When you use Socratic method to win an argument.
Of course, the title of the article was able to grab your attention.
Why wouldn’t it?
Obviously, you want to win arguments. Don’t you?
Read on to find out how you actually can…
Are you sick of silly arguments with your partner?
Do you find it difficult to convey your idea to the other person?
Is the result of most of your arguments a ‘Heated verbal fight’?
Well, if the answers to the above questions in a yes, then by knowing this one simple method you can win over
arguments and prove your mettle.
Well, you know how philosophers keep talking about important life matters all the time. Philosophy does try to solve some of our problems through argument but we usually declare the solutions that philosophy offers to be too idealistic and non-practical.
We dismiss them and try to find more “Real” solutions. But maybe, let’s suppose, philosophy does have the answers for you this time! Maybe, philosophy can help you win the argument.
Ever heard the term Socratic Method?
What is the Socratic Method?
The Socratic Method is a 2000-year-old trick that will surely help you to win some arguments. It has stood the test of time and is still quite a popular method for argumentation.
It was developed by Socrates as the name suggests. As most of us know, Socrates was an ancient Greek philosopher whose method was a bit different. He would ask questions after questions from his students during all the discussions that were held.
Because of this the students would get overwhelmed eventually and easily make some self-contradictory remark. This approach thereby proves that there is a fallacy in everyone first argument.
Thus, all first arguments are mere assumptions. We make these assumptions based on our perceptions. Since different people see the world differently, all assumptions are different.
Thus, our views obviously differ from someone else’s views. But we don’t accept the difference in discourse. All we desire is a similarity. Hence, we do need the Socratic Method. It is no wonder then that this method has been held in very high esteem among educated communities for such a long time.
Socratic Method consists of the continual use of questions to transfer the latent idea and to expose the main line of thought.
This approach helps to make the other person see your point of view without any conflict. This makes the person realize that there are other ways of approaching the problem and that those ways are as acceptable as the way the person is suggesting.
The Socratic Method is also known as maieutics or the method of elenchus. Actually, this method was created to arrive at a better conclusion in logic by eliminating hypothesis which does not fit well in the argument.
By this Socrates found out the validity of the “commonly held truth”. He scrutinized this truth with critical questions and thus determined their consistency with other beliefs.By expressing your point in form of a question, you make it less threatening for the other person.
It is a natural human tendency to explain one’s stand, by asking questions, you give the other person a chance to be more comfortable.
But again this depends on how you ask your questions. If questions are asked in a very forceful manner, it will act in a completely opposite way as this will put immense pressure on the other person.
This approach becomes even more important when our loved ones are involved in the discussion.
We do not want to hurt their feelings intentionally but in the heat of an argument, we may end up inadvertently hurting them. The best way to deal with this situation is to use the Socratic Method.
Have you ever counted the meaningless fights that you have had with your partner?
Did you realize that most of these fights happen because the people involved feel that they are not being heard?
This can be avoided if you follow this method.