An alpha woman is the best partner any man can have, not just because she is strong as hell, but also because she is someone who will constantly inspire you. An alpha woman is the new age warrior. Her flare, her elegance, her attitude, the poised sense of self, her kindness – everything is a breathtakingly stunning thing to behold.
“She wasn’t looking for a knight. She was looking for a sword.” – Atticus
While most people are not sure about their direction in life, an alpha woman clearly is a no-nonsense, hardworking, ambitious woman with a sense of purpose and direction in life. They are killing female stereotypes, ever since they have been conceptualized. If you believe that the only place a woman is supposed to be is in the kitchen, an alpha woman is not your cup of coffee!
Once you encounter one of these alpha women, you will either collect your triggered male ego and run in the opposite direction or be forever enraptured by her presence and stay. There’s no in-between with these absolutely wonderful creations of God.
I will give you a luring 8 reasons why an alpha woman is the best partner you can ever have in your life (only if you are ready to accept her the way she is!). Because always remember, she is in charge of herself, knows what she wants and you are not a necessity, you are a cherry on the cake – optional.
Here are the 8 reasons why an alpha woman is the best partner you can ever have:
Can you always count on your partner? Do you believe that your partner will make up for the times you are not at your best?
A relationship entails both the partners to be able to rely on each other, trust each other, and be emotionally mature and strong enough to take matters into one’s own responsibility.
Are you both gonna be late from office? Rely on your alpha woman to finish office chores, pick up the kids and also make snacks for you.
She is an extremely well-balanced individual who exudes self-integrity. Also, stay rest assured that she will keep her promises of sticking with you through thick and thin, as her belief system is as strongly defined as her boundaries.
2. Zero melodrama.
An alpha woman doesn’t take the shelter of petty melodrama to consistently fish attention out of you. They neither have the patience, nor the time for that bullshit. If you have some conflict with her, she would prefer to talk about it and resolve it as soon as possible, instead of dealing with the issue with passive-aggressive techniques.
She doesn’t stoop down enough to hold on to secret grudges against you to use them as grenades in future arguments like, “2 years ago, on 1st March, at 20 hours 30 minutes 23 seconds, you asked me to shut up so we are gonna fight over it today!”
What’s the brownie point she carries home? You will forget about slamming doors, blame games, guilt trips, and other such manipulative techniques as she will always be transparent with you. Zero drama.
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3. Clinginess? Forget about that.
You remember right, that she is with you because she wants to be with you, not because she needs you? If you believe that you threatening to leave her will have any effect on her, then you are thoroughly mistaken.
Well, the bitter truth is, she will be equally happy being alone and single as she is with you. She is not desperate to be in a relationship with you hence doesn’t require your constant approval or appreciation to function in life. She will respect and value your need for personal space and never whine and cry for that extra dose of attention.
4. A constant inspiration.
She gives zero F to nonsense, this includes your lame excuses of not being able to pursue your dreams.
If you ever find yourself procrastinating, discouraged, lagging behind, slumping, and wanting to give up on yourself, she will be the kick to your demotivated self.
This is not because she loves to exercise control, but because she is a good judge of your potential. She knows what you can achieve and will always keep influencing, challenging, and inspiring you to give your best.