19 Real Life Examples of An Extroverted Introvert

Yes I’m outgoing… But not all the time!

 October 06, 2015

19 Real Life Examples of An Extroverted Introvert2

5. We’re open to meeting your other friends. Just let us know ahead of time that we’ll be meeting new people so we can mentally prepare ourselves to socialize.

We’re not closed off to meeting new people, it’s just a very exhausting thing to do. So we literally have to prepare ourselves to socialize. We have to get into the mindset of, “Okay, I’m going to be talking a lot.”

6. Despite needing our alone time, we do get lonely.

It’s difficult to balance between alone time and not feeling lonely. Often we’ll want to go out because we feel alone, but our apartment is so comfortable that we won’t want to leave.

7. It’s hard to get us out, but we’ll have a great time when we go out.

Sometimes we’ll require some coercing to get us out of the house. Again, it’s not that we don’t want to go out, we just start thinking, “What if it’s not fun? I could totally be reading my book. What if the tickets are sold out? What if they don’t actually want me to go and they’re just inviting me to be nice? We begin to draw into our own heads and make up things that could go wrong and use them as excuses to not go out.

8. We’ll happily chat up your parents/friends/girlfriend/boyfriend/boss/etc., but once it’s over, we require silence.

After so much talking, we really need to recharge.

9. We’re not always the most talkative person in a group, but if someone is in need of a social life jacket, we can step up and offer that.

Again, we’ll happily chat someone up if the situation arises. We get that conversation can be uncomfortable, so if we see someone who is worse than us at holding a conversation, then we’ll take the initiative to make them feel more comfortable.

9. We won’t plan a party, but if we do, it’s a really big deal for us.

We can’t imagine hosting an event solely for our own sake. We don’t even think people would want to come to a party that we host. So if we do host something, it’s a big deal for us.

10. We live in our heads even if it seems like we put ourselves out there.

Even when we’re being outgoing, our thoughts are still running and analyzing the situation.

11. Because we can be outgoing and calculated at the same time, sometimes we end up being leaders. But that does not mean we want praise, nor do we want to talk about how great we are.

People seem to think that we’re fit to be leaders. We can stand up and talk in front of crowds when we need to. We can make decisions when we need to. But we often analyze ourselves and don’t think highly of our skill sets. Sometimes we don’t believe we’re good enough to lead. We always think we can be better so praise often makes us cringe.

6 comments on “19 Real Life Examples of An Extroverted Introvert

  1. Although I agree with the idea that we can't be put into boxes and labelled as introvert/extrovert as these are too restrictive, you've actually put yourself into a box that says extrovert-introvert. Forget the labels. Also, the fact you have put 19 ideas to describe your label appears to show you've tried to cover all bases and most of them don't ring true. Why feel the need?

  2. My balance , a mixture of both , silent in a group of extroverts , to study their behaviour patterns , and a bit talkative and slightly outgoing in a group that's known to me ..

  3. At times I have been the most extrovert person I have ever. At times I have been the most introvert I have ever. I'm only extrovert if I feel that the people around me have my back. If they don't, I'm not. If there is no-one, im not. But I have slowly been teaching myself to be extravert when I'm surrounded by people yet alone at the same time. There are some techniques/tactics I've come across for the switch….
    Being open… Open minded, open chest, open arms, head high.
    Being grounded – knowing where the ground is… Thanking gravity for rooting me to the floor, identifying what I can see, hear, smell and fee.
    Judgment – accept it and avoid the fear of it
    Breathe – deep slow breathes
    Confidence – fake it till you make it
    Voice – lower and project it
    Eye contact – strong…. Look into people's eyes and see their soul
    Purpose – act with purpose
    Fear – put it to the side.. You can have it later if you want
    Nike – just do it. Go for it. Give it 110%
    Passion – tap into it deeply
    Relax – where you feel it w
    I'll be useful

    Home – heal.

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