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5 Signs You’re Experiencing A ‘False Twin Flame’ Relationship

Signs Experiencing False Twin Flame Relationship

You seem to have a profound connection with your mirror soul. But something doesn’t seem right about them. Here are 12 false twin flame signs to look out for!

Right from the very moment you meet, twin flame relationships are intense and overwhelming, and you usually know you’ve met someone serious, someone important.

False twin flames can be equally as intense and overwhelming – sometimes more so because of the emotional pain and damage false flames can cause.

While the relationships can be painful to go through, false twin flames serve a valuable purpose: they’re your trial run for your real twin flame relationship.

5 Signs You're Experiencing A 'False Twin Flame' Relationship
Signs You Met Your False Twin Flame

In this trial run, you can make all the mistakes and bash your head a few times and learn what you need to do better the next time around.

This way, when you do meet your twin flame, you are better equipped to manage the emotional intensity of the relationship, as well as navigate day-to-day life while this spectacular twin flame whirlwind unfolds around you.

So how do you know if the person you’ve met is your false twin flame? What signs can you look for?

5 False Twin Flame Signs To Look Out For

1. You Can’t Get Out Of The Runner-Chaser Phase

In a false twin flame, one of you always seems to be chasing the other one.

Sometimes you even land up taking turns chasing each other, where one of you just doesn’t feel right each time the opportunity to settle comes around.

Even if it is because one of you compromises to accommodate the other, a real twin flame relationship will settle down for periods where you will feel like you are in a relationship.

It will be balanced, there will be real communication flow and both of you will acknowledge that you are in a relationship. In a false twin flame, the status of the relationship is always somehow in question.

Related: How To Know If It’s a Karmic, Twin Flame or Soulmate Relationship

2. Booty Calls

If every time you talk lands up being late at night, and/or lands up being sexual, or you only see each other when you hook up (late at night usually), then you’re in a false twin flame.

It doesn’t matter how attached you are to the other person if they don’t reciprocate that intensity and attachment, and they aren’t committed to creating a stable connection with regular contact and interaction, then you are dealing with a false twin.

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5 False Twin Flame Signs

This is a difficult one as well because a lot of twin flames are being challenged by issues like long-distance relationships, or meeting partners who are already committed.

What’s important to distinguish here is that the relationship settles into a relationship feel – you both know you are committed and in this, and you have a future together, whatever that future looks like.

If your engagements are always sexual and you’re questioning the relationship stuff, always left wanting and needing, then you’re dealing with a false twin flame.

Related – Why Twin Flames Meet Later in Life?

3. You’re Never Sure Of Where You Stand

With a false twin flame, you’re always likely to be questioning your relationship and the validity thereof.

You might compromise for a true twin flame, but you will know where you stand and that you are committed to each other.

That means that if you aren’t sure if you can tell people that this person is involved with you because you aren’t sure where they stand, then you are likely dealing with a false twin.

Related: The Untold And Often Overlooked Signs That You Have Met Your Twin Flame

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Chemory Gunko

The author and creator of the Life Coaches Toolbox, Healer, Life Coach & NLP Practitioner, Chemory Gunko, also known as Amara Christi. She teaches, coaches, mentor, does readings and healings and makes a huge body of work available to spiritual journeys on her site, Author posts