Your friends keep telling you that you’ll make a great girlfriend (and yes, you will 🙂 )
You know that you possess all the qualities that a man looks for in his girl. Yet, for some reason you are single currently. Being single is a blessing but something keeps you wondering, why you aren’t hooked yet.
Here’s why you are still single even when you are a catch –
Settling Down is Not Your Thing – You are not the kind of person who believes in getting married and having kids. For you, this is not the end of life nor will it be ever. You know that sooner or later you’ll find the man of your dreams and you are ready to wait for more.
A Boyfriend Cannot Define your Existence – You know that having a boyfriend won’t bring much change in your life. Having a boyfriend doesn’t mean that you make him the center of your universe. You don’t need to make a statement about having a love life and the reason that keeps you away from finding someone.
You Love Yourself Too Much – Your first love for you has always been you. You care about your happiness, your personal goals before anything else. You cannot compromise with loving someone else before loving yourself and this keeps your interest away from finding a boyfriend.
You Can Wait – You know that you are a catch and someone worthy deserve you. You can wait for the time till he appears in your life. Loving someone who is equally a catch the way you are is worth the wait.
Right Now You Are Busy Enjoying your Life – You have a list of plans that you need to complete. There are places to be, friends to make, thrills to experience. Why bring a guy in your life to screw up all your plans.
You Need to Reach Heights in Your Career – Your personal life is very important and so is your career. While shaping your personal goals, you don’t see room for a guy. It keeps you doubtful that how will you adjust in a relationship and focus on your career and love life at the same time. After all, there is nothing important than attaining your career goals.
Your Confidence Scares People – With the confidence like yours, no man can dare approach you without having doubts about their self-existence. Your confidence is intimidating and is capable of turning the cockiest of men into insecure children.
Your Friends are More Important To You – Let accept this, an awesome personality like yours will obviously select their friends carefully. Your friends are awesome, heartiest bunch of people who are an important part of your life. Who needs a boyfriend when your friends are this awesome?
You Don’t Want to Settle For Mediocrity – You believe that having that special man will really mean something in your life. But then you know that there is a lot of average crowd that you see on a regular basis. Your boyfriend should be someone who is awesome and best of the best. You don’t want to end up in the pile of mediocrity and the reason why you are still waiting.
Single Life is Awesome – The fact is that you know the worth of being single. You don’t have to make compromises and you get to live by your choices. You don’t want to bend your rules by letting a stranger in your life. This is a path leading to many more complications.
Someone awesome like you obviously deserves the best. Everyone you meet is either too insecure, average or not ready for a relationship themselves. If waiting is the choice then why not make the best of it.
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