“Why do I suck at relationships?” Doesn’t this come to our mind from time to time when our relationship breaks down or when we go through heartbreak? Let’s face it, we all have trouble finding the right partner when it comes to relationships. Sometimes, we wonder whether it’s because of our own weaknesses or whether we’re destined to be alone.
Everyone deals with relationships differently but to find out exactly where you are going wrong, you can take the help of your zodiac sign and its traits to determine why your relationships don’t last.
Here are reasons why you suck at relationships based on your zodiac sign:
1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
You can be indecisive and very impulsive.
Your zodiac sign has traits of being insensitive towards others, so when you’re in a relationship you tend to not think things through. There are times when you say things you don’t mean, impulsively.
For instance, if your partner is angry at you, rather than being calm and hearing their side of the story, you don’t hold back with anything and can act impetuously, blurt things out without thinking about the consequences until later. You don’t intend on saying mean things but end up hurting your partner. You need to watch your words if you want your relationship to last.
Read Aries Personality Traits: A Zodiac Guide to the Enterprising Yet Ruthless Sign
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
You suffer from massive trust issues.
Since your zodiac sign represents ‘the bull’ you can be extremely stubborn and do not seem to understand the concept of compromise. If your potential partner doesn’t give you priority it makes it difficult for you to completely trust and open up to them.
We get that you have trust issues but when you find the right one you have to put your guard and walls down.
Read 10 Secrets About Taurus You Probably Know Nothing About
3. Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
You have commitment issues.
As a Gemini when you begin to date someone, you love being the center of attention but secretly you begin to panic as well, when things start to go well.
You feel like the relationship is too good to be true. This anxious behavior of yours causes you to convince yourself that a long-term relationship is not for you but secretly you want all of the relationship-y and romantic things. So, to make your relationship last, try to work on your fear of commitment.
Read The Good and Bad of Loving A Gemini (13 Brutal Truths)
4. Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
You don’t stand up for yourself and end up being codependent.
As a Cancer, you can be extremely emotional when it comes to relationships. You set long term goals but the problem arises when you become codependent towards your partner.
For the approval of your partner, you can go to any limit. You value them, more than you value yourself. In those moments of conflict you don’t speak up for yourself and they keep taking advantage of you. You’re strong enough and you need to speak up for yourself when you feel overwhelmed, and that doesn’t make you a bad partner.
Read 12 Personality Traits Of Cancer, The Cardinal Water Sign
5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
You only look for attention, not love.
Your zodiac sign is regarded as someone who has a dominant personality and can be a little self-centered when it comes to relationships. You don’t put others before yourself and there’s nothing wrong with that but when you’re dating someone you need to have a balance in the relationship for it to work out.
Most of the time your relationships don’t last because all you do is crave attention and seek validation. After a point, your partner gets exhausted with all this and the fact that everything in the relationship is about you. If you want your relationship to go smoothly, try to make them feel loved and support them in every way.
Read Top 13 Reasons Why Leo Is The Best Zodiac Sign
6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
You get frustrated easily.
Your element is Earth and you resonate with Mercury. This makes you a hardworking and wise person. But, when it comes to your dating life you can’t help but get frustrated with it easily. You want everything to be perfect all the time, from date nights to lunch with the family. If they don’t do something as per your expectations, you criticize them.
You need to cut them some slack and remember that everyone makes mistakes. You’re not perfect yourself. If you want your relationship to last, be easy on them and try not to get worked up at the drop of a hat.
Read 10 Personality Traits Of Virgo, The Mercurial Earth Sign
7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
You don’t express your feelings.
You don’t really suck at relationships if your zodiac sign is Libra. You’re a great lover and care for your partner thoroughly. But what you suck at is trying to express your true feelings.
You love to shower them with support and affection. But, In order for your relationship to work, you have to express your feelings and not avoid confrontations. A relationship tends to last longer if couples communicate with each other. So, it’s probably time for you to do the same.
Read 10 Personality Traits Of Libra, The Idealistic Air Sign
8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)
You tend to lose interest easily.
As a Scorpio, you’re incredibly passionate when you are in a relationship. You take things like intimacy seriously. But, you desire a partner who can keep you intrigued. You want someone who is as passionate as you, otherwise, you lose interest or fall out of love quickly.
Try not to assume that the person you date has to be exactly like you. Their language of love might be different and that doesn’t mean that they’re not like you. Some days will be just normal in a relationship whereas some days will be exciting. Learn to know their worth before it’s too late.
Read 10 Personality Traits Of Scorpio, The Ambitious Water Sign
9. Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
You’re independent but are afraid to be emotionally vulnerable.
Your zodiac sign has the traits of being spontaneous and independent. You ace at everything you do. But, there’s something that you suck at and that is maintaining your relationships.
We get how much you love your freedom and don’t want to be dependent on others emotionally.
But you need to give relationships a chance and remember that being emotionally vulnerable is not a sign of weakness but something that requires immense strength.
Read The Good and Bad of Loving A Sagittarius: 7 Brutal Truths
10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
Your career driven goals have no place for relationships.
As a Capricorn, you’re extremely hardworking and ambitious that sometimes you feel that there’s no need for love, as long as you’re successful.
Most of your relationships have mostly been short-term as you see them as distractions or a waste of time. But, deep down you know that career and ambitions are not the only things in life. You desire love but suck at expressing what you want. It’s time for you to break some rules and be with the person who understands you.
Read 10 Personality Traits Of Capricorn, The Disciplined Soul
11. Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
You tend to be unpredictable.
Your zodiac sign has the element of air, and this makes you an easygoing yet intelligent person but sometimes it’s difficult to decipher what exactly is going on in your mind.
The person you’re dating doesn’t know if you’re upset or angry about something. At one moment you seem fine, the other moment you’re ignoring their texts and calls. When you feel jealous, instead of telling them, you distance yourself. Learning how to communicate with your partner about your mood swings is an important step towards having a healthy relationship.
Read The Good and Bad of Loving An Aquarius (7 Brutal Truths)
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You don’t let people in your world that easily.
Pisces is one of the most intimidating zodiac signs to date. You have a dreamy personality but don’t seem to be as invested in the relationship as your partner is.
No doubt you are warm and welcoming, but you sometimes don’t care if your partner is there or not. For instance, you forget to check up on them or forget their birthday and anniversaries. If you don’t want to fail at relationships you need to stop being so aloof.
Read 10 Personality Traits Of Pisces, The Gentle Water Sign
Wrapping up
When you’re dealing with relationships, you need to be calm. Do not take decisions in a hurry. Neither will it do good to you nor your partner.
If you relate to some of these reasons as to why you suck at relationships, we hope that you will take our advice and work on them. Being in love is a great feeling and we hope you find the right partner!
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