Put yourself in a situation where you have to spend your life with someone who doesn’t admire you and your opinion? And just sees you as another lady and not their better half. Yes it’s the highway to hell.
Though we all are but a package of both plus and minuses, some bad habits and traits come of as major blockages in a ‘HAPPILY EVER AFTER’ and should definitely be avoided in a potential partner. Listed below are 15 of such habits
Everyone expects to live an independent life beyond a point. Yet if a guy thwarts your routine, throwing in restrictions and stoppages on your decisions, then losing him is the best option. Restricting you to do limited things, under the fear of losing you, would be a boulder in your life and would pull you down.
2) Animal un-friendly
Everyone adores animals and pets. Only animals hate other animals. And if your guy has this feature, choosing your pet is always the wiser choice. Keeping allergies aside, it is inhumane to have hatred towards animals. This shows poor sympathy towards other creatures.
3) Disrespecting relation norms.
Everything has a protocol and every action has a rule. If your guy constantly tries to step off the line and protest against the ground rules that indicates that he disrespects your relation, and doesn’t deserve your love and time.
4) Breaking commitments
Breaking promises is the biggest way to lose trust on someone and if your guy does it often then he is just playing with you. Your opinions don’t count and your value is depleted. It can be excused once or twice but not often.
5) Doesn’t prioritize you
In a relationship, both the individuals should be equally active. If there’s no contribution or efforts from his end and you are the one holding the relationship then you should immediately end it. This means there’s lack of connect and would be a worry point after the marriage.
6) Thinks he is always right
If you are getting married to a Mr. Right then get ready to have all your views opposed. Constantly thinking that he took the right decision or stressing in whatever he did was right just proves that this guy would never have a moment of realization, which would prove fatal for you and your children.
7) Never ending excuses
If you hear “I am sorry I was busy” more than “I love you” then you have your answer to the question that “Will the excuses ever end” Constructing excuses to break commitments just shows how disinterested he is in the relationship
8) Continues the fight
Generalizing the fact that fights keep a relationship healthy, constant fights just oppose it and hints that this is an unhealthy relation. Of he keeps the fights alive, going against everything you say is a clear indication he is looking for troubles. Also it portrays that he doesn’t comprehend you well.
9) Conversation killer
You chose him because he is good at talking, but what if he intervenes your topic and makes it his own topic? Yes it’s totally annoying. Constant interruption and making everything about him reflects your position and helps you decide if you should lose him.
Sometimes lies are told to safeguard a purpose, yet one sabotaging your relation is a bad deed. Breaking the trust of the opposite person indicates how much he is into the relationship and if your guy breaks the barriers of lies, you break it off.
Personal space is demanded by every individual and should be respected by everyone. But if the guy holds on to you stopping you from carrying your chores and depends too much on you, it’s a sign of concern and weirdness.
12) Cuts off family.
Family is one of the most important things in everyone’s life. Surely they get on your nerves or cross lines but you cant abandon them. If a guy can abandon his family, the biggest backbone, then he can easily let you go and your kids go.
13) Does not value your requests.
Assuming your guy has a bad drinking habit or smoking habit, and upon numerous requests he fails to acknowledge it and continues. This means you don’t hold any significant value in his life and your requests would never be fulfilled
Constant naggings, cutting conversations, disrespecting peers or people around, sounds like what a teen would do. But if observed in a grown man, these features show his immaturity and he is the wrong guy as he can cut you off whenever he likes.
Violence of any resort should never be tolerated by anyone and if your guys even minutely posses it, go far away from him. Being in a relation where he Loses anger can prove to be the most precious mistake of your life.
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