Both men and women are attracted to people who come off as “mysterious”. Unique traits of mysterious people pull us as we feel intrigued by their behaviors and actions. These people are so indefinable and wonderful, that we want to know more about them and uncover their hidden depths.
It is the human tendency to chase something until we know everything about it and get saturated. So, when we come across people who we never get to know completely, we cannot move past that person. The human mind loves to solve mysteries! And that’s how we end up spending more time with mysterious people trying to figure out what’s up with them.
Here are the 17 traits of “The mysterious type” that make us stick around and keep looking for more
1. They don’t talk much about their day, what they have done, etc. and this makes you want to get to know them even more.
2. Also, reading their minds is impossible and that uncertainty sucks you in.
3. Mysterious people build close relationships with only a very few people, which makes you want to be one of them.
4. You somehow sense that they are emotional people deep down and you want them to open up to you.
5. The fact that they are able to build a wall between themselves and the world means that they are self-sufficient, which again makes them more attractive.
6. They live in their own world without caring about what’s going on outside.
7. If you are very good-looking or social, they won’t be interested in you. This annoys you and causes you to obsess over them.
8. Sometimes you want to hold them by the arms, shake them and shout “Notice me already!”, but they will stay indifferent, even if you do.
9. They like spending time alone, questioning and observing. They are mostly intellectual.
10. They don’t care about what others do or say, therefore, they also don’t gossip.
11. They are usually calm. They make decisions without getting into a flap and they give solid advice.
12. They are good observers. They easily understand what you mean with which action you choose to do or the words that you choose to say.
13. Even if you are together with such a person, you will never be the center of their lives. Their hobbies that they are passionate about are always more important.
14. They don’t get angry easily. They know themselves and they don’t have complexes.
15. Their ideas and opinions aren’t ordinary. They help you see different points of view.
16. They are charismatic and cool, but they don’t do anything specific to impress anybody.
17. And, because you will never be able to figure them out fully, your love will never come to an end and you will never get bored.
Are you the mysterious type? Leave your thoughts in comments.