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Equanimity: The Buddhist Philosophy For Cultivating Wisdom and Compassion

Equanimity The Buddhist Philosophy

Understanding Equanimity – The Fourth Kind of Love

Suffering. It is an inherent part of life and none of us can deny the reality of its existence. In Buddhism, suffering has a cause and an end.

Most core principles in Buddhism are based on the existence of suffering and how we can free ourselves from it. There are many ways mentioned by Gautama Buddha that can allow us to accept and end suffering. And one of them is equanimity, the fourth kind of love.

Equanimity in Buddhism allows you to connect with and accept suffering without getting attached or consumed by it. It is based on the experience of acceptance and letting go.  

“Equanimity is the hallmark of spirituality. It is neither chasing nor avoiding but just being in the middle.” – Amit Ray

Our world is changing constantly. We never know when and how our lives may flip upside down. We don’t know when we might lose a loved one, develop a terminal illness, lose our jobs, experience an accident or some random mishap. Likewise, we cannot predict whether we will overcome an unpredictable setback and how we will get our life back on track. But we always seem to find a way. Most of us overcome even the worst times and manage to rebuild our lives once again. 

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So it is crucial that we keep our mind, heart and spirit strong and not react instinctively. That we don’t get attached to the suffering. That we don’t cling to the pain. Instead, what we need to do is practice love, kindness, compassion, joy and equanimity or even-mindedness to face the various waves of change without getting drowned.


What is equanimity?

Equanimity: The Buddhist Philosophy For Cultivating Wisdom and Compassion

“Equanimity is a perfect, unshakable balance of mind.” – Nyanaponika Thera

According to Buddhism, there are 4 kinds of love. These four sublime states and the accompanying meditation practices to cultivate them are known as Brahma-vihara in Pali language. These four forms of love, known as ‘Appamaññā’ in Pali, are identified as the four immeasurables or four infinite minds.

According to Buddha, these 4 sublime states of mind are:

  1. Loving-kindness or Love (metta)
  2. Compassion (karuna)
  3. Sympathetic Joy (mudita)
  4. Equanimity (upekkha)

Although the fourth kind of love may not invoke feelings of affection in your heart, it is perhaps the most profound and deep set virtue of the four which binds the other three immeasurables. Equanimity, or disinterestedness or even-mindedness, provides us the necessary stability of mind which enables us to be aware of the present and accept the conditions with an open mind and heart, regardless of how difficult or pleasing it is. The boundless virtues of loving-kindness, compassion, and sympathetic joy are firmly based on the boundlessness of equanimity. The interdependent traits of the four immeasurables form a solid foundation for effectively liberating yourself from suffering.

Equanimity enables you to experience inner peace, calm and trust which gives you the strength to accept, and simultaneously let go of, the world. It is the consciousness of observing without getting attached to the outcome. You are able to see without clinging on to what you see.

Equanimity: The Buddhist Philosophy For Cultivating Wisdom and Compassion

Equanimity in Buddhism

Equanimity, one of the 4 sublime virtues, can be translated into two different words in Pali, a language used by Gautama Buddha –

  • Upekkhā or Upekṣā
  • Tatramajjhattata

Upekkha, in the most common sense, means “to look over” and is a mental state that should be cultivated to achieve ‘nirvāna’. Equanimity should arise from our ability for observation and our capacity to stay detached from what we see.

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