Anxiety knows no gender, no social class or race. It is proven that more than 40 million people in United States alone suffer from anxiety. Anxiety can start after a stressful or emotional event but it can also start without any cause or warning sign. It usually gives us very little time to prepare (if any) and before we know it, we are already having a full blown anxiety attack.
When it comes to anxiety, we need to look at it in two different ways. First off, there might be situations or things in our lives that in return might “cause” anxiety. However, in this article, we want to look at the other factor, meaning what might possibly “trigger” anxiety, the factors we usually overlook and fail to pay attention to. If we can identify some of these major hidden triggers, we can find ways to hopefully eliminate them from our lives.
1. Not socializing enough
We always hear about people feeling anxious or having panic attacks when they are in a crowded environment, but we fail to recognize that the complete opposite, can in fact trigger anxiety just the same. If we do not socialize enough, then we spend a lot of time on our own and with our own thoughts.
It is good to know ourselves and listen to ourselves but every once in awhile we need to go back to our social lives in order to function healthily among people. We also need this socializing to not lose touch with reality and be able to feel empathy for others. Spending more than enough time on our own, will eventually distort our thoughts and cause anxiety.
2. Not having motivation to do or achieve anything
Not having a goal in life can be painful. We all need something to look forward to in order to achieve personal or spiritual growth. The lack of motivation can lead to depression as well as anxiety, as not knowing a clear path can create stress on an individual. Exercising can help regain motivation as it releases dopamine and in general makes us feel accomplished. While exercising, we might find ourselves thinking of solutions that we did not notice existed before.
3. Not being able to handle stress
If you find yourself in a situation where life gets overwhelming and you can not deal with the amount of stress that would be a major anxiety trigger. Mindfulness meditation would help keep you in the present moment and while practicing it, every time you find yourself going back to stressful thoughts, just let your brain freely go there, but tell yourself that these are situations and emotions you are now organizing, just like you are organizing a bookshelf. Put them all in order. Deal with them one by one. Every time you find the energy to handle something, pull it out of the shelf, deal with it and file it. They belong in the archives now.
4. Negative thinking
Negative thinking is yet another big trigger for anxiety. Not only it makes you become a pessimistic person and puts you in a permanent panic mode, it also greatly lowers your frequency. When your frequency is low, you only attract things in the same frequency as yours. So work on your thinking. Be positive as much as you can. Practice meditation, yoga or martial arts.