To A Narcissist I Once Loved – I know that you’re waiting for me to breakdown again
A narcissist’s life is all “about me.”
The quality of the hoover fuel and the ease by which the narcissist can achieve the return makes it irresistible. Hence, you tend to go back to the person who has abusive behavior and a demeaning character.
Manipulators are more convincing online than in person.
Genuine apologies can promote forgiveness, but a fake apology without any visible effort to correct damaging behavior is made to control you.
Narcissists live in their own emotional world — if they cannot be your hero, they may claim to be your victim.
Devaluation comes with a whole host of manipulations and abuses which cover the emotional, the financial, the sexual and the physical. Learn more about the narcissistic devaluation phase.