There has always been a common misconception since time immemorial that men only care about sex the most, and as long as they get that, they don’t need anything else. But there is one thing, that guys like more than sex, and expect from women, but the catch is that they might never tell what it is, to you.
So simple you can do it for him EVERY DAY.
Women’s jaws would drop if they could listen in on my conversations with married men. Our discussions contradict just about every misconception wives utter about their husbands.
Husbands don’t want to hurt. They don’t want to argue. They don’t want to control. And they definitely don’t “just want to make out”. These guys are desperate for her to know the truth. And they shed tears at the thought that their wife may never WANT to know the truth.
The Power in Her Pinky
The truth for these men lies at the end of her pinky finger.
In that finger is packed an unspeakable power many wives choose to ignore or have yet to discover. It’s so simple and so tender that men are afraid to even ask for it. We barely talk about it with each other! We don’t want to appear soft. We don’t want to risk a woman’s reaction to our weakness.
What is it?
It is the power of a delicate, skin-to-skin touch of feminine acceptance and approval.
When a woman calmly grazes the end of her pinky finger across any part of a man’s body and offers a verbal or non-verbal vote of confidence or support, his world changes at that instant.
It is so powerful we are often left speechless. Our throats and tear ducts begin to swell and we quietly indulge in the comforting reassurance of the moment. If we could package the word “love”, it would feel like this when the bottle was opened. Our “well-being meter” pegs out and our heart rate and breathing slow.
Every husband I know is dying to feel this. Simple, easy-peasy feminine acceptance and approval. Nothing else. Just…this.
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A World of Men Speak About Pinky Power
These are real examples of how men across the globe describe it. In every case, I can hear their clenched voice of vulnerability trying to sound “strong” as they speak. Just for fun, try to imagine their accents as you read these.
- Oklahoma: “She reached over during the movie and put her hand on my knee and looked at me and smiled and said ‘I’m happy you brought us here, thank you.’ ”
- Alberta: “She slapped me on the back and giggled and called me ‘stud’.
- UK: “She scratched the top of my head for about two minutes and didn’t say anything. It was awesome.”
- Turkey: “She touched my elbow and whispered, ‘You’re such a good father and a sweet man, I love that about you.’ “
- Jordan: “When I told her about my idea for a better vacation spot she grabbed my arm and said, ‘I love you!’“
- New Zealand: “She just reached across the car seat and scratched the back of my head softly as I drove. It’s intoxicating.”
Want to know more about what guys like more than sex? Check out this video below:
Why Men Can’t Tell Women about Pinky Power
It’s simple. We think women will think it’s silly. It’s not “manly”. Too vulnerable.
Women might laugh at the notion that their words and touch could cause a lump in our throats. Even if we try to explain it, they might just roll their eyes along with a big “puh-lease!”
The most common reason husbands feel like they can’t talk about it is because their wives have already proven they aren’t interested or can’t handle it.
In her brilliant article, “I Am the Patriarchy”, Jonalyn Grace Fincher listed 17 shining examples of how women refuse to let men be vulnerable. The article continued the discussion Brene Brown started in her book, Daring Greatly, where she addresses the male vulnerability.
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Jessica Calderon
You mean women still don’t know their man would like them to be nurturing not only to their kids but with them too…. Noooo… Reallyyyyyy… No kidding. So I guess they have not figured out yet that if they want to feel like princesses they have to treat their man like princes. Silly me !!!!!!!!!
You mean women still don’t know their man would like them to be nurturing not only to their kids but with them too…. Noooo… Reallyyyyyy… No kidding. So I guess they have not figured out yet that if they want to feel like princesses they have to treat their man like princes. Silly me !!!!!!!!!
What?
Blowjobs
I would not think of this, being single all my life so far I never would think of it.