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How To Be A High Value Woman: Feminine Qualities That Men Look For

How To Be High Value Woman

How to be a high value woman who doesn’t have to chase relationships? More on this down below:

The following article talks in-depth about high value women, how to be a high value woman in a relationship, and what female qualities guys like in a woman.

Who Is A High Value Woman?

A high value woman is a well–rounded and balanced individual who knows her worth and knows how much significance she can add to the lives of others. A woman who owns her worth, and only be available to those men who see a very high value in being with them.

How To Be A High Value Woman?

I’m going to tell you how to build your self-esteem and self-worth so you stop wasting time on losers and chasing damage cases and get the love you truly want. I talk to you guys a LOT about how important it is to be a high value woman, so I figured it was time to talk about what that means and what it looks like, and how to do it.

When you know how to show up as a high value woman, your relationships flow, you don’t worry and stress about “losing” a guy, and you just plain feel great about yourself.

A lot of times, what keeps us in bad relationships is low self-esteem. Deep down, we don’t think we can do any better, so we stay and put up with bad treatment because we think we don’t deserve to be treated well or loved, or maybe it’s the fear that we won’t find anyone better so we have to make this work.

Related: 15 Traits of A Mentally Strong Woman

12 Female Qualities Of A High Value Woman

Being a woman of high self-worth and embracing the strong feminine qualities in a woman is what will allow you to get the relationship you truly want and deserve. It also makes you stand out so that you’re attracting high-quality men!

1. Decide That You Are A Woman Of High Value

This is the first and most important step so really take a moment to feel into what this means. It’s as simple as declaring to yourself, “I am a woman of high value!”.

One way to get into the habit of thinking, feeling, and living this way is to watch the way you speak to yourself. Are you constantly putting yourself down? Saying that you’re worthless and needy and pathetic and you’re going to end up alone? Or that you’re not pretty enough or smart enough for a guy (or specifically the guy you want)?

Change the language! Replace it with an opposite statement. It’s ok if it feels untrue or it’s difficult to believe about yourself right now. But the reason this works with practice is that our minds are powerful.

One technique I use a lot is anytime I think to myself, “I’m so tired. I don’t want to do anything”, I will replace it and say, “I’m so energized! I’m going to be really productive today!” and all of a sudden I feel this burst of energy and I’m motivated.

This technique works for anything but self-love is a great place to start on your journey into building yourself up as that high value woman.

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2. Have A Full Life

You can’t wait around for a man to complete you or rescue you or make you feel whole. You’re going to be waiting a long time (if not forever!). So what is a high value woman to do?

Complete yourself! Focus on having a full life of friends, hobbies, a career, and whatever makes you happy. Be that person in your life for yourself.

I’ve told you guys before that the summer before I started dating my husband was the best time in my life because I stopped stressing about finding a guy and focused on having an amazing life.

I focused on all the things that fulfilled me like traveling, reading, working out and taking care of myself, crushing it at my job, and getting better at beauty and fashion tips. It all added up to me feeling and looking good by and for myself.

Your life needs to be full of valuable things in order to be a woman of high value.

3. Look Your Best

Just to let you know, this is the only superficial item on the list that you will see. It all comes down to you and your life and how you act but we have to mention this at least because the fact of the matter is that when you look good, you feel good.

Wearing a pair of fancy shoes, or rocking a dress you know shows off your figure, or doing your perfect version of makeup for the day can all be things that can change your vibe and how you feel about yourself.

If you’ve experienced working from home at some point, you might have noticed that it’s somehow easier to be more confident and productive as you go about your workday when you’re at least wearing decent clothes and have made an effort. It’s a very powerful effect on our psyche.

And, let’s be honest, men are visual creatures. They’re more drawn to high-value women who take care of themselves in all aspects.

Related: Things That Make A Woman Emotionally Attractive To A Man

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Sabrina Alexis

Sabrina Alexis is a writer and the co-founder and editorial director of A New Mode. Sabrina graduated from Boston University in 2007 with degrees in English and Psychology and has been writing about fashion, beauty, relationships, and wellness ever since.View Author posts