Real Love Is a Deliberate Choice

Real Love Is a Deliberate Choice

I recently came across this wonderful quote: “No one falls in love by choice, it is by chance. No one stays in love by chance, it is my work. And no one falls out of love by chance, it is by choice.”

Whenever my wife and I run into a problem in our marriage we do our best to choose love. While we’re certainly not perfect, the love we share today is more real and more wonderful than anything we had ever anticipated.

So, whatever spontaneous storm may come our way I plan on loving my wife.

If you truly love someone (and they truly love you), commit to that love and plan on it being hard work.

But also plan on it being the most rewarding work of your life.

Written by Seth Adam Smith Originally appeared on

Real Love Is a Deliberate Choice

10 thoughts on “Real Love Is a Deliberate Choice”

  1. Unfortunately, not every real lover will be loved back. Sometimes we devote and embrace that special one in vain. I have never thought that any thing would be purer than that. And my friends, it is a blessing and also a curse.

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