How did I Marry a Narcissistic Husband? The story is similar for most women who marry a narcissist: Boy meets girl; boy sweeps girl off her feet; boy marries girl; boy changes soon after. A narcissist can be very intense at the beginning of a relationship and bombard you with love and at placing you on a pedestal. It’s easy to fall in love with a narcissist. However, his true personality starts to reveal itself as the wife endures his criticism, insults, possible beatings, or other forms of abuse. Loving and living with a narcissist takes a heavy toll; the wife takes years of abuse and loses her sense of self-worth and remains submissive to his demands. Being married to a narcissist is like walking on eggshells. You don’t know what will cause an outburst or provoke his wrath.
You figure out who they really are and now they realize you are much stronger than they thought you could be.
Maybe they saw you were destroyed once, but now you came back stronger than ever, in spite of all of the trauma that you experienced.That makes you strong. That makes you a badass.
When the narcissist realizes that not only do you now know who & what they are, but that you also recognize your VALUE and SELF-WORTH they know the show is over for them.
They want to scatter and fear about who you are going, to tell the truth about who they really are. They will be compelled to tell lies to common acquaintances (smear campaign) in an effort to discredit an
You will never get the truth out of a narcissist. The closest you will ever come is a story that either makes them the victim or the hero, but never the villain.
– Shannon L. Alder
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“I Hear You”A narcissist’s top agenda is always to be heard or seen.So, when you see your narcissist displaying child-like behavior such as temper tantrum, incessant texting, etc, try responding with, “I hear you” and then repeat back to them exactly what you heard (or read).
“Say Nothing”Narcissist loves a good argument. The more they engage with you, the more opportunities they have to break you down, insult you, and get their way. So stop trying when they have made their point, and you’ve made yours, and no agreement has been reached, stop engaging with them.
“I Trust That”Lying protects their fraudulent truth, which gives them supply when someone falls for it. Calling t
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