Sometimes, women don’t actively choose to be single and alone, and that can make them worried and stressed. If you think about the problem more deeply, maybe you’ll find out that you’re still single because you’re one of the eight types of women guys avoid.
While most of us feel that we are unsuccessful in the world of dating because of our imperfect body and uncool wardrobe- let me tell you that all of those external things are secondary to men. The real problem lies in the personality of a woman. It may sound harsh, nonetheless, it’s a true fact.
Now, don’t take this personally- consider this article an example of gender equality- because we have written about things in men women hate, many times before!
A gentle reminder- if you identify yourself as one of these eight types of women guys avoid, described below- fret not. We aren’t implying that you’ll be alone for the rest of your life. Consider them to be red flags that repel the other half of the population, and with the tips given below, we hope you’ll be more aware of the problem.
8. The Hater of Men
Why she’s avoided: She’s has a harsh behavior towards the opposite gender, often wounding men with her abrasive judgment. She finds flaws in almost every kind of man. If he’s confident, she labels it as cockiness. If he likes to crack jokes, she sees him as a walking cheeseball. If he sports a casual style with an untucked shirt, she perceives him to be a disheveled slob who must be avoided.
What can you do if you are this woman: Usually, this hatefulness towards men comes from past issues. Probably a man wronged you and broke your heart. But that one man doesn’t represent all men, so cool your anger. Try to understand the source of these feelings and change your behavior towards men.
Read 6 Ways To Stop Hating Men
7. The Bunny-boiler
Why she’s avoided: Bunny boiler is a term that is used with reference to the 1987 film Fatal Attraction, where the rejected woman, Glenn Close, boils her lover’s pet rabbit. It represents a woman who acts full-blown crazy when spurned by her man. She’s the lady who seems like a devotional lover at first, but she’s actually the obsessive lover, who’s obsessed to the point of engaging in mad, vengeful acts.
What can you do if you are this woman: Calm yourself down. Get a hold on your revengeful thoughts. You can’t control everything happening in your life. Every woman has been with a man at least once in her life who isn’t that into her, and takes her casually, despite her efforts. It’s okay, you can’t control it. Just don’t boil the poor bunny!
Read How To Give A Man Space So That He Comes Back To Love You More
6. The Princess
Why she’s avoided: Looks-wise, she’s quite the stunner that most men would love to romance. But once you try to go beneath the attractive exterior, you’ll be repelled by her constant need for drama and pampering. She’s high maintenance and enjoys being worshiped like royalty. But when it comes to returning the gesture, she doesn’t consider it necessary at all.
What can you do if you are this woman: No doubt that you’ll find a man to be your prince charming (read: servant) because many men want to land a hot girl. But don’t complain when he discards you like an object and goes to a newer and hotter model. So just wait for that man, or start working towards being a nicer human being in your relationship.
5. The Blabbermouth
Why she’s avoided: Most guys dislike nothing more than their girlfriend gossiping about every detail of the relationship, including the intimate times, to her girl gang. Call them insecure, but they simply despise the giggles, knowing smiles and whisperings that he faces when he meets her friends.
What can you do if you are this woman: We get it, you love sharing the joys of your love life with your girlfriends, it’s only human to enjoy it. But understand when to exert discretion. Would you like it if your guy blabs to his friends about your personal moments with him? Wouldn’t you feel exposed? Men are no different in this matter.
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1; FEMALE. 2; FEMALE. 3; FEMALE. 4; FEMALE. 5; FEMALE. 6; FEMALE. 7; FEMALE. 8; FEMALE. THE REST ARE FINE.
Umm how stupid and anti feminist. Love the scrutiny women come under. Look good but not too good. Be independent but don’t act too independent. Be smart but not too smart. Ugh. Fucking really!?!?!?
It isn’t great to categorise people I agree, but at the same time I appreciate the minds journal showing some balance and not just printing articles categorising men and explaining to men what they need to do to keep women happy in relationships. I can definitely relate my experiences to some of this article if not definitively in one category. What is consistent for me with women is there is very often this abstract point where they want things to change, things they loved about you before now aren’t acceptable and the intimacy and affection, you shared (not necessarily sex, but can be that too) get held back until you give them what they want, which very few are upfront about, you are supposed to just understand what and why. Frankly, this is where I have learnt to draw the line and say: when you’re ready to be open and honest you have my number. And I get all the crap you see in this article then: you’re too cocky, etc etc etc. That is my experience; very much true: thoughts are cloaked and there’s a tendency to project that onto me: what does it mean when he says? The girl she was happy you were friends with before is now an issue and has an hidden agenda. No that’s you playing that game… Hit me up when your ready to stop? K you’re right I am dickhead like all guys sure… Bye then!
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Times are Charging& so are men & Women? ??
If u start judging women or men like this then there will be nobody left to be with.. There r more to people than these 8 or 9 issues.. Avoid those from the past becoz it wasn’t meant to be and that’s why they r the past.. Leave the future open..