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If You Don’t Love All Of Her, Let Her Go

If you don’t love her completely, let her go. If you’re happier when she isn’t around, let her go. If you’re more interested in talking to other girls, let her go.

If you think you’re doing her a favor by staying so you don’t break her heart, you’re wrong and an idiot.

Don’t think you’re doing her a favor by staying with her because I can promise you that’s not a favor. You’re not easing her pain by trying to act happy in a relationship you’re so desperately trying to get out of.

You’re not helping her by loving her out of guilt or obligation. You’re being selfish and she deserves better than that.I don’t care who she is if she’s being loyal and loves you with her whole heart, she deserves better than that.

If you don’t love the way she looks when she rolls out of bed in the morning, let her go. If you don’t love the way she is when she’s cranky and tired, let her go. If you don’t love her when she’s excited over the news she received over lunch, let her go. If you don’t love the way she flirts with you and tries to make you happy, let her go.Because she is every piece of that, every cranky, happy and sad moment, she is all over that. She is every imperfect and flawed part of her.

You can’t chose the pieces of her you love because she is all those tiny pieces made into one and if you don’t love her for those flawed piece, you have to let her go.

Making her hold on when you have every intention of letting go isn’t fair. It isn’t fair to her for you to keep stringing her along. You’re not saving her from a heartbreak, you’re not making her feel better by staying with her out of pity, you’re being selfish. All you’re really doing is stopping her for finding someone who really and truly loves every part of her.

Someone will love the way she cries at sad movies. Someone will love her when she’s had a tough day. Someone will love her when she’s overly excited and can’t control her happiness. Someone will love how she laughs like a fool when she’s in a good mood. Someone will love the way she sleeps and look at her like she’s his whole world.

No one is perfect, everyone has bad days and bad attitudes, but you have to love them through their rough parts. Everything isn’t going to be sunshine and rainbows, relationships are hard and they require constant work and love. If you can’t picture a future with her through the hard parts, let her go.

If you don’t love every part of her don’t stay with her out of guilt because you don’t want to break her heart.

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