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The 5 Main Phases of a Twin Flame Relationship

Phases of Twin Flame Relationship

Here’re are five main Phases of a Twin Flame Relationship.

AS WE ALL KNOW A Twin flame relationship is not all ‘perfect’, as one might expect, especially in the beginning (usually a few years)

After reading or hearing about twin-flames and their perfectly balanced energies, many people think it would be like a fairy tale, the you-find-your-twin flame-and-live-happily-ever-after kind of thing.

It is not.

It is a perfect relationship, but it needs some work from both the partners.

Related: Why Twin Flames Meet Later in Life?

After having been separated from each other literally millions of years ago, both twin-flames(of all souls) went through a lot of pain and suffering… and gathered negative emotions in the process.

These take a while to get sorted. And this can be difficult at times.

But you’ll get through it…
Love will take you there…
And then the world is your canvas and you’re the painters…
Together, in love, harmony, in Eternal Bliss

There are, as I see It, Five main phases of a twin flame relationship.

Everyone understands the twin flame relationship differently… and there are no clear timelines or specific periods for any of these phases. Each differs for every twin flame couple.

Related: The Untold And Often Overlooked Signs That You Have Met Your Twin Flame

I’m giving you this information so that you can understand this relationship better.
There are no rules. And there is no One-size-fits-all in a Twin Flame relationship.
Each relationship will be unique, just like each couple.

Main Phases of a Twin Flame Relationship
The 4 Main Phases of a Twin Flame Relationship

Here are the five main phases that usually resonate with all twin flames in some way.

Phase One – The Preparation

This phase comes BEFORE you meet your twin flame.

But I’m counting it as one of the phases as It is very much a part of your Twin flame relationship.

Watch this video to know how to recognize your twin flame:

What happens in this phase –

– Karmic Relationships

There are one or a few seriously devastating relationships. These begin with strong emotions and end painfully. These are called Karmic relationships.

Related: How To Know If It’s a Karmic, Twin Flame or Soulmate Relationship

– Emptiness and Strong desire for ‘The One’

After you’ve been through the Karmic relationships, you’ll have a very deep yearning or desire to find ‘The One’.

At this point, you will desire meeting your perfect love, whose image you will carry in your imagination (or in some cases in Dreams).
This Image is of your Twin flame, although you probably won’t realize it at this point.
This happens because your soul knows your Twin flame is coming!

Related: Twin Flame — 6 Signs That Tell You’ve Found Your Soul’s Other Half

Phase Two – The Meeting – A Glimpse Of Heaven

This is one of the phases of the twin flame relationship when you meet your twin flame for the first time (in this incarnation).

You might try to resist at this point but you will fall for him/her anyway.
Then comes a short period of ‘perfection’.
This is what I like to call A Glimpse of Heaven

What happens In this Phase –

The first meeting

You’ll meet your twin flame in unusual circumstances or at some unexpected place.
[A place where you would not expect meeting your life partner/soulmate]
You’ll find this person somehow ‘special’ at this point. Even though you might not even think of them as a partner.

The initial attraction

You’ll soon find yourself being attracted to your twin flame.
You might not be ready for a relationship (because of the karmic relationships that you’ve been through) and so you might try to resist this attraction.
You’ll fall anyway. Deeply in love.

A short period of the most ‘Perfect’ relationship that you’ve ever experienced.

After the initial attraction, You’ll find yourself in a deeply romantic relationship.
It will seem perfect in every possible way.
You’ll find all that you want in your partner and much more.

This is what the Twinflame relationship is actually supposed to be like.

And this is what it becomes ( if not better ) after you get through the problems that surface in the next phase.

This short period makes you aware of the perfection of yourself and your twin flame and brings back the memories that were always deep within you. This makes you want to go through the next phase ( which is a little tough ).

It’s like a trailer for what your relationship is going to be in phase four, after the reunion.

Related: Twin Flames Separation: The Runner and the Chaser

Phase three – The Dance – Resolving what is known as the Karma

This is the tough one.

It starts after you’ve been in a relationship with your twin flame for a while.
In this phase of a twin flame relationship, all the accumulated negativity and lower emotions come to the surface.

This seems difficult to go through at the human level, but it is actually a truly divine process in which the Twin flames get deeply cleansed with each other’s help.

This lets them achieve higher energy levels so that they can ascend in bliss together.

This is also the phase where both twin flames get spiritually enlightened…
This is when they search and find the spiritual reality.
If you’re currently in a Twinflame relationship, you’re probably in this phase (As This is the period of time when you usually begin finding information on this).

What Happens in this Phase –

– Arguments / Fights

This phase brings many arguments and fights.
This happens because the negativity that each partner is carrying within (usually at a subconscious level) comes to the surface.
The twin flame will reflect this like a mirror and so you’ll think its in them when in reality it’s in you.
This begins the deep cleansing process.


The blame game

Each twin flame sees their own negativity and clutter in their twin flame.
Also, deep-seated fears and frustrations surface.
So you think It’s happening because of the other and start blaming each other.

You consciously might not realize it but this is clearing all your clutter which is a good thing.

The runner and the Chaser.

The arguments and the Blaming causes a lot of confusion (because usually the spiritual process is not understood by the conscious mind, as we are conditioned to trust logic more that feeling)

One twin flame, at this point, takes the role of the ‘Runner’ (which is usually the man)
The Runner tries to avoid the partner and run away from the relationship.

This happens because the runner doesn’t consciously know what is going on and feels like he’s losing control.

In our defense system, we build up huge walls to protect ourselves THIS HAPPENS AS SOON as we meet someone who will help us to repeat our patterns of abuse, abandonment, betrayal, and/or deprivation. He happens because those people feel familiar.

Unfortunately, in childhood the people whom we trusted the most – were the most familiar – hurt us the most. So the effect is that we keep repeating our patterns and being given the reminder that it is not safe to trust ourselves or other people.

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zanem Jassym

I am a journalist, a blogger and an aspiring author and I write mostly about relationships, abuse, human psychology and spirituality.View Author posts