The quality of the hoover fuel and the ease by which the narcissist can achieve the return makes it irresistible. Hence, you tend to go back to the person who has abusive behavior and a demeaning character.
You can understand hoovering to start the relationship again. You can understand lashing out at you and being nasty because hey, after all we are Grade A Bastards aren’t we?
How to starve a narcissist:
– No emotions.
– No responses.
– No interactions,
– No contact.
Since a narcissist relies on a huge amount of narcissistic supply to function, how do you think they cope when there is an absolute dearth of it?
The maneuvers they’re pulling on you to scam you back into a relationship with them.
A glossary in which I define the most frequently encountered narcissistic slang terms.
Narcissist hoovering usually happens after an episode of abuse. Or, when you are threatening to leave, or have recently left an abusive relationship.
It’s time to take your power back.
If you find yourself dating a narcissist then it is not going to be easy.
Hoovering is a manipulative form of behavior that is intended to suck a person back into a relationship and another cycle of abuse.