6 Signs That Say You’re Unfuckwithable

Emilia Gordon

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Self Love, Self Development

The simple meaning of being unfuckwithable is that you do not let anyone or anything bother you, and your peace of mind at all. It’s the highest state of your existence, of things you do, of the place you live, of every moment of your life.

It’s about being at peace with oneself so much that no action from outside can disrupt that.

Unfuckwithable is that state of being where you are completely in tune with your soul and free of expectations and attachments.

You have come to understand that expectations and attachments make you vulnerable and that makes you fuckwithable.

You have learned to let go of these vulnerabilities. You don’t have anything to win or lose. You have gone beyond the finite gameplay and embraced the infinite gameplay, continuing to be in the game without any particular motif. That makes you the strongest soul among all. You have truly understood the purpose of your existence.

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6 Signs That Say You’re Unfuckwithable

(1) You have realized your self-worth.

“Strong people have a strong sense of self-worth and self-awareness; they don’t need the approval of others.” ― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

You know the unique person you truly are. You are confident about yourself and no one or nothing can push you into questioning this uniqueness. In fact, it is your ingenuity that acts as a fingerprint of your soul and can even mold negative energy into a positive one.

Related: The Subtle Art Of NOT Giving A Fuck

(2) You focus on the thing you can control and leave the things you can’t.

“Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t.” ― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

You understand that it’s your own behavior and actions which you can control. You also know that you can’t control others and so, you let go of the attachments and expectations. You embrace uncertainty and don’t get disturbed by the things you can’t take control of. You are more focused on yourself.

(3) You love yourself.

“The only person who can pull me down is myself, and I’m not going to let myself pull me down anymore.” ― C. JoyBell C

You do not care if others love you or hate you. You treat your lovers and haters alike. You love yourself and that matters the most. This self-love removes all your insecurities. You are not scared of darker times because you have yourself and you know you can pass through it.

Related: 3 Types of People Who don’t Give a Fuck and How to be One of Them.

(4) You live life fearlessly.

“To me, Fearless is not the absence of fear. It’s not being completely unafraid. To me, Fearless is having fears. Fearless is having doubts. Lots of them. To me, Fearless is living in spite of those things that scare you to death.” ― Taylor Swift

You are more than willing to get out of your comfort zone and face your fears. You accept all the challenges with a smiling face and evolve so that you can deal with them. You are continuously molding yourself to face these obstacles. You are also well aware that you might lose everything but doesn’t stop you.

(5) You forgive.

“To err is human, to forgive, divine.” ― Alexander Pope, An Essay on Criticism

You understand that emotions like anger or hurt only pulls you back. No matter how wrong a person is, you forgive them and move on because you don’t have any attachments with anyone. Since the actions of others don’t affect you, you can easily forgive. You know that the past is the past and you can’t do anything about it.

But you can change the future by actions of your present and you can make the best out of it by forgiving and letting go of the attachments.

Related: 8 Things I Don’t Give A Fuck About (and neither should you)

(6) You live your life on the edge.

“Dance. Smile. Giggle. Marvel. TRUST. HOPE. LOVE. WISH. BELIEVE. Most of all, enjoy every moment of the journey, and appreciate where you are at this moment instead of always focusing on how far you have to go.” ― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

You live every day as if tomorrow might never exist. Nothing can pull you back; you don’t care about any shackle. You embrace what this universe has to offer; you let yourself sail on the flow of this universe. By doing this, you embrace positivity and spread positivity wherever you go.

As you are unfuckwithable, you are connected to the soul of this universe. You are spiritually a lot stronger than people around you. You are a leader and you create other leaders as you grow.

If you want to know more about being unfuckwithable, then check this video out below:

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Emilia Gordon

Born and brought up in Kansas, Emilia is a writer and a social activist.She enjoys travelling and meeting new people

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