You have enough nitpickers around who lecture on how to live your own life. You don’t have to fill their shoes. To zoom in on your flaws. Embrace yourself to be more flawsome. Being flawed means being real.
A narcissist will never say to him or herself, “I think I’m falling in love with this person.” Quite the contrary – a narcissist will only ask themselves if the person in question is ‘worthy’ of their time’, i.e. “What’s in it for me?”