9 Reasons Why You Should Spend More Time Alone With Yourself

 May 05, 2017

9 Reasons Why You Should Spend More Time Alone With Yourself
“We are all alone, born alone, die alone, and—in spite of True Romance magazines—we shall all someday look back on our lives and see that, in spite of our company, we were alone the whole way. I do not say lonely—at least, not all the time—but essentially, and finally, alone. This is what makes your self-respect so important, and I don’t see how you can respect yourself if you must look in the hearts and minds of others for your happiness.”
~ Hunter S. Thompson

When was the last time you took a break from everything and everyone just so you could spend some time alone with yourself? When was the last time you gave yourself as much love, appreciation, and affection as you give to those around you?

Most people give a lot to those around them, but very little to themselves. And because of that, they get imbalanced. They neglect their health, they forget about their dreams, needs, and desires, they forget about who they truly are underneath it all, and gradually, without them even realizing it, they become a stranger to themselves.

This isn’t how we should treat our own selves. When you deeply love and care about someone, you spend time alone with that person. And the same you should do with yourself. You deserve as much acknowledgment, love, and appreciation as everyone else. And before expecting to get all of these things from anyone else, you should first learn how to offer them to yourself.

“We need solitude because when we’re alone, we’re free from obligations, we don’t need to put on a show, and we can hear our own thoughts.” ~ Tamim Ansary

9 Reasons Why You Should Spend More Time Alone With Yourself:

1. You get to know yourself.

“A human being has so many skins inside, covering the depths of the heart. We know so many things, but we don’t know ourselves! Why, thirty or forty skins or hides, as thick and hard as an ox’s or bear’s, cover the soul. Go into your own ground and learn to know yourself there.” ~ Meister Eckhart

You are the most important person in your own life, the hero of your life story, and by taking the time to be alone with yourself, to be yourself and to know yourself, you will reach deep into your own heart and Soul, and you will get to experience the beauty, the greatness and the wonder of you. And what can be more beautiful than that?


2. You learn how to be alone without feeling lonely.

Orson Welles was right when he said that “We are born alone and we die alone. We come into this world all alone, and even though along the way we will find companionship in our friends, family, and the many people we will meet along the way, there will still be moments when we will be all alone. And even though this can be a scary thought, if we take the time to be alone with ourselves – to love, accept, embrace and make peace with who we are, eventually we will learn how to be alone with ourselves without feeling lonely. And we will no longer have to live in fear…

2 comments on “9 Reasons Why You Should Spend More Time Alone With Yourself

  1. Thinking and.. I might be a weird persona, in an awesome way.. I guess I can sense emotions in people.. In the beginning I was reacting to those emotions as a mirror. If someone was negative I would turn negative very quickly..I decided and learned hopefully that I should stop acting like an on/off switch and not take anyone seriously.. And I’ very anxious to communication.. I listen only when I really have to.. It’s small talk, shitting..I was thinking about my emotions today and.. I can not seem to find difference between love and mercy.. I have mercy for MANY things but love? I have strong compassion yet I can turn aggressive towards abusers in an instant not caring for notional law or consequence.. I will have to work on this, because abusers have been abused.. I am a healer.. I tend to sense vibes from distance, I’m perceptive, I find patterns.. I get to feel like the other person.. Then I emotionally dive into themselves for the time being I am with them to heal them.. I think that is my purpose, I love doing that. When I sense the person is in denial I tend to make them talk..Some are too stubborn to talk. Some are in denial. Some are hurt and are avoiding.. Some are aware and hate themselves for the things they have done.. Some are shocked by trauma of close lost one.. And the last one is greatest pain.. Especially for the young children that have gone through this..I get to live the life of others.. One day I’m a soldier. Other day I’m a loner. Some other day I’m a good friend.. When the person is finally ‘healed’ I tend to move on.. The problem is with the one that is not healed, the problem is I can not love easily…And I can not ever be truly myself unless I am alone, not even then lol Or all of this can be just one of the characters of mine, writing.. 😀

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