There are numerous blogs about how men can make their women feel special but there is a dearth of articles that speak about what women can tell their men to make them feel special. At the end of the day, be it, men or women, all need to feel loved and wanted. Women, like men, should put their efforts to make their partners feel special.
A man might seem carefree but he too needs to feel loved, respected, complimented and valued in a relationship otherwise, they tend to pull away from the relationship.
Men are not ‘emotionless’ beings. If you are the woman in their life, they wish to hear so many things from you, which will light up their world. Their only problem is that they do not know how to express their needs. They are also worth pampering, taking care of and understanding. There are several deeply touching things you can say to him other than just “I love you.” All you have to do is say these 10 things to spark the fire in him.
Say these 10 things to your man:
1. “I am Proud of you.”
Men view their self-worth on different grounds than women. Women feels valued and wanted in a relationship if you vocally and emotionally express love to them through hugs, kisses and reassuring words like “I love you”. But to make a man feel valued you have to look up to his efforts and appreciate him for their hard work. Be it in their personal or professional life, nothing stands close to supporting them in their endeavors and celebrating their achievements and success. This provides men an immense amount of self-confidence to trade forward in life. To a man, there is nothing like hearing his woman boast of his accomplishments. Let your man know how exceedingly proud you are of your man.
2. “You are amazing in bed.”
Men out there, how about waking up to hearing your woman sensually whispering into your ear, “You are so amazing in bed.” almost every morning? Heaven will definitely come down in your bedroom. Men are usually a bit more focused on performance, action, and challenge. That is how they are wired since the dawn of time. Physical intimacy is equally significant in a relationship. Your man is willing to get feedback on how he did to make you carnally satisfied. Vocally telling him how his touches and moves have bowled you over with an electrifying orgasm will not only boost his ego but will keep him smiling through the day. He is really that amazing, isn’t he?
3. “Thank you for being there”
The feelings of gratitude should extend to your man. One of the important ingredients in the recipe for a successful relationship is an expression of gratitude towards your partner. Most often a man’s contribution to the relationship goes unseen and underappreciated. Whether he is picking you up from work, waking you up in the morning or doing mundane house chores for you like helping you do the dishes, cooking and serving you dinner – ‘thank you’ is a powerful phrase.
Thank him for being there in your life. Tell him how insanely lucky you feel for his consideration and care. He deserves it.
4. “I will not get mad at you if you tell me”
Men are not so great at communicating with words and expressing how they feel. Again, that is how they are structurally made. The society formed a schema of men being the strong one, not needing to share anything. But there might be other reasons that hold your man back from expressing his most authentic feelings – maybe he feels threatened by you, maybe he thinks you will misunderstand him, maybe he is scared of owning up to his mistakes. Whatever be the reason, this phrase will help put his overthinking mind to rest and he will be able to open up raw to you.
This phrase will assure him that you will patiently listen to him without getting angry or disheartened. This will be of huge relief. Also, please don’t get angry with him when he finally opens up.
5. “You look so good”
Hopefully, you don’t need to make an effort to say this, as this should naturally come to you every time you see your gorgeous man in front of you. He doesn’t need to look dashing, dress smart with expensive clothes to catch your attention but the way he carries himself with confidence and swagger should be enough for you to fall for him every single day. After all the external appearance also matters. And if he looks extra ravishing on some special occasions, you must generously compliment your man.