HAVE you ever wondered why you’re single and alone? Worried that you’ll die alone and be eaten by alsatians?
You might fret that your waistline and your wardrobe are the barriers to bagging a bloke, but the problem could actually be your personality.
It’s harsh but true. And to be fair, earlier this week we took aim at the eight types of guys that women really hate, so consider this gender equality.
Below are the eight types of women guys will always stay away from.
If you recognize yourself, don’t fret too much.
They’re not deal-breakers, but they are red flags. You don’t need to change your personality, but perhaps you could be more aware of the ways you’re cheesing off the other half of the population.
8. The Man Hater
Why she’s so unappealing: This is the woman who is abrasive from the first moment she meets a man. Everything about the male gender angers her. He’s confident; she sees it as cockiness. He cracks a joke; she thinks he’s a cheeseball. His shirt’s untucked; he’s an unkempt slob who can’t be trusted.
What to do if you are her: We get it. A man once broke your heart/cheated on you/did you wrong in general. He sucks, we agree. But he doesn’t represent all of the male race, so give us a break. You need to take a serious look at the cause of these feelings and change your tune.
Why she’s so unappealing: Everything’s a drama with this woman, and then it escalates to full-blown crazy. The term comes from Fatal Attraction, in which (spoiler alert) Glenn Close boils the pet rabbit of the man she’s obsessed with. But Bunny Boilers were around in spirit long before the term was coined, and you can bet they’ll continue to surface. She’s the girl whose love seems like touching devotion at first, but turns out to be a bit obsessive.
What to do if you are her: Cool it. Just chill right out when it comes to men. At least once in your life, there will be a man who’s just not that into you, no matter how much you want him to be. That’s life, and you have to accept what you can’t control. Put the bunny down.
6. The Princess
Why she’s so unappealing: On the surface, she’s not unappealing at all. In fact, in some men’s eyes, she’s just the ticket. But scratch the perfectly manicured surface (yes, the Princess even sleeps in make-up) and you’ll find drama, drama, drama. This high maintenance woman needs to be doted on like royalty. She gets everything she wants. And she won’t necessarily return the gesture.
What to do if you are her: You probably just need to find the right man. There are blokes out there who will be happy to be your prince (read: slave). But he just wants you because you’re hot. And if you’re complicit in this arrangement, you shouldn’t be surprised when he drops you for a newer model later on.
5. The Kiss And Tell
Why she’s so unappealing: Call us insecure, but guys hate it when you talk about them to your friends. It’s our worst nightmare to think that you and your girlfriends might be gossiping about our relationship or sex life to people on the outside. Especially when we see these girls later and they have a knowing smile or a disapproving leer on their dial.
What to do if you are her: Understand that some things should stay behind closed doors. You and your friends are tight, we get that, and it’s human nature to talk about the major relationships in our lives. But some things are intimate and discretion is required. Next time you bring up your man with your girlfriends, ask yourself this question: Would I like it if he was talking to his friends about this? Also, try talking to your fella.You might be surprised by his insight.
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Umm how stupid and anti feminist. Love the scrutiny women come under. Look good but not too good. Be independent but don’t act too independent. Be smart but not too smart. Ugh. Fucking really!?!?!?
It isn’t great to categorise people I agree, but at the same time I appreciate the minds journal showing some balance and not just printing articles categorising men and explaining to men what they need to do to keep women happy in relationships. I can definitely relate my experiences to some of this article if not definitively in one category. What is consistent for me with women is there is very often this abstract point where they want things to change, things they loved about you before now aren’t acceptable and the intimacy and affection, you shared (not necessarily sex, but can be that too) get held back until you give them what they want, which very few are upfront about, you are supposed to just understand what and why. Frankly, this is where I have learnt to draw the line and say: when you’re ready to be open and honest you have my number. And I get all the crap you see in this article then: you’re too cocky, etc etc etc. That is my experience; very much true: thoughts are cloaked and there’s a tendency to project that onto me: what does it mean when he says? The girl she was happy you were friends with before is now an issue and has an hidden agenda. No that’s you playing that game… Hit me up when your ready to stop? K you’re right I am dickhead like all guys sure… Bye then!
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Times are Charging& so are men & Women? ??
If u start judging women or men like this then there will be nobody left to be with.. There r more to people than these 8 or 9 issues.. Avoid those from the past becoz it wasn’t meant to be and that’s why they r the past.. Leave the future open..