The 9 Enneagram Personality Types: Which One Are You?

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What are the nine enneagram personality types and how can they help you understand your relationship with yourself and others? Letโ€™s find out!

The Enneagram (pronounced ANY-a-gram) is a profound and comprehensive personality typing system that helps you to understand yourself and other people with new depth and accuracy. It is like having X-ray glasses that enable you to see yourself and others with startling new clarity. Because understanding yourself, and others are so important, this knowledge has the potential to change your life and all your relationships.

The word Enneagram comes from the Greek words ennea (โ€œnineโ€) and gramma (โ€œsomething written downโ€) and refers to the nine-pointed Enneagram symbol that represents the nine basic personality types in people and their paths of personal development.

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Most personality typologies explain โ€œwhatโ€ you do. The Enneagram, on the other hand, goes much deeper. It explains โ€œwhy you do what you do.โ€ It shows your heartโ€™s intent and motivation on why you think, feel and behave the way you do. Most of us live unaware or asleep to the real reasons behind what makes us tick.

In order for real transformational growth to happen, we must become awake and aware to who we really are and the driving force behind everything we do. The beauty of the Enneagram is that it gives us profound information on our inner world so that we can begin walking on the path toward personal transformation.

The goal of the Enneagram is that as we grow, we will embody more of our typeโ€™s positive qualities and less of the negative qualities. We will be able to move around the circle and be our best selves. Through this system, we also gain immensely practical wisdom on communication and relationships that are not clouded by generalized assumptions.

Enneagram Personality Types

Wings and Lines

You are not purely one personality type, but a unique mixture of your main type, the two types next to your personality type (called Wings) and the two types that are connected to your personality through the lines (called Line or Arrows).Wings and Lines

Wings โ€“

Wings are the two personality types on either side of your personality type. For instance, wings for Type Nine are Type Eight and Type One. One wing is usually (but not always) used more than the other and brings a new dimension and depth to your main type. Think of them like salt and pepper. They add flavor and more complexity to the main type.

Your main type dominates how you perceive and experience life, but your wings influence your main type. We can take on the strengths of our wings to be healthy and balanced, but we can also access the areas of weakness from our wings when we are struggling.

To understand yourself to a great degree, you will want to also learn about your wings, the two types directly next to yours, and see how they are impacting your main type.

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Lines or Arrows โ€“

The Enneagram symbol is a dynamic map for self-discovery and growth. The lines in the symbol represent important paths for self-awareness and development. When we are under stress our personality will take on the average characteristics of the type moving in the direction of the red arrow.

When we are relaxed and doing well, we will move to the higher qualities of the type in the direction of the yellow arrow.

Example:

Type 9 is connected to Type 6 and Type 3. This means that when Type 9 is under stress, they can take on some average to negative attributes of Type 6 (worry, anxiety, thinking of worst-case scenarios). When type 9 is feeling secure and healthy, they tend take on some of the higher and healthier qualities of Type 3 (self-assertive, confident, achieving).

During this movement along the lines, they are still a Type 9, but these other two types greatly effect and influence how they interact with their circumstances.

The Enneagram Personality Types

1. The Reformer

The Rational, Idealistic Type: Principled, Purposeful, Self-Controlled, and Perfectionistic

Type Oneย In Brief

Ones are conscientious and ethical, with a strong sense of right and wrong. These Enneagram personality types are teachers, crusaders, and advocates for change: always striving to improve things, but afraid of making a mistake.

Well-organized, orderly, and fastidious, they try to maintain high standards but can slip into being critical and perfectionistic. They typically have problems with resentment and impatience.

At Their Best: wise, discerning, realistic, and noble. Can be morally heroic.

Basic Fear: Of being corrupt/evil, defective
Basic Desire: To be good, to have integrity, to be balanced
Enneagram One with a Nine-Wing: โ€œThe Idealistโ€
Enneagram One with a Two-Wing: โ€œThe Advocateโ€

Key Motivations

Want to be right, to strive higher and improve everything, to be consistent with their ideals, to justify themselves, to be beyond criticism so as not to be condemned by anyone.

The Meaning of the Arrows (in brief)

1. THE REFORMER
When moving in their Direction of Disintegration (stress), methodical Ones suddenly become moody and irrational at Four. However, when moving in their Direction of Integration (growth), angry, critical Ones become more spontaneous and joyful, like healthy Sevens.

Type Oneย Overview

We have named personality type One The Reformer because Ones have a โ€œsense of missionโ€ that leads them to want to improve the world in various ways, using whatever degree of influence they have. They strive to overcome adversityโ€”particularly moral adversityโ€”so that the human spirit can shine through and make a difference. They strive after โ€œhigher values,โ€ even at the cost of great personal sacrifice.

History is full of Ones who have left comfortable lives to do something extraordinary because they felt that something higher was calling them. During the Second World War, Raoul Wallenburg left a comfortable middle-class life to work for the protection of thousands of European Jews from invading Nazis.

In India, Gandhi left behind his wife and family and life as a successful lawyer to become an itinerant advocate of Indian independence and non-violent social changes. Joan of Arc left her village in France to restore the throne to the Dauphin and to expel the English from the country. The idealism of each of these Ones has inspired millions.

Ones are people of practical actionโ€”they wish to be useful in the best sense of the word. On some level of consciousness, they feel that they โ€œhave a missionโ€ to fulfill in life, if only to try their best to reduce the disorder they see in their environment.

Although Ones have a strong sense of purpose, they also typically feel that they have to justify their actions to themselves, and often to others as well. This orientation causes Ones to spend a lot of time thinking about the consequences of their actions, as well as about how to keep from acting contrary to their convictions.

Because of this, Ones often persuade themselves that they are โ€œheadโ€ types, rationalists who proceed only on logic and objective truth. But, the real picture is somewhat different: Ones are actually activists who are searching for an acceptable rationale for what they feel they must do.

They are people of instinct and passion who use convictions and judgments to control and direct themselves and their actions.

In the effort to stay true to their principles, Ones resist being affected by their instinctual drives, consciously not giving in to them or expressing them too freely. The result is a personality type that has problems with repression, resistance, and aggression.

They are usually seen by others as highly self- controlled, even rigid, although this is not how Ones experience themselves. It seems to them that they are sitting on a cauldron of passions and desires, and they had better โ€œkeep the lid onโ€ lest they and everyone else around them regret it.

Cassandra is a therapist in private practice who recalls the difficulty this caused her in her youth:

I remember in high school getting feedback that I had no feelings. Inside, I felt my feelings intensely and yet I just couldnโ€™t let them out as intensely as I felt them. Even now, if I have a conflict with a friend and need to address an issue, I rehearse ahead of time how to express clearly what I want, need, and observe, and yet, not be harsh or blaming in my anger which is often scathing.

Ones believe that being strict with themselves (and eventually becoming โ€œperfectโ€) will justify them in their own eyes and in the eyes of others. But by attempting to create their own brand of perfection, they often create their own personal hell.

Instead of agreeing with the statement in Genesis that God saw what He had created, โ€œand it was good,โ€ Ones intensely feel that โ€œIt wasnโ€™tโ€”there obviously have been some mistakes here!โ€ This orientation makes it difficult for them to trust their inner guidanceโ€”indeed, to trust lifeโ€”so Ones come to rely heavily on their superego, a learned voice from their childhood, to guide them toward โ€œthe greater goodโ€ which they so passionately seek.

When Ones have gotten completely entranced in their personality, there is little distinction between them and this severe, unforgiving voice. Separating from it and seeing its genuine strengths and limitations is what growth for Ones is about.

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2. The Helper

The Caring, Interpersonal Type: Demonstrative, Generous, People-Pleasing, and Possessive

Enneagram Personality Types

Type Two In Brief

Twos are empathetic, sincere, and warm-hearted. They are friendly, generous, and self-sacrificing, but can also be sentimental, flattering, and people-pleasing.

They are well-meaning and driven to be close to others, but can slip into doing things for others in order to be needed. They typically have problems with possessiveness and with acknowledging their own needs.

At Their Best: unselfish and altruistic, they have unconditional love for others.

Basic Fear: Of being unwanted, unworthy of being loved
Basic Desire: To feel loved
Enneagram Two with a One-Wing: โ€œThe Servantโ€
Enneagram Two with a Three-Wing: โ€œThe Host/Hostessโ€

Key Motivations

Want to be loved, to express their feelings for others, to be needed and appreciated, to get others to respond to them, to vindicate their claims about themselves.

The Meaning of the Arrows (in brief)

Type 2 Arrows When moving in their Direction of Disintegration (stress), needy Twos suddenly become aggressive and dominating at Eight. However, when moving in their Direction of Integration (growth), prideful, self-deceptive Twos become more self-nurturing and emotionally aware, like healthy Fours. Learn more about the arrows.

Type Two Overview

We have named personality type Two The Helper because people of this type are either the most genuinely helpful to other people or, when they are less healthy they are the most highly invested in seeing themselves as helpful. Being generous and going out of their way for others makes Twos feel that theirs is the richest, most meaningful way to live.

The love and concern they feelโ€”and the genuine good they doโ€”warms their hearts and makes them feel worthwhile. Twos are most interested in what they feel to be the โ€œreally, really goodโ€ things in lifeโ€”love, closeness, sharing, family, and friendship.

Louise is a minister who shares the joy she finds in being a Two:

I cannot imagine being another type and I would not want to be another type. I like being involved in peoplesโ€™ lives. I like feeling compassionate, caring, nurturing. I like cooking and homemaking. I like having the confidence that anyone can tell me anything about themselves and I will be able to love themโ€ฆ.I am really proud of myself and love myself for being able to be with people where they are. I really can, and do, love people, pets, and things. And I am a great cook!

When Twos are healthy and in balance, they really are loving, helpful, generous, and considerate. People are drawn to them like bees to honey. Healthy Twos warm others in the glow of their hearts. They enliven others with their appreciation and attention, helping people to see positive qualities in themselves that they had not previously recognized.

In short, healthy Twos are the embodiment of โ€œthe good parentโ€ that everyone wishes they had: someone who sees them as they are, understands them with immense compassion, helps and encourages with infinite patience, and is always willing to lend a handโ€”while knowing precisely how and when to let go.

Healthy Twos open our hearts because theirs are already so open and they show us the way to be more deeply and richly human.

Louise continues:

All of my jobs revolved around helping people. I was a teacher who wanted to be sensitive to children and help them get off to a good start. I was a religious education director in a number of parishes. I thought that if people learned about the spiritual life, theyโ€™d be happierโ€ฆThe most important part of my life is my spiritual life. I was in a religious community for ten years. I married a former priest, and we both have our spirituality as the basis of our life together.

However, Twosโ€™ inner development may be limited by their โ€œshadow sideโ€โ€”pride, self-deception, the tendency to become over-involved in the lives of others, and the tendency to manipulate others to get their own emotional needs met. Transformational work entails going into dark places in ourselves, and this very much goes against the grain of the Twoโ€™s personality structure, which prefers to see itself in only the most positive, glowing terms.

Perhaps the biggest obstacle facing Twos, Threes, and Fours in their inner work is having to face their underlying Center fear of worthlessness. Beneath the surface, all three types fear that they are without value in themselves, and so they must be or do something extraordinary in order to win love and acceptance from others.

In the average to unhealthy Levels, Twos present a false image of being completely generous and unselfish and of not wanting any kind of pay-off for themselves, when in fact, they can have enormous expectations and unacknowledged emotional needs.

Average to unhealthy Twos seek validation of their worth by obeying their superegoโ€™s demands to sacrifice themselves for others. They believe they must always put others first and be loving and unselfish if they want to get love. The problem is that โ€œputting others firstโ€ makes Twos secretly angry and resentful, feelings they work hard to repress or deny.

Nevertheless, they eventually erupt in various ways, disrupting Twosโ€™ relationships and revealing the inauthenticity of many of the average to unhealthy Twoโ€™s claims about themselves and the depth of their โ€œlove.โ€

But in the healthy range, the picture is completely different. My own [Don Risoโ€™s] maternal grandmother was an archetypal Two. During World War II, she was โ€œMomsโ€ to what seemed like half of Keisler Air Force Base in Biloxi, Mississippi, feeding the boys, allowing her home to be used as a โ€œhome away from home,โ€ giving advice and consolation to anyone lonely or fearful about going to war.

Although she and her husband were not wealthy and had two teenage children of their own, she cooked extra meals for the servicemen, put them up at night, and saw to it that their uniforms had all of their buttons and were well pressed. She lived until her 80โ€™s, remembering those years as the happiest and most fulfilling of her lifeโ€”probably because her healthy Two capacities were so fully and richly engaged.

3. The Achiver

The Success-Oriented, Pragmatic Type: Adaptive, Excelling, Driven, and Image-Conscious

Type Threeย In Brief

Threes are self-assured, attractive, and charming. Ambitious, competent, and energetic, they can also be status-conscious and highly driven for advancement.

They are diplomatic and poised, but can also be overly concerned with their image and what others think of them. They typically have problems with workaholism and competitiveness.

At Their Best: self-accepting, authentic, everything they seem to beโ€”role models who inspire others.

Basic Fear: Of being worthless
Basic Desire: To feel valuable and worthwhile
Enneagram Three with a Two-Wing: โ€œThe Charmerโ€
Enneagram Three with a Four-Wing: โ€œThe Professionalโ€

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Key Motivations

Want to be affirmed, to distinguish themselves from others, to have attention, to be admired, and to impress others.

The Meaning of the Arrows (in brief)

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When moving in their Direction of Disintegration (stress), driven Threes suddenly become disengaged and apathetic at Nine. However, when moving in their Direction of Integration (growth), vain, deceitful Threes become more cooperative and committed to others, like healthy Sixes.

Type Threeย Overview

We have named personality type Three The Achiever because when they are healthy, Threes really can and do achieve great things in the world. These Enneagram personality types are the โ€œstarsโ€ of human nature, and people often look up to them because of their graciousness and personal accomplishments.

Healthy Threes know how good it feels to develop themselves and contribute their abilities to the world, and also enjoy motivating others to greater personal achievements than others thought they were capable of.

They are usually well regarded and popular among their peers, the type of person who is frequently voted โ€œclass presidentโ€ or โ€œhome coming queenโ€ because people feel they want to be associated with this kind of person who acts as a stand-in for them. Healthy Threes embody the best in a culture, and others are able to see their hopes and dreams mirrored in them.

Threes are often successful and well liked because, of all the types, they most believe in themselves and in developing their talents and capacities. Threes act as living โ€œrole modelsโ€ and paragons because of their extraordinary embodiment of socially valued qualities.

Healthy Threes know that they are worth the effort it takes to be โ€œthe best that they can be.โ€ Their success at doing so inspires others to invest in their own self-development.

Threes want to make sure their lives are a success, however that is defined by their family, their culture and their social sphere. In some families, success means having a lot of money, a grand house, a new, expensive car, and other status symbols. Others value ideas, and success to them means distinguishing oneself in academic or scientific worlds.

Success in other circles might mean becoming famous as an actor, or model, or writer, or as a public figure of some kind, perhaps as a politician. A religious family might encourage a child to become a minister, priest, or rabbi since these professions have status in their community and in the eyes of the family.

No matter how success is defined, Threes will try to become somebody noteworthy in their family and their community. They will not be a โ€œnobody.โ€

To this end, Threes learn to perform in ways that will garner them praise and positive attention. As children, they learned to recognize the activities that were valued by their parents or peers, and put their energies into excelling in those activities. Threes also learned how to cultivate and develop whatever about them is attractive or potentially impressive.

Eve is a successful business-woman:

My mother trained me to perform. I was about three when I performed my first solo in front of the church congregation. I got a lot of positive strokes for that and went on to perform in front of audiences throughout high school, either through music or debate. To this day, something mystical happens to me when I get in front of an audience. I โ€˜turn it on.โ€™ I am called on frequently as a public speaker and some of my professional colleagues say that they hate following me on the program because I am such a hard act to follow!

Everyone needs attention, encouragement, and the affirmation of their value in order to thrive, and Threes are the type which most exemplifies this universal human need. Threes want success not so much for the things that success will buy (like Sevens), or for the power and feeling of independence that it will bring (like Eights).

They want success because they are afraid of disappearing into a chasm of emptiness and worthlessness: without the increased attention and feeling of accomplishment which success usually brings, Threes fear that they are nobody and have no value.

The problem is that, in the headlong rush to achieve whatever they believe will make them more valuable, Threes can become so alienated from themselves that they no longer know what they truly want, or what their real feelings or interests are. In this state, they are easy prey to selfโ€“deception, deceit, and falseness of all kinds.

Thus, the deeper problem is that their search for a way to be value increasingly takes them further away from their own Essential Self with its core of real value. From their earliest years, as Threes become dependent on receiving attention from others and in pursuing the values that others reward, they gradually lose touch with themselves.

Step by step, their own inner core, their โ€œheartโ€™s desire,โ€ is left behind until they no longer recognize it.

Thus, while they are the primary type in the Feeling Center, Threes, interestingly, are not known as โ€œfeelingโ€ people; rather, they are people of action and achievement. It is as if they โ€œput their feelings in a boxโ€ so that they can get ahead with what they want to achieve.

Threes have come to believe that emotions get in the way of their performance, so they substitute thinking and practical action for feelings.

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Jarvis is a well-educated and accomplished business professional; he sees that this pattern developed in him at an early age:

I had no conscious awareness of this at the time, but when I was a child, I wasnโ€™t allowed to have my feelings at all. They counted for nothing in the framework of my stepfatherโ€™s concept of what it took to be successful. I developed the habit of denying my feelings and instead focused on performing and getting good marks in school.

Threes report that when they realize to what extent they have adapted their lives to the expectations of others, the question arises, โ€œWell, then, what do I want?โ€ They often simply did not know; it was not a question that had ever come up before. Thus, the fundamental dilemma of Threes is that they have not been allowed to be who they really are and to manifest their own authentic qualities.

At a young age, they got the message that they were not allowed to have feelings and be themselves: they must, in effect, be someone else to be accepted. To some degree, all of the personality types have been sent the same message, but because of their particular background and makeup, Threes not only heard it, they began to live by it.

The attention they received by performing in a certain way was their oxygen, and they needed it to breathe. Unfortunately, it came at a high price.

Marie, a skilled therapist describes the contradictionโ€”and the pressureโ€”of this orientation:

For most of my life, people always noticed when I was involved in any kind of activity, and they have usually looked to me for some sort of direction. This has been a two-edged sword because while I wanted to be noticed and approved, the burden was that I had to be perfectโ€”and that was tough.

4. The Individualist

The Sensitive, Withdrawn Type: Expressive, Dramatic, Self-Absorbed, and Temperamental

Type Four In Brief

Fours are self-aware, sensitive, and reserved. These Enneagram personality types are emotionally honest, creative, and personal, but can also be moody and self-conscious.

Withholding themselves from others due to feeling vulnerable and defective, they can also feel disdainful and exempt from ordinary ways of living. They typically have problems with melancholy, self-indulgence, and self-pity.

At Their Best: inspired and highly creative, they are able to renew themselves and transform their experiences.

Basic Fear: That they have no identity or personal significance
Basic Desire: To find themselves and their significance (to create anย identity)
Enneagram Four with a Three-Wing: โ€œThe Aristocratโ€
Enneagram Four with a Five-Wing: โ€œThe Bohemianโ€

Key Motivations

Want to express themselves and their individuality, create and surround themselves with beauty, maintain certain moods and feelings, withdraw to protect their self-image, take care of emotional needs before attending to anything else, to attract a โ€œrescuer.โ€

The Meaning of the Arrows (in brief)

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When moving in their Direction of Disintegration (stress), aloof Fours suddenly become over-involved and clinging at Two. However, when moving in their Direction of Integration (growth), envious, emotionally turbulent Fours become more objective and principled, like healthy Ones.

Type Fourย Overview

We have named this type The Individualist because Fours maintain their identity by seeing themselves as fundamentally different from others. Fours feel that they are unlike other human beings, and consequently, that no one can understand them or love them adequately.

These Enneagram personality types often see themselves as uniquely talented, possessing special, one-of-a-kind gifts, but also as uniquely disadvantaged or flawed. More than any other type, Fours are acutely aware of and focused on their personal differences and deficiencies.

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Healthy Fours are honest with themselves: they own all of their feelings and can look at their motives, contradictions, and emotional conflicts without denying or whitewashing them. These Enneagram personality types may not necessarily like what they discover, but they do not try to rationalize their states, nor do they try to hide them from themselves or others. They are not afraid to see themselves โ€œwarts and all.โ€

Healthy Fours are willing to reveal highly personal and potentially shameful things about themselves because they are determined to understand the truth of their experienceโ€”so that they can discover who they are and come to terms with their emotional history.

This ability also enables Fours to endure suffering with a quiet strength. Their familiarity with their own darker nature makes it easier for them to process painful experiences that might overwhelm other types.

Nevertheless, Fours often report that they feel they are missing something in themselves, although they may have difficulty identifying exactly what that โ€œsomethingโ€ is. Is it will power? Social ease? Self-confidence? Emotional tranquility?โ€”all of which they see in others, seemingly in abundance.

Given time and sufficient perspective, Fours generally recognize that they are unsure about aspects of their self-imageโ€”their personality or ego-structure itself. They feel that they lack a clear and stable identity, particularly a social persona that they feel comfortable with.

While it is true that Fours often feel different from others, they do not really want to be alone. They may feel socially awkward or self-conscious, but they deeply wish to connect with people who understand them and their feelings. The โ€œromanticsโ€ of the Enneagram, they long for someone to come into their lives and appreciate the secret self that they have privately nurtured and hidden from the world.

If over time, such validation remains out of reach, Fours begin to build their identity aroundย how unlike everyone else they are. The outsider, therefore, comforts herself by becoming an insistent individualist: everything must be done on her own, in her own way, on her own terms.

Foursโ€™ mantra becomes โ€œI am myself. Nobody understands me. I am different and special,โ€ while they secretly wish they could enjoy the easiness and confidence that others seem to enjoy.

Fours typically have problems with a negative self-image and chronically low self-esteem. They attempt to compensate for this by cultivating a fantasy Selfโ€”an idealized self-image which is built up primarily in their imaginations.

A Four we know shared with us that he spent most of his spare time listening to classical music while fantasizing about being a great concert pianistโ€”ร  la Vladimir Horowitz. Unfortunately, his commitment to practicing fell far short of his fantasized self-image, and he was often embarrassed when people asked him to play for them. His actual abilities, while not poor, became sources of shame.

In the course of their lives, Fours may try several different identities on for size, basing them on styles, preferences, or qualities they find attractive in others. But underneath the surface, they still feel uncertain about who they really are. The problem is that they base their identity largely on their feelings.

When Fours look inward they see a kaleidoscopic, ever-shifting pattern of emotional reactions. Indeed, Fours accurately perceive a truth about human natureโ€”that it is dynamic and ever-changing. But because they want to create a stable, reliable identity from their emotions, they attempt to cultivate only certain feelings while rejecting others.

Some feelings are seen as โ€œme,โ€ while others are โ€œnot me.โ€ By attempting to hold on to specific moods and express others, Fours believe that they are being true to themselves.

One of the biggest challenges Fours face is learning to let go of feelings from the past; they tend to nurse wounds and hold onto negative feelings about those who have hurt them. Indeed, Fours can become so attached to longing and disappointment that they are unable to recognize the many treasures in their lives.

Leigh is a working mother who has struggled with these difficult feelings for many years:

I collapse when I am out in the world. I have had a trail of relationship disasters. I have hated my sisterโ€™s goodnessโ€”and hated goodness in general. I went years without joy in my life, just pretending to smile because real smiles would not come to me. I have had a constant longing for whatever I cannot have. My longings can never become fulfilled because I now realize that I am attached to โ€˜the longingโ€™ and not to any specific end result.

There is a Sufi story that relates to this about an old dog that had been badly abused and was near starvation. One day, the dog found a bone, carried it to a safe spot, and started gnawing away. The dog was so hungry that it chewed on the bone for a long time and got every last bit of nourishment that it could out of it.

After some time, a kind old man noticed the dog and its pathetic scrap and began quietly setting the food out for it. But the poor hound was so attached to its bone that it refused to let go of it and soon starved to death.

Fours are in the same predicament. As long as they believe that there is something fundamentally wrong with them, they cannot allow themselves to experience or enjoy their many good qualities. To acknowledge their good qualities would be to lose their sense of identity (as a suffering victim) and to be without a relatively consistent personal identity (their Basic Fear).

Fours grow by learning to see that much of their story is not trueโ€”or at least it is not true anymore. The old feelings begin to fall away once they stop telling themselves their old tale: it is irrelevant to who they are right now.

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5. The Investigator

The Intense, Cerebral Type: Perceptive, Innovative, Secretive, and Isolated

Type Fiveย In Brief

Fives are alert, insightful, and curious. They are able to concentrate and focus on developing complex ideas and skills. Independent, innovative, and inventive, they can also become preoccupied with their thoughts and imaginary constructs.

They become detached, yet high-strung and intense. They typically have problems with eccentricity, nihilism, and isolation.

At Their Best: visionary pioneers, often ahead of their time, and able to see the world in an entirely new way.

Basic Fear: Being useless, helpless, or incapable
Basic Desire: To be capable and competent
Enneagram Five with a Four-Wing: โ€œThe Iconoclastโ€
Enneagram Five with a Six-Wing: โ€œThe Problem Solverโ€

Key Motivations

Want to possess knowledge, to understand the environment, to have everything figured out as a way of defending the self from threats from the environment.

The Meaning of the Arrows (in brief)

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When moving in their Direction of Disintegration (stress), detached Fives suddenly become hyperactive and scattered at Seven. However, when moving in their Direction of Integration (growth), avaricious, detached Fives become more self-confident and decisive, like healthy Eights.

Type Five Overview

We have named personality type Five The Investigator because, more than any other type, Fives want to find out why things are the way they are. These Enneagram personality types want to understand how the world works, whether it is the cosmos, the microscopic world, the animal, vegetable, or mineral kingdomsโ€”or the inner world of their imaginations.

They are always searching, asking questions, and delving into things in depth. They do not accept received opinions and doctrines, feeling a strong need to test the truth of most assumptions for themselves.

John, a graphic artist, describes this approach to life:

Being a Five means always needing to learn, to take in information about the world. A day without learning is like a day without โ€˜sunshine.โ€™ As a Five, I want to have an understanding of life. I like having a theoretical explanation about why things happen as they do. This understanding makes me feel in charge and in control.

I most often learn from a distance as an observer and not a participant. Sometimes, it seems that understanding life is as good as living it. It is a difficult journey to learn that life must be lived and not just studied.

Behind Fivesโ€™ relentless pursuit of knowledge are deep insecurities about their ability to function successfully in the world. Fives feel that they do not have an ability to do things as well as others. But rather than engage directly with activities that might bolster their confidence, Fives โ€œtake a step backโ€ into their minds where they feel more capable.

Their belief is that from the safety of their minds they will eventually figure out how to do thingsโ€”and one day rejoin the world.

Fives spend a lot of time observing and contemplatingโ€”listening to the sounds of wind or of a synthesizer or taking notes on the activities in an anthill in their back yard. As they immerse themselves in their observations, they begin to internalize their knowledge and gain a feeling of self-confidence.

They can then go out and play a piece on the synthesizer or tell people what they know about ants. They may also stumble across exciting new information or make new creative combinations (playing a piece of music based on recordings of wind and water).

When they get verification of their observations and hypotheses or see that others understand their work, it is a confirmation of their competency, and this fulfills their Basic Desire. (โ€œYou know what you are talking about.โ€)

Knowledge, understanding, and insight are thus highly valued by Fives, because their identity is built around โ€œhaving ideasโ€ and being someone who has something unusual and insightful to say. For this reason, Fives are not interested in exploring what is already familiar and well-established; rather, their attention is drawn to the unusual, the overlooked, the secret, the occult, the bizarre, the fantastic, the โ€œunthinkable.โ€

Investigating โ€œunknown territoryโ€โ€”knowing something that others do not know, or creating something that no one has ever experiencedโ€”allows Fives to have a niche for themselves that no one else occupies. These Enneagram personality types believe that developing this niche is the best way that they can attain independence and confidence.

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Thus, for their own security and self-esteem, Fives need to have at least one area in which they have a degree of expertise that will allow them to feel capable and connected with the world. Fives think, โ€œI am going to find something that I can do really well, and then I will be able to meet the challenges of life. But I canโ€™t have other things distracting me or getting in the way.โ€

They, therefore, develop an intense focus on whatever they can master and feel secure about. It may be the world of mathematics, or the world of rock and roll, or classical music, or car mechanics, or horror and science fiction, or a world entirely created in their imagination.

Not all Fives are scholars or Ph.Ds. But, depending on their intelligence and the resources available to them, they focus intensely on mastering something that has captured their interest.

For better or worse, the areas that Fives explore do not depend on social validation; indeed, if others agree with their ideas too readily, Fives tend to fear that their ideas might be too conventional. History is full of famous Fives who overturned accepted ways of understanding or doing things (Darwin, Einstein, Nietzsche).

Many more Fives, however, have become lost in the Byzantine complexities of their own thought processes, becoming merely eccentric and socially isolated.

The intense focus of Fives can thus lead to remarkable discoveries and innovations, but when the personality is more fixated, it can also create self-defeating problems. This is because their focus of attention unwittingly serves to distract them from their most pressing practical problems.

Whatever the sources of their anxieties may beโ€”relationships, lack of physical strength, inability to gain employment, and so forthโ€”average Fives tend not to deal with these issues. Rather, they find something else to do that will make them feel more competent.

The irony is that no matter what degree of mastery they develop in their area of expertise, this cannot solve their more basic insecurities about functioning in the world. For example, as a marine biologist, a Five could learn everything there is to know about a type of shellfish, but if her fear is that she is never going to be able to run her own household adequately, she will not have solved her underlying anxiety.

Dealing directly with physical matters can feel extremely daunting for Fives. Henry is a life scientist working in a major medical research lab:

Since I was a child, I have shied away from sports and strenuous physical activity whenever possible. I was never able to climb the ropes in gym class, stopped participating in sports as soon as it was feasible, and the smell of a gymnasium still makes me uncomfortable.

At the same time, I have always had a very active mental life. I learned to read at the age of three, and in school I was always one of the smartest kids in academic subjects.

Thus, much of their time gets spent โ€œcollectingโ€ and developing ideas and skills they believe will make them feel confident and prepared. They want to retain everything that they have learned and โ€œcarry it around in their heads.โ€

The problem is that while they are engrossed in this process, they are not interacting with others or even increasing many other practical and social skills. They devote more and more time to collecting and attending to their collections, less to anything related to their real needs.

Thus, the challenge to Fives is to understand that they can pursue whatever questions or problems spark their imaginations and maintain relationships, take proper care of themselves, and do all of the things that are the hallmarks of a healthy life.

6. The Loyalist

The Committed, Security-Oriented Type: Engaging, Responsible, Anxious, and Suspicious

Type Six In Brief

Type Sixes are committed, security-oriented types. Sixes are reliable, hard-working, responsible, and trustworthy. Excellent โ€œtroubleshooters,โ€ they foresee problems and foster cooperation, but can also become defensive, evasive, and anxiousโ€”running on stress while complaining about it.

They can be cautious and indecisive, but also reactive, defiant, and rebellious. These Enneagram personality types typically have problems with self-doubt and suspicion.

At their best: internally stable and self-reliant, courageously championing themselves and others.

Basic Fear: Of being without support and guidance
Basic Desire: To have security and support
Enneagram Six with a Five-Wing: โ€œThe Defenderโ€
Enneagram Six with a Seven-Wing: โ€œThe Buddyโ€

Key Motivations

Want to have security, to feel supported by others, to have certitude and reassurance, to test the attitudes of others toward them, to fight against anxiety and insecurity.

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The Meaning of the Arrows (in brief)

 Enneagram

When moving in their Direction of Disintegration (stress), dutiful Sixes suddenly become competitive and arrogant at Three. However, when moving in their Direction of Integration (growth), fearful, pessimistic Sixes become more relaxed and optimistic, like healthy Nines. Learn more about the arrows.

Type Six Overview

We have named personality Type Six The Loyalistย because, of all the personality types, Sixes are the most loyal to their friends and to their beliefs. They will โ€œgo down with the shipโ€ and hang on to relationships of all kinds far longer than most other types.

Sixes are also loyal to ideas, systems, and beliefsโ€”even to the belief that all ideas or authorities should be questioned or defied. Indeed, not all Sixes go along with the โ€œstatus quo:โ€ their beliefs may be rebellious and anti-authoritarian, even revolutionary.

In any case, they will typically fight for their beliefs more fiercely than they will fight for themselves, and they will defend their community or family more tenaciously than they will defend themselves.

The reason Sixes are so loyal to others is that they do not want to be abandoned and left without supportโ€”their Basic Fear. Thus, the central issue for type Six is a failure of self-confidence.

Sixes come to believe that they do not possess the internal resources to handle lifeโ€™s challenges and vagaries alone, and so increasingly rely on structures, allies, beliefs, and supports outside themselves for guidance to survive. If suitable structures do not exist, they will help create and maintain them.

Sixes are the primary type in the Thinking Center, meaning that they have the most trouble contacting their own inner guidance. As a result,ย they do not have confidence in their own minds and judgments.

This does not mean that they do not think. On the contrary, they thinkโ€”and worryโ€”a lot! They also tend to fear making important decisions, although at the same time, they resist having anyone else make decisions for them.

They want to avoid being controlled, but are also afraid of taking responsibility in a way that might put them โ€œin the line of fire.โ€ (The old Japanese adage that says, โ€œThe blade of grass that grows too high gets chopped offโ€ relates to this idea.)

Sixes are always aware of their anxieties and are always looking for ways to construct โ€œsocial securityโ€ bulwarks against them. If Sixes feel that they have sufficient backup, they can move forward with some degree of confidence. But if that crumbles, they become anxious and self-doubting, reawakening their Basic Fear. (โ€œIโ€™m on my own! What am I going to do now?โ€)

A good question for Sixes might, therefore, be: โ€œWhen will I know that I have enough security?โ€ Or, to get right to the heart of it, โ€œWhat is security?โ€ Without Essential inner guidance and the deep sense of support that it brings, Sixes are constantly struggling to find firm ground.

Sixes attempt to build a network of trust over a background of unsteadiness and fear. They are often filled with a nameless anxiety and then try to find or create reasons why. Wanting to feel that there is something solid and clear-cut in their lives, they can become attached to explanations or positions that seem to explain their situation.

Because โ€œbeliefโ€ (trust, faith, convictions, positions) is difficult for Sixes to achieve, and because it is so important to their sense of stability, once they establish a trustworthy belief, they do not easily question it, nor do they want others to do so.

The same is true for individuals in a Sixโ€™s life: once Sixes feel they can trust someone, they go to great lengths to maintain connections with the person who acts as a sounding board, a mentor, or a regulator for the Sixโ€™s emotional reactions and behavior.

They therefore do everything in their power to keep their affiliations going. (โ€œIf I donโ€™t trust myself, then I have to find something in this world I can trust.โ€)

Although intelligent and accomplished, Connie still has to wrestle with the self-doubt of her type:

As my anxiety has come under control, so has my need to โ€˜check outโ€™ everything with my friends. I used to have to get the nod of approval from several hundred (just joking!) โ€˜authorities.โ€™

About nearly every decision would involve a council of my friends. I usually would do this one-on-one: โ€˜What do you think, Mary?โ€™ โ€˜If I do this, then that might happen.โ€™ Please make up my mind for me!โ€™โ€ฆRecently, Iโ€™ve narrowed my authorities to just one or two trusted friends, and on occasion, Iโ€™ve actually made up my own mind!

Until they can get in touch with their own inner guidance, Sixes are like a ping-pong ball that is constantly shuttling back and forth between whatever influence is hitting the hardest in any given moment. Because of this reactivity, no matter what we say about Sixes, the opposite is often also as true.

They are both strong and weak, fearful and courageous, trusting and distrusting, defenders and provokers, sweet and sour, aggressive and passive, bullies and weaklings, on the defensive and on the offensive, thinkers, and doers, group people and soloists, believers and doubters, cooperative and obstructionistic, tender and mean, generous and pettyโ€”and on and on.

It is the contradictory picture that is the characteristic โ€œfingerprintโ€ of Sixes, the fact that they are a bundle of opposites.

The biggest problem for Sixes is that they try to build safety in the environment without resolving their own emotional insecurities. When they learn to face their anxieties, however, Sixes understand that although the world is always changing and is, by nature uncertain, they can be serene and courageous in any circumstance.

And they can attain the greatest gift of all, a sense of peace with themselves despite the uncertainties of life.

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7. The Enthusiast

The Busy, Fun-Loving Type: Spontaneous, Versatile, Distractible, and Scattered

Type Seven In Brief

Sevens are extroverted, optimistic, versatile, and spontaneous. Playful, high-spirited, and practical, they can also misapply their many talents, becoming overextended, scattered, and undisciplined.

These Enneagram personality types constantly seek new and exciting experiences, but can become distracted and exhausted by staying on the go. They typically have problems with impatience and impulsiveness.

At Their Best: they focus their talents on worthwhile goals, becoming appreciative, joyous, and satisfied.

Basic Fear: Of being trapped and in pain
Basic Desire: To be satisfied and contentโ€”to have their needs fulfilled
Enneagram Seven with a Six-Wing: โ€œThe Entertainerโ€
Enneagram Seven with an Eight-Wing: โ€œThe Realistโ€

Key Motivations

Want to maintain their freedom and happiness, to avoid missing out on worthwhile experiences, to keep themselves excited and occupied, to avoid and discharge pain.

The Meaning of the Arrows (in brief)

Enneagram Personality Types

Type Seven Overview

We have named this Enneagram personality type The Enthusiast because Sevens are enthusiastic about almost everything that catches their attention. They approach life with curiosity, optimism, and a sense of adventure, like โ€œkids in a candy storeโ€ who look at the world in wide-eyed, rapt anticipation of all the good things they are about to experience.

They are bold and vivacious, pursuing what they want in life with a cheerful determination. They have a quality best described by the Yiddish word โ€œchutzpahโ€โ€”a kind of brash โ€œnerviness.โ€

Although Sevens are in the Thinking Center, this is not immediately apparent because they tend to be extremely practical and engaged in a multitude of projects at any given time. Their thinking is anticipatory: they foresee events and generate ideas โ€œon the fly,โ€ favoring activities that stimulate their mindsโ€”which in turn generate more things to do and think about.

Sevens are not necessarily intellectual or studious by any standard definition, although they are often intelligent and can be widely read and highly verbal. Their minds move rapidly from one idea to the next, making Sevens gifted at brainstorming and synthesizing information.

Sevens are exhilarated by the rush of ideas and by the pleasure of being spontaneous, preferring broad overviews and the excitement of the initial stages of the creative process to probing a single topic in depth.

Devon, a successful businesswoman, shares with us some of the inner workings of her Seven mindset:

I am definitely a list person. Itโ€™s not really for memory since I have a great memory. Itโ€™s more for downloading information so that my mind wonโ€™t spin on it. For example, I was at a concert where the tickets were hard to get and very expensive. I couldnโ€™t sit through it.

My mind was torturing me with the things I needed to do. Finally, I had to get up and leave. This was very upsetting to the person I went with and I missed a good show.

Sevens are frequently endowed with quick, agile minds, and can be exceptionally fast learners. This is true both of their ability to absorb information (language, facts, and procedures) and their ability to learn new manual skillsโ€”they tend to have excellent mind-body coordination, and manual dexterity (typewriting, piano playing, tennis).

All of this can combine to make a Seven into the quintessential โ€œRenaissance person.โ€

Ironically, Sevensโ€™ wide-ranging curiosity and ability to learn quickly can also create problems for them. Because they are able to pick up many different skills with relative ease, it becomes more difficult for them to decide what to do with themselves.

As a result, they also do not always value their abilities as they would if they had to struggle to gain them. When Sevens are more balanced however, their versatility, curiosity, and ability to learn can lead them to extraordinary achievement.

The root of their problem is common to all of the types of the Thinking Center: they are out of touch with the inner guidance and support of their Essential nature. As with Fives and Sixes, this creates a deep anxiety in Sevens. They do not feel that they know what to do or how to make choices that will be beneficial to themselves and others. Sevens cope with this anxiety in two ways.

First, they try to keep their minds busy all of the time. As long as Sevens can keep their minds occupied, especially with projects and positive ideas for the future, they can, to some extent, keep anxiety and negative feelings out of conscious awareness.

Likewise, since their thinking is stimulated by activity, Sevens are compelled to stay on the go, moving from one experience to the next, searching for more stimulation. This is not to say that Sevens are โ€œspinning their wheels.โ€ They generally enjoy being practical and getting things done.

Frances, a successful business consultant, sounds more energetic than is humanly possibleโ€”and yet, she is a typical Seven:

I am highly, highly productive. At the office, I am joyful and my mind is running at its best. I might create several marketing campaigns for a client, work on the outline for an upcoming seminar, talk out a difficult problem with a client on the telephone, close two deals, make a project list, dictate a few letters, and look up to see that itโ€™s 9:30 a.m. and my assistant is coming in to start our work for the day.

Second, Sevens cope with the loss of Essential guidance by using the โ€œtrial and errorโ€ method: they try everything to make sure they know what is best. On a very deep level, Sevens do not feel that they can find what they really want in life.

They, therefore, tend to try everythingโ€”and ultimately may even resort to anything as a substitute for what they are really looking for. (โ€œIf I canโ€™t have what will really satisfy me, Iโ€™ll enjoy myself anyway. Iโ€™ll have all kinds of experiencesโ€”that way I will not feel bad about not getting what I really want.โ€)

We can see this in action even in the most trivial areas of their daily lives. Unable to decide whether he wants vanilla, chocolate, or strawberry ice cream, a Seven will want all three flavorsโ€”just to be sure that he does not miss out on the โ€œrightโ€ choice.

Having two weeks for a vacation and a desire to visit Europe brings a similar quandary. Which countries and cities to visit? Which sites to see? The Sevenโ€™s way of dealing with this will be to cram as many different countries, cities, and attractions into his vacation as possible.

While they are scrambling after exciting experiences, the real object of their heartโ€™s desire (their personal Rosebud, as it were) may be so deeply buried in their unconscious that they are never really aware of precisely what it is.

Furthermore, as Sevens speed up their pursuit of whatever seems to offer freedom and satisfaction, they tend to make worse choices, and they are less able to be satisfied because everything is experienced indirectly, through the dense filter of their fast-paced mental activity.

The result is that Sevens end up anxious, frustrated, and enraged, with fewer resources available to them physically, emotionally, or financially. They may end up ruining their health, their relationships, and their finances in their search for happiness.

Gertrude is busy establishing her career and family now, but she looks back at how this tendency contributed to her getting a rough start in life.

There wasnโ€™t anything to do at home or in the tiny Southern town I grew up in. I was dying to get out of it and go someplace more exciting. When I was 16, I started dating, and before long I got pregnant, but the father didnโ€™t want to marry meโ€”which was okay since I didnโ€™t want to marry him, either.

It wasnโ€™t too long before I found somebody else, and we got married, and I got to move to a larger city. But it didnโ€™t really work out the way I wanted because after I had the baby, we broke up and I had to move back home. I stayed there for a year or two to get my feet on the ground. When things were looking bleak, I married someone else. Iโ€™m 19 now and I guess Iโ€™ve done a lot already.

On the positive side, however, Sevens are extremely optimistic peopleโ€”exuberant and upbeat. They are endowed with abundant vitality and a desire to fully participate in their lives each day. They are naturally cheerful and good-humored, not taking themselves too seriously, or anything else for that matter.

As we have seen, the Basic Desire of Sevens is to be satisfied, happy, and fulfilled, and when they are balanced within themselves, their joy and enthusiasm for life naturally affect everyone around them. They remind us of the pure pleasure of existenceโ€”the greatest gift of all.

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8. The Challenger

The Powerful, Dominating Type: Self-Confident, Decisive, Willful, and Confrontational

Type Eightย In Brief

Eights are self-confident, strong, and assertive. Protective, resourceful, straight-talking, and decisive, but can also be ego-centric and domineering. Eights feel they must control their environment, especially people, sometimes becoming confrontational and intimidating.

These Enneagram personality types typically have problems with their tempers and with allowing themselves to be vulnerable.

At Their Best: self- mastering, they use their strength to improve othersโ€™ lives, becoming heroic, magnanimous, and inspiring.

Basic Fear: Of being harmed or controlled by others
Basic Desire: To protect themselves (to be in control of their own lifeย and destiny)
Enneagram Eight with a Seven-Wing: โ€œThe Maverickโ€
Enneagram Eight with a Nine-Wing: โ€œThe Bearโ€

Key Motivations

Want to be self-reliant, to prove their strength and resist weakness, to be important in their world, to dominate the environment, and to stay in control of their situation.

The Meaning of the Arrows (in brief)

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When moving in their Direction of Disintegration (stress), self-confident Eights suddenly become secretive and fearful at Five. However, when moving in their Direction of Integration (growth), lustful, controlling Eights become more open-hearted and caring, like healthy Twos.

Type Eightย Overview

We have named Enneagram personality type Eight The Challenger because, of all the types, Eights enjoy taking on challenges themselves as well as giving others opportunities that challenge them to exceed themselves in some way.

Eights are charismatic and have the physical and psychological capacities to persuade others to follow them into all kinds of endeavorsโ€”from starting a company to rebuilding a city, to running a household, to waging war, to making peace.

Eights have enormous willpower and vitality, and they feel most alive when they are exercising these capacities in the world. They use their abundant energy to effect changes in their environmentโ€”to โ€œleave their markโ€ on itโ€”but also to keep the environment, and especially other people, from hurting them and those they care about.

At an early age, Eights understand that this requires strength, will, persistence, and enduranceโ€”qualities that they develop in themselves and which they look for in others.

Thayer is a stockbroker who has worked intensively on understanding her type Eight personality. She recounts a childhood incident in which she could clearly see the development of this pattern.

Much of my tenacity and toughness comes from my Dad. He always told me not to โ€˜let anybody push you around.โ€™ It was not okay to cry. I learned to master my weaker side early on. At the tender age of eight, a huge horse ran away with me. When an adult caught the horse, I resolutely dismounted without a tear. I could tell my father was proud.

Eights do not want to be controlled or to allow others to have power over them (their Basic Fear), whether the power is psychological, sexual, social, or financial. Much of their behavior is involved with making sure that they retain and increase whatever power they have for as long as possible.

An Eight may be a general or a gardener, a small businessman or a mogul, the mother of a family or the superior of a religious community. No matter: being โ€œin chargeโ€ and leaving their imprint on their sphere is uniquely characteristic of them.

Eights are the true โ€œrugged individualistsโ€ of the Enneagram. More than any other type, they stand alone. They want to be independent and resist being indebted to anyone. They often refuse to โ€œgive inโ€ to social convention, and they can defy fear, shame, and concern about the consequences of their actions.

Although they are usually aware of what people think of them, they do not let the opinions of others sway them. They go about their business with a steely determination that can be awe-inspiring, even intimidating to others.

Although, to some extent, Eights fear physical harm, far more important is their fear of being disempowered or controlled in some way. Eights are extraordinarily tough and can absorb a great deal of physical punishment without complaintโ€”a double-edged blessing since they often take their health and stamina for granted and overlook the health and well-being of others as well.

Yet they are desperately afraid of being hurt emotionally and will use their physical strength to protect their feelings and keep others at a safe emotional distance. Beneath the tough faรงade is vulnerability, although it has been covered over by a layer of emotional armor.

Thus, Eights are often extremely industrious, but at the price of losing emotional contact with many of the people in their lives. Those close to them may become increasingly dissatisfied with this state of affairs, which confounds Eights. (โ€œI donโ€™t understand what my family is complaining about. I bust my hump to provide for them. Why are they disappointed with me?โ€)

When this happens, Eights feel misunderstood and may distance themselves further. In fact, beneath their imposing exterior, Eights often feel hurt and rejected, although this is something they seldom talk about because they have trouble admitting their vulnerability to themselves, let alone to anyone else.

Because they fear that they will be rejected (divorced, humiliated, criticized, fired, or harmed in some way), Eights attempt to defend themselves by rejecting others first. The result is that average Eights become blocked in their ability to connect with people or to love since love gives the other power over them, reawakening their Basic Fear.

The more Eights build up their egos in order to protect themselves, the more sensitive they become to any real or imaginary slight to their self-respect, authority, or preeminence.

The more they attempt to make themselves impervious to hurt or pain (whether physical or emotional), the more they โ€œshut downโ€ emotionally to become hardened and rock-like.

When Eights are emotionally healthy, however, they have a resourceful, โ€œcan-doโ€ attitude as well as a steady inner drive. They take the initiative and make things happen with a great passion for life. They are honorable and authoritativeโ€”natural leaders who have a solid, commanding presence.

Their groundedness gives them abundant โ€œcommon senseโ€ as well as the ability to be decisive. Eights are willing to โ€œtake the heat,โ€ knowing that any decision cannot please everyone.

But as much as possible, they want to look after the interests of the people in their charge without playing favorites. They use their talents and fortitude to construct a better world for everyone in their lives.

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9. The Peacemaker

The Easygoing, Self-Effacing Type: Receptive, Reassuring, Agreeable, and Complacent

Type Nineย In Brief

Nines are accepting, trusting, and stable. These Enneagram personality types are usually creative, optimistic, and supportive, but can also be too willing to go along with others to keep the peace.

They want everything to go smoothly and be without conflict, but they can also tend to be complacent, simplifying problems and minimizing anything upsetting. They typically have problems with inertia and stubbornness.

At Their Best: indomitable and all-embracing, they are able to bring people together and heal conflicts.

Basic Fear: Of loss and separation
Basic Desire: To have inner stability and โ€œpeace of mindโ€
Enneagram Nine with an Eight-Wing: โ€œThe Refereeโ€
Enneagram Nine with a One-Wing: โ€œThe Dreamerโ€

Key Motivations

Want to create harmony in their environment, avoid conflicts and tension, preserve things as they are, to resist whatever would upset or disturb them.

The Meaning of the Arrows (in brief)

Enneagram

When moving in their Direction of Disintegration (stress), complacent Nines suddenly become anxious and worried atย Six. However, when moving in their Direction of Integration (growth), slothful, self-neglecting Nines become more self-developing and energetic, like healthy Threes.

Type Nineย Overview

We have called Enneagram personality type Nine The Peacemaker because no type is more devoted to the quest for internal and external peace for themselves and others. They are typically โ€œspiritual seekersโ€ who have a great yearning for connection with the cosmos, as well as with other people.

They work to maintain their peace of mind just as they work to establish peace and harmony in their world. The issues encountered in the Nine are fundamental to all psychological and spiritual workโ€”being awake versus falling asleep to our true nature; presence versus entrancement, openness versus blockage, tension versus relaxation, peace versus pain, union versus separation.

Ironically, for a type so oriented to the spiritual world, Nine is the center of the Instinctive Center and is the type that is potentially most grounded in the physical world and in their own bodies.

The contradiction is resolved when we realize that Nines are either in touch with their instinctive qualities and have tremendous elemental power and personal magnetism, or they are cut off from their instinctual strengths and can be disengaged and remote, even lightweight.

To compensate for being out of touch with their instinctual energies, Nines also retreat into their minds and their emotional fantasies. (This is why Nines can sometimes misidentify themselves as Fives and Sevens, โ€œhead types,โ€ or as Twos and Fours, โ€œfeeling types.โ€)

Furthermore, when their instinctive energies are out of balance, Nines use these very energies against themselves, damming up their own power so that everything in their psyches becomes static and inert.

When their energy is not used, it stagnates like a spring-fed lake that becomes so full that its own weight dams up the springs that feed it. When Nines are in balance with their Instinctive Center and its energy, however, they are like a great river, carrying everything along with it effortlessly.

We have sometimes called the Nine the crown of the Enneagram because it is at the top of the symbol and because it seems to include the whole of it. Nines can have the strength of Eights, the sense of fun and adventure of Sevens, the dutifulness of Sixes, the intellectualism of Fives, the creativity of Fours, the attractiveness of Threes, the generosity of Twos, and the idealism of Ones.

However, what they generally do not have is a sense of really inhabiting themselvesโ€”a strong sense of their own identity.

Ironically, therefore, the only type the Nine is not like is the Nine itself. Being a separate self, an individual who must assert herself against others is terrifying to Nines. They would rather melt into someone else or quietly follow their idyllic daydreams.

Red, a nationally known business consultant, comments on this tendency:

I am aware of focusing on other people, wondering what they are like, how and where they live, etc. In a relationship with others, I often give up my own agenda in favor of the other personโ€™s. I have to be on guard about giving in to otherโ€™s demands and discounting my own legitimate needs

Nines demonstrate the universal temptation to ignore the disturbing aspects of life and to seek some degree of peace and comfort by โ€œnumbing out.โ€ They respond to pain and suffering by attempting to live in a state of premature peacefulness, whether it is in a state of false spiritual attainment, or in more gross denial.

More than any other type, Nines demonstrate the tendency to run away from the paradoxes and tensions of life by attempting to transcend them or by seeking to find simple and painless solutions to their problems.

To emphasize the pleasant in life is not a bad thing, of courseโ€”it is simply a limited and limiting approach to life. If Nines see the silver lining in every cloud as a way of protecting themselves from the cold and rain, other types have their distorting viewpoints, too.

For example, Fours focus on their own woundedness and victimization, Ones on what is wrong with how things are, and so forth. By contrast, Nines tend to focus on the โ€œbright side of lifeโ€ so that their peace of mind will not be shaken. But rather than deny the dark side of life, what Nines must understand is that all of the perspectives presented by the other types are true, too.

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Nines must resist the urge to escape into โ€œpremature Buddhahoodโ€ or the โ€œwhite lightโ€ of the Divine and away from the mundane world. They must remember that โ€œthe only way out is through.โ€

Whatโ€™s your Enneagram personality type? Let me know in the comments.


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