Decoding Men: What He Says vs. What He Really Means

“Wanna hang out?”

What he means: I want something casual and can’t be bothered to ask you on a formal date. He’s most likely keeping his options open.

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“Sorry, I’m busy, maybe another time?”

What he means: It’s possible he is genuinely busy, however, if he is serious about seeing you again he will organize and lock in a time with you. Otherwise, this is just an excuse not to make you a priority because he isn’t wanting more.


“It’s not you it’s me”

What he means: It is most definitely him. Either he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings or face the music.


“I just need some space”

What he means: This could mean one of two things – either he needs some time to think a few things over or he isn’t interested in committing.

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“Netflix and chill?”

What he means: We all know what this means and where it leads to.


“Do you want to come back to mine for a drink?”

What he means: Do you want to possibly make out with me on my couch?


“I would love to see you again”

What he means:  He actually really wants to see you again.


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Renee Slansky
Renee Slansky is an Australian TV presenter, writer, professional blogger and dating and relationship coach, whose purpose and heart for women compelled her to educate people on how to find, build and cultivate healthy and fulfilling relationships. Her own blog is now the number 1 dating and relationship blog in Australia. Renee contributes advice regularly to some of the biggest online dating sites and publications globally including The Huffington Post, E Harmony, Plenty of Fish, Your Tango, MamaMia, The Good Men Project, The Love Destination and Yahoo 7. As a professional coach, Renee has built online programmes for women and mentors both men and women around the world. She is often called to comment as an expert for on the radio and Channel 7's The Morning Show and Sunrise and speaks at events. Her mission to educate a generation, change the dating culture and lower the divorce rate.
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