guys” so much as guys perceived as bad happen to inhabit traits of boldness and confidence that attract women. I didn’t actually read the article, so I’m just speculating based on the title.

    By comparison, who are “the good guys”? Feminine, submissive, weak men? Questions of morality are all relative and circumstantial. Often times those perceived as “bad” are the ones who disrupt civilization, creating the void that advances it through the eventual subsided chaos.

  6. Dave Khoury Avatar

    An article written by a women – Touche. Would luv to see the opposite sex’s opinion on this.

  7. Manny Cruz Avatar

    All of them are spot on!

  8. Jeya Ram Avatar

    “He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone”

  9. James CY Kang Avatar

    ,Cost they are Gaga….

    1. Aletheia Ilion Avatar

      Yes, he is gaga, and he still wants to be my friend.

    2. James CY Kang Avatar

      Good for you guys. Happy forever!

    3. Hannah Plot Avatar

      By keeping me as a friend?

    4. Hannah Plot Avatar

      I can’t be his friend.

    5. Hannah Plot Avatar

      He humiliated me for a girl that doesn’t understand the text we read.

  10. Su Theint San Avatar

    Women are like the animal that they can smell who has the good heart.

  11. Aletheia Ilion Avatar

    He’s not smarter, he’s just a narcissist, like you.

    1. Aletheia Ilion Avatar

      I beat him every time in argument.

    2. Aletheia Ilion Avatar

      But it’s part of your narcissistic ego to emphasize the idea you were smarter because you play games.

  12. Su Theint San Avatar

    No one is perfect and has a part of flaws. The nice guy has just the mask to protect his imperfection to meet the good standard that people evaluate. There is no bad guy. If you see someone that he is bad guy, you will be the worst and toxic guy.

    1. Aletheia Ilion Avatar

      Narcissism is an illness.

    2. Su Theint San Avatar

      narcissism with mental illness are always thinking to criticize negatively from public page .

  13. Donna Farmer Avatar

    I like a nature,animal people lover.not one as the song sings”oh lord it’s hard to be humble when your perfect in everyway I can’t wait to look in the mirror cos I get better looking each day”guy.

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