“Why do I suck at relationships?” Doesn’t this come to our mind from time to time when our relationship breaks down or when we go through heartbreak? Let’s face it, we all have trouble finding the right partner when it comes to relationships. Sometimes, we wonder whether it’s because of our own weaknesses or whether we’re destined to be alone.
Everyone deals with relationships differently but to find out exactly where you are going wrong, you can take the help of your zodiac sign and its traits to determine why your relationships don’t last.
Here are reasons why you suck at relationships based on your zodiac sign:
1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
You can be indecisive and very impulsive.
Your zodiac sign has traits of being insensitive towards others, so when you’re in a relationship you tend to not think things through. There are times when you say things you don’t mean, impulsively.
For instance, if your partner is angry at you, rather than being calm and hearing their side of the story, you don’t hold back with anything and can act impetuously, blurt things out without thinking about the consequences until later. You don’t intend on saying mean things but end up hurting your partner. You need to watch your words if you want your relationship to last.
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
You suffer from massive trust issues.
Since your zodiac sign represents ‘the bull’ you can be extremely stubborn and do not seem to understand the concept of compromise. If your potential partner doesn’t give you priority it makes it difficult for you to completely trust and open up to them.
We get that you have trust issues but when you find the right one you have to put your guard and walls down.
3. Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
You have commitment issues.
As a Gemini when you begin to date someone, you love being the center of attention but secretly you begin to panic as well, when things start to go well.
You feel like the relationship is too good to be true. This anxious behavior of yours causes you to convince yourself that a long-term relationship is not for you but secretly you want all of the relationship-y and romantic things. So, to make your relationship last, try to work on your fear of commitment.
4. Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
You don’t stand up for yourself and end up being codependent.
As a Cancer, you can be extremely emotional when it comes to relationships. You set long term goals but the problem arises when you become codependent towards your partner.
For the approval of your partner, you can go to any limit. You value them, more than you value yourself. In those moments of conflict you don’t speak up for yourself and they keep taking advantage of you. You’re strong enough and you need to speak up for yourself when you feel overwhelmed, and that doesn’t make you a bad partner.