1. Always making an excuse for him not to go out with you or do something for you.
Once you wonder if youโre one of his priorities, youโre not. If heโs into you he will do everything to make you feel that heโs never too busy to see you. He will do conspicuous actions to impress you. And please never be fooled by the trite sentence Iโll make it up to you, babe.
2. Not paying attention to what youโre saying and canโt even remember a thing.
If you give him a quiz about everything youโve told him, heโll surely fail it. Itโs because he never really listens to you. Either his eyes are glued to his phone, or are wandering in his own thoughts. Sometimes he can feign eagerness but behind the mask is someone who canโt wait for your story to finish.
3. Treating other girls the same way he treats you.
You should be that someone special if he really likes you. He should give you things he wonโt give others, efforts he wonโt exert for others, and feelings he wonโt have for others. Now if you see him smiling the same way (or especially in a happier way) whenever he mingles with other girls, even if those are his friends, you know it already. Youโre not the one for him.
4. Not bothering to see your family nor mentioning them.
Do you think your dad would like me? When will you invite me to dinner with your family? Iโd love to cook for your parents. How are your siblings? He shouldโve already mentioned these things because if heโs really into you he would also want to win the heart of your family. If he hasnโt ever said things about them, perhaps he just likes you out of the superficial. He likes you only for what he gets from you.
5. Giving you the urge to text or call him first.
You know itโs been 30 minutes after he arrived home from work (or anywhere heโd went to) and he still hasnโt texted you. You keep on waiting, staring at your phone until your hand reaches it to text him hey. If he puts you in despair like this then he doesnโt really care about you. Because if he does, he would be excited to talk with you, to ask about your day, or to just see you virtually even without words to express.
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6. Replying too short.
Men, in general, are not really into superfluous responses. Donโt expect them to give verbose comments or too many emojis. But you should be sensitive enough to detect if they donโt have the enthusiasm to chat, text, or speak with you. If you ask them, โHave you had your lunch?โ and they just replied yes without asking you back or without an extra phrase to show theyโre also thinking about you then wake up, honey.
7. Showing inconsistency in his actions.
If he says he wants to marry you and you donโt even see him trying to save for the future if heโs so clingy today but tomorrow heโs cold for no obvious reason, if he treats you different when his friends are around, then a red flag is waving. Also, observe how his efforts relent when he finally gets you. Consistency should not be an issue, it should be natural for a man who wants to win youโforever.
8. Laughing or snorting at the expression of your goals and dreams.
Your passion, your dreams, your goals should be as important to him as to you. He should be supportive to your endeavors and curious about your life. Now if he simply doesnโt give a damn, then donโt expect him to support you in other aspects. A guy whoโs into you aims to be a life partner who will help you achieve your ambitions.
9. Not feeling even the slightest jealousy when youโre with other guys.
Itโs actually okay if he doesnโt express too much jealousy but giving you hints that heโs feeling insecure about a guy youโre close with is an important indication that heโs afraid he might lose you. Although this must not lead to being possessive, isnโt it cute if he wants you to feel you belong only to him?
10. Making it obvious heโs not really into you.
You will feel that, honey. A man who truly wants you and is deeply into you will be straightforward in his words and actions. He will sensitize your heart, open your eyes, louden his voice just to convince you he is into you. Donโt focus on the positive in his mixed signals. Donโt just count his efforts and overlook his shortcomings, because his shortcomings might already be outnumbering his good efforts. And thatโs enough sign you should forget about him.
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Written byย Karlaย Crisostomo
Originally appeared on Thought Catalog
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