What makes a person sexually attracted to you? There is no denying that physical features do play a huge role in increasing the sexual appeal of a person but that isn’t the only thing that matters. There are some sexually attractive traits that anyone can have!
According to Google, sexy is something which is very sexually exciting or attractive. In other words, something that is very appealing. This appeal is abstract in nature and can be of any kind.
Different people find different features sexy.
But to list down a few, here are the 8 special traits which almost every person all around the world finds to be sexually attractive:
1. Generosity wins always
A lot of people have agreed that generosity is one of the most sexually attractive traits. This gesture is attractive because it shows the kind of person you are from within.
Someone who is not only good to you but is very kind and humble towards everyone is honestly, an instant turn on. Everyone is attracted to humble people.
In 2013, a study proved that people who are helpful in nature are attractive because they possess good genes and have the willingness to help people around them. It also stated that men and women who were generous towards others were found to be more attractive than the ones who had an unwelcoming attitude.
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2. Meaningful Deep conversations and talks are the sexiest
In this generation most conversations go like – ‘Hey’ ‘hi’ ‘what’s up’ ‘nm’ and that’s it. The conversation starts to fade in a couple of messages and that is why people don’t bond.
The scenario is almost the same when two people are right in front of each other too. We focus more on our phones than on the person sitting right in front of us.
Someone who strikes an interesting conversation and carves their way into a deep meaningful conversation is extremely sexy.
It shows the willingness to know the other person and makes them feel special. It is not constant talking that brings two people close. It’s the quality of conversation that defines the depth of the relationship two people share. Also, talking about personal emotions helps in strengthening bonds between two people.
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3. Humor is a must
It is ideally said that manners matter, good looks are a bonus but humor is a must. Those days are gone when only girls would find humor attractive.
The tables have turned. Men in our times are also highly attracted to women with a good sense of humour. Cracking a few puns here and there can help in keeping the conversation going on and also make it interesting.
Most people don’t really know this, but good humour isn’t easy. So when you say something that’s witty and makes someone jaw hurt due to excessive laughing, we assure you, you’re already one of their favourite people to be around.
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4. Confidence is the key
Just like humour, confidence is adored by both genders. It is the best accessory one can wear. The confidence to take charge is an instant turn on to men and women as the other person feels more secure around them.
In men, this confidence is often presented through actions whereas in women; confidence is often presented in emotional stability.
Confidence is key because a confident person is fully aware of his or her actions. They aren’t in doubt and have a clear picture of what they want and take authority of it. This is the trait which charms people around them.
I really like this article but I’ve come across some people in my life that have made me look stupid just cos I was expressing myself as I know how. I pray to come across a good man in my life
I really liked this article. I feel all the points are too apt. I m going thru a phase in life where I am interacting with hell lot of ppl. I can very well relate when I feel bonded to a person and when not.
It also highlights very aptly that conversation is the key and that’s why these days anyone wanting to get into a relation, says “I am a sapipsexual or I like good conversation “