When a man is unhappy and is not interested in continuing with the relationship he is in, he shows certain signs that he is going to breakup.
Men can often be capricious, being one myself, I can testify this statement. When it comes to emotions though considered highly evolved, they can be as unpredictable as women if not more.
Men seek comfort in a relationship but they also like to keep it interesting. The dilemma of whether to end a relationship or not is real, being with someone because you feel safe and cared for makes sense but not being able to reciprocate and feel the love tells a different tale.
Love is an independent feeling, it is not bound to your fear or safety, if it is, then you know something is wrong. Men don’t easily give up or break up, they try, and they try to rationalize the reasons for staying in the relationship, reasoning themselves to hold on. But the ship has sailed and “once sailed, neither the ship nor the shore ever remains the same again.”
10 Signs He Is Going To Break Up With You
1. He seems to be getting distant.
He is there in front of you but you don’t feel his presence. He might be there physically, but not emotionally. When you feel that he is being way too detached with you, know that the ship has sailed, and it’s time to prepare yourself to say goodbye.
You may try to bring him back, bring the love back but you feel that sadness because you know it’s just a matter of time when he gets lost in his mind again. Your efforts or the time you shared will make no difference.
2. He is suddenly always busy with work.
Not every man loves his job and they tolerate it only because they need to support the roof above their head. If your man is suddenly spending more time in the office despite the same workload, it is a sign that he doesn’t feel that spark with you anymore, and he is getting ready to break up with you.
It might sound harsh but if a man wants to be home early right next to you, he will be. You have seen him work every day and if he starts coming home at 9 pm despite no change in job role, he is not cheating but rather choosing to do anything other than being with you.
3. The sex has stopped.
Even though in healthy relationships, the sex tends to tone down after a while, when you see that your boyfriend is disturbingly disinterested in having sex with you, know that your relationship is nearing its end.
You will notice that he won’t even kiss you, and even if he does have sex with you, it will seem more of like a chore or duty on his part. So, know that this is one of the signs that he is ready to breakup with you.
4. He gives in to the vices.
When in a relationship, one tries to stay healthy and better himself to prove it to you that he is worth the run and he isn’t leaving you for anything.
If you start to notice that his drinking/smoking addictions are out of check and he is engrossed in everything that he isn’t supposed to, it signs that they are reaching for the exit door.
If they no longer care for the balance in their life, they are probably done with the relationship.
5. Your touch is no more magical.
If a man wants to be with you, they will be. If he starts to recoil from your kisses or hand-holding, know that he is ready to bounce. When he stops touching you and hates it when you do, the relationship has run the course.
It’s simple with men, if they want you they want you, if they don’t, they just don’t. If he feels irritated at the touches which once were magical, it’s one of the biggest signs that he wants a breakup.