15 Signs He’s Being Manipulative And Not Protective

Signs He Being Manipulative

Humans use, abuse and manipulate each other since the dawn of mankind. That’s how great kingdoms were built and also brought down. Manipulation is a shady trick and it is openly performed in the veil of something sweet and bright.

We often tend to be protective about our partner in a relationship to an extent but there are times when that protectiveness becomes manipulation. Learning to decipher this shady trick is best in the interest of your sanity and emotions.


15 signs he is manipulating you and not protecting you

1. He claims to know the best for you

You’re an adult and every adult has the power to make their own decision but he constantly makes you feel that you need his guidance to make the right choices. He always claims to know you better and what is best of interest for you there, by robbing you of the opportunity to make your own decisions.


2. He keeps on bringing up your past

Everyone makes a bad decision and everyone at some point fail that is how life works, no one is perfect. He keeps on bringing your past to prove you that you do make wrong decisions and he is ‘worried’ about you repeating the same again.


3. He keeps whining about time

You have a life and responsibilities and there are times you want to live your life on your own but whenever you have a plan or are working a lot, he starts complaining about how you would spend more time with him if you really cared enough.


4. He gets clingy in the presence of other men

If you are at a party or anywhere out and when eyes of men fall on you are merely their presence will trigger the insecurity in you and he begins hugging and kissing.


5. He doesn’t like you spending time with anyone else

Love often makes one possessive but we do know what that love does to one. Every time you are out with someone to be it, friend or family, he keeps texting you and asks you to come home early. This may sound protectiveness but this is manipulation.


6. He keeps commenting on your driving skills

Love is supposed to make you a better person and criticism does that for a while if it is constructive criticism but if someone keeps reminding you how you could have always done things better without any appreciation it’s not constructive criticism.


7. He boasts about his wisdom

Maybe at some point you didn’t listen to him and it turned out he was right, get ready now, he is not going to forget this and it will be used repeatedly to remind you of his wisdom and also how you don’t really make good decisions.


8. He makes over threats

If he threatens you to leave or harm himself if you don’t do something he asks for, it’s time you leave. That is not loving, that is madness and they are two very different things. Constant threats are nothing but manipulation to make you do what they desire.