Wanting to be alone, and feeling lonely are entirely two different things, even though most people don’t seem to get that. People who like to be alone, and identify as a loner will never feel the pangs of loneliness, because for them, being alone is one of the best feelings ever.
People who like to be alone, are not the way they are because they don’t have anybody to spend time with; wanting to be alone is a choice they make because it makes them feel happy and fulfilled. Solitude helps them recharge themselves, and get in touch with who they are on the inside. They are extremely self-aware, and that’s why they are so comfortable with being alone.
Here Are 6 Special Personality Traits Of People Who Like To Be Alone
1) Being loyal is first and foremost.
The thing is that introverts don’t hang out with a lot of people. So the few people they know are extremely important to them. Also, introverts realize that one of the most important premises of any relationship is trust and loyalty. So, they are very loyal in their relationships because they realize the value of relationships.
Most importantly they realize the concept of happy and fulfilling relationships. Thus, loyalty is a core value for an introvert. They never compromise on it and they won’t even let you get away with cheating or lying to them. Is that clear?
2) They like doing new things as well.
Well, people think that introverts love to live life in a strict particular way. This indirectly means that introverts don’t like doing new things. Not at all true. Even introverts, like extroverts, love to do new things. It is just that they don’t publicize it as much as the extroverts do.
You know, introverts don’t need that much attention for everything that they do. So from their social media platforms, it may seem that they are boring and love their diurnal sad lives, not true. Introverts have happy interesting lives as well.
3) They are calm and confident.
Most people assume that introverts don’t talk because they are nervous or something. Again, not true. Introverts are actually very calm and confident.
They have got everything sorted in their minds. They just don’t talk much because they don’t want to. There is apparently no other reason except that.
4) They aren’t uncomfortable alone.
Now, people assume that introverts are sad and alone and they have nothing to do with their lives so they spend time with their pets. The thing is firstly, this is a myth, and secondly that even if introverts have such a life they aren’t uncomfortable with it.
They have no regrets about choosing such a life because they chose to be so. They chose to spend their time on themselves and on themselves. Why would they be sad or uncomfortable about being alone then?
5) They value time.
The thing is that people who spend time alone know the value of time. This is why they spend their time alone, in the first place. So, introverts will always consider their time to important. But, not only this, they will also value the time of other people around them.
This is because they understand and respect the concept of time. For them, time is the most crucial and deciding factor and so it must be spent well rather than in a stupid way. Trust an introvert because they will never ever waste your time.
6) They have a strong sense of personal space.
Yes, introverts are very particular about what is personal and what is public. They conduct themselves in a certain way in the public eye. They also don’t let everyone enter their private sphere. They want to be the only ones who know about their private life.
As hard it is to maintain a private life these days, introverts are pretty good at this game. They will always distinguish between the private and the public no matter whichever situation they are in.
If you know someone who is an introvert, spend more time in making them comfortable. If you build a connection with an introvert, you will know how fulfilling and beautiful it is. They are the best among the lot!