Today, we’re going to talk about four ways to make him feel weak and crazy about you.
Let’s say that you’re with a man and you want him to feel a more intense desire for you to the extent that he almost feels week or crazy about being with you and having you in his life.
So, what do you do?
The overarching thing that we’re going to be talking about here is something that I call the “One Special Woman Formula.” I talk about this in a bunch of different programs and videos.
There’s one key component to this formula and then there’s the sub-components that we’re going to be talking about here.
The number one, key component is this thing called being high value.
The feeling that you’re this valuable woman to him is what makes him feel like you’re right for him and this amazing, awesome woman that he’s madly, passionately and deeply in love with.
You have something that’s special about you. You enrich and enhance his life.
You want to be high value enough so that he feels like he needs to strive to attain you, right?
He needs to feel like you’re somebody that he needs to put in effort with, pursue, chase and go for a real relationship with— but not so much that you’re completely out of his reach, right?
GENERALLY, WHEN WOMEN ASK ME QUESTIONS, A LOT OF TIMES, THEIR SITUATIONS ARE ON THE EXTREMES.
One extreme is being so completely available that he doesn’t feel like there’s anything special going on there with you.
The other extreme is, “I’m SO busy, I have SO much going on and I’m SO high value that you’ll never reach or attain me or end up being in a relationship with me.”
Neither one of those are good places to be when you’re in a relationship with the guy.
We’re going to talk about the middle spot right now.
So there’s four components to being high value with a man
And number four is probably the most powerful one but all of them are important to make him feel crazy about you. Keep reading for all of them.
1. You’re happy with your own full life and don’t need anyone else to make you happy.
The first thing you want to do to make a guy feel weak and crazy about you is more of a lifestyle thing, right?
It’s being happy in your own life, having a good life, feeling happy, and not needing him to have happiness.
It’s not needing him to feel love, to feel all the important and wonderful things that you want to experience in your life.
THE REASON THIS IS REALLY POWERFUL IS BECAUSE WHEN HE SEES YOU, HE SEES AN AMAZING, FUN, INTERESTING PERSON, RIGHT?
He gets to be with you and he feels like he’s winning constantly.
The more he feels like he’s winning, it actually creates this dopamine effect in his brain where he can even get addicted to this feeling like he’s winning with you.
You have your own life and your own things that make you happy and he’s striving continually feeling challenged to strive to make you happy but he can, right?
Guys get into relationships all the time with women who rely on the man for their happiness.
It works at first because the guy has to strive to make her happy.
Long-term though, it doesn’t work.
What ends up happening is nothing’s ever enough.
That’s one extreme.
The other extreme is not needing him at all or wanting him in your life.It’s so difficult to win with you that he just gives up completely.