(2) Niceness and all smiles:
Sorry folks! We aren’t nice always and smiling at each and everyone we see around us; definitely not to those who aren’t nice to us.
Don’t even expect us to be. Niceness is a reciprocation which one needs to earn. It’s not something we owe. Just because you are a man, you simply cannot behave badly and expect us to be nice.
That’s not something you will expect from anyone else, either. We aren’t like those Barbie dolls with that plastic smile.
We have our emotions, our depressions, our ups and downs, our mood-swings. So get rid of that fancy idea out of your head that women are nice and that gives you the liberty to do anything with them.
If we aren’t nice to you, deal with it yourself, ask yourself why and don’t harass us. If we aren’t smiling at you, then there might be some reasons.
You might be responsible for it or you might not be. But that doesn’t make any difference.
(3) Rejection and being more than friends:
Yes, we are pretty. You might be good too, handsome, a good job, talented. But we have every right to reject you. Yes, you are free to ask for reasons but sometimes, we might not tell you exactly why.
Just because one woman has rejected you, that doesn’t mean you will get rejected by others. That doesn’t also mean that you will keep on harassing her.
Also, we can’t just be more than friends. It’s completely our wish. Just be logical and deal with these issues like any other human being would.
Just because we are women, that doesn’t mean we will talk to you always. We might like to have a conversation with you or we might not.
Don’t blame us if we don’t because it’s a choice, not an obligation.
Understand us, understand women. We are human beings like you all.
We have our own lives. Love us and respect us.