4 Popular Myths About Being An Empath

4 Popular Myths And Misconceptions About Being An Empath

Find out some popular myths and misconceptions about being an empath.

“You need to grow some thicker skin!  Stop being so overly sensitive.”  I wish I could tell you how many times I heard that in my childhood!

Growing up as an Empath, you may have experienced similar insults from your parents, friends or peers, and perhaps even worse.

It’s not at all trendy or popular to be sensitive or feeling in our society that values efficiency, cold calculation, and industrial resilience.  Therefore, you may have experienced and still experience, a lot of antagonism towards your behavior as an Empath.

Below here is a list of 4 main misperceptions about being an Empath:

Myth #1 – Empaths are navel-gazing and self-absorbed.

Truth – We often focus more on others than on ourselves.

It’s true that Empaths are often unexplainably moody and quiet on the outside.  However, this isn’t because they’re excessively absorbed thinking too much about themselves and their feelings.  Rather, the Empath is often deeply affected by the exterior emotions of others that he experiences as his own.  The Empath’s ability to intuitively feel the feelings of others is what weighs him down so much.  In fact, it’s characteristic of the Empath to pay more attention to others’ needs than his own.

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Myth #2 – Empaths are magnets of negative energy

Truth – We experience a lot of “emotional baggage dumping” that remains in their minds and bodies afterward.

Empaths are excellent listeners, confidants, and counselors.  For this reason, it’s common for people to be drawn towards their sincere and caring natures, almost like magnets.

Thus, the Empath can appear to be mentally ill and depressed, and in some cases legitimately is.  However, in most cases, the Empath is congested with remnants of harmful emotional energy, like sinuses are congested with mucus during a flu virus.

The root of the problem doesn’t lie with the Empath, it’s a result of their outer emotional climate.

Myth #3 – Empaths are emotionally fragile.

Truth – We are biologically programmed to be more sensitive and in tune with our surrounding environment.

As Empath Nicole Lawler wrote, Empaths are essentially “walking around in this world with all the accumulated karma, emotions, and energy from others”.  Understandably, this results in a lot of inner emotional tension for the Empath who is more prone to crying and exhibiting other signs of “weakness”.

Additionally, the Empath finds it extremely difficult to partake in many “normal” activities.  For instance, watching a movie about Nazi concentration camps is extremely emotionally upsetting for the Empath, and getting a job in an office is overwhelming and tiring for the Empath who is bombarded with other people’s emotions constantly.  Therefore, it’s not surprising that the Empath is often perceived as “wussy”, “frail” or “weak-minded” to the person who fails to comprehend the constant pressure the Empath lives under.

Myth #4 – Empaths lack of energy.

Truth – We often lack mental, emotional and physical energy due to our intense empathetic ability to understand others.

Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS) amongst other physical issues like headaches, insomnia, and Fibromyalgia, has all been commonly attributed to Empaths.

If our minds are constantly overloaded with stress, tension, and pressure, it, therefore, translates that our bodies are as well.  This often results in sicknesses such as the ones mentioned above.  Thus Empaths often lack the energy and therefore desire to do many things, preferring to relax instead.

If you’ve experienced any of these misperceptions in your life, please feel free to share your experiences below.   Being an Empath can certainly be riddled with setbacks but remember you are an asset to the world. You form an important part in this great Universal Balance. Our planet needs a balance of both hard and industrious people and soft and empathetic people.

Written by Aletheia Luna
Originally appeared on Lonerwolf.com

4 Popular Myths And Misconceptions About Being An Empath

Aletheia Luna

Aletheia Luna is an influential spiritual writer whose work has changed the lives of thousands of people worldwide. After escaping the religious sect she was raised in, Luna experienced a profound existential crisis that led to her spiritual awakening. As a spiritual counselor and professional writer, Luna's mission is to help others become conscious of their entrapment and find joy, empowerment, and liberation in any circumstance. See more of her work at lonerwolf.comView Author posts