Skip to content

To The Girl Who’s Fallen For A Narcissist – You Should Read This

To The Girl Whos Fallen For A Narcissist You Should Read This

You don’t know what you are into till you are left devastated. This is to the girl who has fallen for a Narcissist.

“A narcissist, on the other hand, is the exact opposite of an empath. Emotionally, narcissists are like brick walls who see and hear others but fail to understand or relate to them. As a result of their emotional shallowness, narcissists are essentially devoid of all empathy or compassion for other people. Lacking empathy, a narcissist is a very destructive and dangerous person to be around.” ― Mateo Sol

Not all beasts are princes in disguise. Yes, he’s definitely not one of them.

You love him but stop right there. Don’t take a step forward because it’s now or never. Just, RUN!

You need to get hold of yourself and run away from him, get away from his sight because your dreams will become a nightmare.

Read Narcissistic Relationships

You are smart and you need to think logically. Use your brain. Spot those warning signs.

Are his deeds reciprocating his words? Does he really love you? One of the important tricks the narcissist plays on their victims is that they convince them they are not narcissists. Don’t fall into the trap. You are a nice girl and people take advantage of your modesty, of your trust. Your narcissist lover is the one who is using it to his fullest.

He will convince you and your family that he’s The Prince Charming. He will put up a well-scripted play and none in your family and friend circle will ever notice until the play ends leaving your tragic heartbreak. He knows well how to deceive people and he’s going to do exactly that.

Now that you have fallen for him, his true colors will come out. But by that time, you have become too blind to see through them.

All of a sudden, he becomes a completely different person.

You don’t know this guy. He looks like a clone of the guy you have fallen for but his emotions are different, his attitude, his feelings are not the same months back when you fell in love with him.

You will be the one who is blamed. Instead of supporting you, he will make you responsible for your failures and also his failures. It will seem that you are the one who is guilty of anything negative that happens around you. Slowly, you start losing your self-worth.

This will make him claim he is superior to you. He will dominate, make you do things he wants and follow his ways because he has already established in your mind that you have no worth.

And then, he slowly starts distancing himself away from you. It hurts because you have become completely dependent on him. He will not receive your calls or reply back to your texts. He will always come up with excuses to avoid meeting you. It will occur to you that all of a sudden that he has gone to a completely different world.

Read 22 Stages of Relationship Between An Empath and A Narcissist

Welcome to the nightmare now: you’re hurt! You love him but you are succumbing to pain within. You understand he’s not into you but you can’t help yourself from loving him. There’s a void in your heart. You can’t leave.

The worst part is, you will feel that you know everything but you can’t save yourself. He comes to you when he needs you and then he disappears. It makes you feel there’s still hope.

But NO! There’s no hope for a narcissist to change because a narcissist will never change. You can’t make them change.

True love won’t win here because you are dealing with a narcissist. It’s impossible for him to understand your value, to think beyond himself. He will give you a little attention as long as you benefit him. Once he’s done with you, he will look for another victim.

Leaving you broken, hopeless and zero faith in love.

But dear girl, you deserve much more than this. You are beautiful and you are loved. Don’t ruin yourself by falling in love with a narcissist. Just run away. Stay away from him. Don’t let him kill you.


To The Girl Whos Fallen For A Narcissist You Should Read This
Fallen for a Narcissist.

Emilia Gordon

Born and brought up in Kansas, Emilia is a writer and a social activist.She enjoys travelling and meeting new peopleView Author posts

Leave a Reply

Up Next

What Is Parentification: Identifying The Signs, Types, Effects, And How To Deal With Parentification Trauma

Parentification

Parents and children always should have clear boundaries - parents will protect, guide, and take care of their children and their needs, and children will focus on their growth, development, and focus. So what happens when the lines get blurred or the roles are reversed? Parentification. That's what happens.

Parentification can have several negative effects on a child's psyche and emotional development. Children who are parentified deal with the after-effects for the rest of their life and are seemingly never able to move on from their dysfunctional childhood. Being a responsible and mature child is a good thing, but having to take on the role of the parent is not something they should ever have to do.

So, what is parentification and what does it look like? Let's find out!

Up Next

The 4 Stages Of A Toxic Relationship That Can Break And Rebuild You

Stages of a toxic relationship Break Rebuild You

If you’ve ever been in a relationship, chances are you know what a toxic relationship is like. While not all relationships are toxic, most have some degree of toxicity and some are just downright abusive. If you are trapped in a relationship with a toxic partner, then you should know about the stages of a toxic relationship to know when to walk out. 

Although initially we may not want to believe it, a toxic relationship will eventually reveal itself no matter how much we turn a blind eye to it. Every time we are abused, we tell ourselves that it is an isolated incident. That they will never do this again with us. That they love us. That they were just angry. But regardless of how many excuses we make up inside our mind to protect our false beliefs, the signs of a toxic relationship keep creeping up on us. As the honeymoon stage slowly erodes away and makes way for the toxicity,

Up Next

What Is Dark Psychology: 10 Most Common Techniques and Tactics of Manipulation

Dark Psychology Manipulation

All of us have a dark side, which most of us try to control, suppress and hide from others. We all have a unique relationship with our dark side which can define the type of person we are. Dark psychology enables us to understand this relationship with the dark side of our consciousness. 

What is dark psychology? 

Dark psychology refers to the dark side of the human psyche and is primarily used to manipulate others. It is typically regarded as the psychological study and application of thought control and manipulation. Generally, psychology focuses on human thoughts, behaviors, emotions and actions. However, dark psychology focuses on strategies, tactics and techniques of manipulation, persuasion, coercion and motivation that can help a person to gain what they wish for.

Up Next

Can Abusers Change? 11 Signs Your Abusive Partner Is Changing For Good

Signs abusive partner changing for good

“I promise. This time I will change. Please don’t leave me. Give me one more chance. A last one. I WILL change. You’ll see.” 

If you have ever been in an abusive relationship, you have probably heard this many times before. While abusers usually don’t really change, what if they actually change this time around? Are there any genuine signs your abusive partner is changing?

Can abusers change?

The quick answer is yes. But just like everything else in life, it is a lot more complicated than it sounds. A narcissistic, toxic, abusive individual may genuinely want to change due to certain life experiences. They may

Up Next

How To Stop Workplace Abuse: 3 Strategies For Organizations To Deal With Workplace Bullying

How To Stop Workplace Abuse

Workplace abuse is something that is readily swept under the rug, no matter how serious it might be. In many organizations, it has been normalized to a great extent too. However, workplace abuse can take a heavy toll on victims, which is why it is more important than ever to fight and eradicate it.

Key Points

Workplace bullying, at its core, is a work culture problem, not an individual problem. Bullying transpires in organizations that condone or encourage toxic behaviors such as gossip, manipulation, exclusion, and sabotage. Healthy work cultures provide multisource feedback, assess exposure to workplace abuse, and establish workplace bullying policies.

How Do Organizations Eradicate Workplace Bullies?