They think of themselves to be a white page with absolutely no spots. They certainly deny the fact that each and every human walking on the surface of the earth is imperfect in one way or the other and that it is absolutely human to be wrong sometimes. But this is something they just can’t come to terms with. They have a never-ending urge to make others feel like they deserve better than them and that they are entitled to power.
This point acts as the main reason why maintaining any kind of bond with narcissists and sociopath becomes impossible. The key element that binds relationships of any kind together is the act of apologizing and forgiving. No relationship will last if it’s just one person making all the effort. It takes two to make things work, even as friends.
Reason 2- Dumping the load on your shoulder
It is often said that the best way to kill something is to keep telling them how awful they are. And even though constantly repeating lies doesn’t change the truth, it does make your brain fall for it, even for a while.
One of the worst feelings ever is to feel guilty about something you didn’t even do. Narcissists prefer dumping blames on others shoulders rather than taking authority of their actions. In situations like these, it is your responsibility to know what’s best for you and walk away even if it hurts a lot in that moment.
Before you go:
No matter which phase of life you are in, you should remind yourself that you deserve nothing but the best of beautiful. You are worth a lot and if there is someone who makes you feel small about yourself, then no matter how much you love them, you have to let them go. They say, how you treat yourself is how you teach others to treat you. You deserve to be with someone who is willing to make things possible.
Relationships just don’t survive all by themselves. They need to be nurtured and protected like a baby. And you should know at all times that you need to leave the table when love and mutual respect is no longer being served.