These signs will appear when he is ready to break up with you.
Men can often be capricious, being one myself, I can testify this statement. When it comes to emotions though considered highly evolved, they can be as unpredictable as women if not more. There is always the shade- the black and white.
Men seek comfort in a relationship but they also like to keep it interesting. The dilemma whether to end a relationship or not is real, being with someone because you feel safe and cared makes sense but not being able to reciprocate and feel the love tells a different tale.
Love is an independent feeling, it is not bound to your fear or safety, if it is, then you know something is wrong. Men don’t easily give up or break up, they try, and they try to rationalize their stay, reasoning themselves to hold on. But the ship has sailed and “once sailed, neither the ship nor the shore ever remains the same again.”
10 signs he is ready to break up with you
1. He seems to be getting distant
He is there in front of you but you don’t feel his presence, every time you sit with him you feel more than when you are with yourself, know this that the ship has sailed and he is just waiting for the moment to bid goodbye.
You may try to bring him back, bring the love back but you feel that sadness because you know it’s just matter of time when he gets lost in his mind again. Your efforts or the time you shared will make no difference.
2. He is suddenly always busy with work.
Not many men love their job and they tolerate it only because they need to support the roof above their head if your man is suddenly spending more time in the office despite the same workload that used to be before, know that he is getting to ready to break up with you.
It might sound harsh but if a man wants to be home early right next to you, he will be.You have seen him work every day and if he starts coming home at 9 pm despite no change in job role, he is not cheating but rather choosing anything to be with other than you.
3. The sex has stopped
Okay, this is tricky, even in happy relationships, sex stops to a degree after certain times. The intimacy slows down after some time maybe be because we get used to it.
But we feel it when your partner is disinterested in your body even when it comes to kissing it is clear sign that he is getting over the relationship.
4. He gives in to the vices
When in a relationship, one tries to stay healthy and prosper and better himself to prove it to you that he is worth the run and he isn’t leaving you for anything.
If you start to notice that his drinking/smoking addictions are out of check and he is engrossed in everything that he isn’t supposed to, it signs that they are reaching for the exit door.
If they no longer care for the balance in their life, they are probably done with the relationship.
5. Your touch is no more magical
Men, if they want to be with you, they will be. If he starts to recoil from your kisses or hand-holds or just a touch on his head, know this that he is ready to bounce.
It’s simple with men if they want you they want you, if they don’t, they just don’t. If he feels irritated at the touches which once were magical, it’s clear sign that it is over for him.